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Source: Bahá'í Library Online (bahai-library.com), curated by Jonah Winters. Used by permission of the curator. Original citation: Violette Nakhjavani, A Tribute to Amatu'l-Baha Ruhiyyih Khanum, bahai-library.com.
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A TRIBUTE TO
AMATU'L-BAHÁ RÚHÍYYIH KHÁNUM 1
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A
TRIBUTE
TO
AMATU'L-BAHÁ
RÚHÍYYIH KHÁNUM
by
Violette Nakhjavani
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Copyright 2000
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of the Bahá'ís of Canada
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CONTENTS
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Prologue --------------------------------------- xi
I Early Years ----------------------------------- 1
II Years of Marriage to Shoghi Effendi --------- 23
III Final Years of Service and Travel ---------- 57
IV Highlights of Her Travels ------------------- 87
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LIST OF ILLUSTRATIONS
Frontispiece: Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum, 1981
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Part I
1910 through 1923 -------------------- 8 and 9
1923 through 1926 ------------------- 16 and 17
1928 through 1936 ------------------- 22 and 23
Part II
1948 through 1953 ------------------- 50 and 51
Part III
1958 through 1963 -------------------- 64 and 65
1967 through 1987 -------------------- 70 and 71
1977 through 1993 -------------------- 76 and 77
1992 through 1997 -------------------- 80 and 81
1998 through 2000 -------------------- 86 and 87
Part IV
1964 through 1997 ------------------- 89 and 117
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
The writing of this tribute in its present form would not have been
possible without the indispensable assistance of Nell Golden, the
trusted and much-loved secretary of Amatu'l-Bahá, whose meticulous
research into the body of documents about Rúhíyyih Khánum's life
provided many of the facts incorporated into this text which she also
most kindly and painstakingly typeset. I also wish to express my
appreciation and deep gratitude to my daughter Bahiyyih Nakhjavani
for her invaluable help in editing this manuscript and to Audrey
Marcus for designing the cover.
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Note: Material in the tribute has been taken from the private papers
of Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum. Unfortunately so far the original
letter of May Maxwell to Agnes Alexander quoted on pages 4-6 has not
been found but the text of the letter suggests a great deal of
credibility as it is in agreement in its essentials with the diary
notes found among the papers of Mírzá 'Alí Akbar Nakhjavání.
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PROLOGUE
On January 19th in the year 2000, a lady passed away from this
world. She was unique, and with her passing a chapter ended, a page
of history turned. And when Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum's earthly
remains were buried a few days later, the Universal House of Justice
laid her to rest in a place that is also unique. For her grave is not
on the mountainside among the sacred monuments of the Greatest Holy
Leaf and other members of the family of Bahá'u'lláh nor is it in the
cemetery where Bahá'ís at the World Centre have been buried for so
many dec-ades past. But like her place in history, it seems, almost,
to have been prepared for her by Shoghi Effendi, and lies in a garden
all on its own. Flanked on each side by associations with those who
dominated her life--her mother May Maxwell and her own Guardian-her
grave is in the little park opposite the Master's House where she
lived for 63 years and in which she left her own unique mark.
Although her place in history has thus been symbolically fixed
at her death, it will be much more difficult to frame and define a
life as rich and varied as that of Mary Maxwell, who was later given
the name and title of Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum by her beloved
husband and her Guardian. We are still too close to her to be able to
understand the true value of her services to the Bahá'í world
community and still too limited in our grasp of our own history to be
able to evaluate the different perspectives afforded by her
personality. Perhaps we are also still too influenced at the present
time by
<pxii> the twin tendencies to over-exaggerate and underestimate in
the writing of biography, to be able to do her justice. For we have
not yet learned to distinguish between proper objectivity and
voyeurism, between tiresome hagiography and the telling of a person's
spiritual story. Perhaps it is too soon to write about the life of
Rúhíyyih Khánum.
Certainly, I am no writer and would never presume to call myself
the biographer of someone as dynamic and forceful as 'Amatu'l-Bahá.
But owing to the immense honour I have had during these past forty
years, of knowing her and hearing the ways in which she chose to
define and to describe herself, I feel a certain responsibility to
make some first, poor and inadequate attempt to summarize the broad
outlines of her life.
The following monograph, in three parts, is a summary of her
story within a simple chronological framework of events. These three
parts, from Mary Maxwell's birth to Rúhíyyih Khánum's final years,
cover her early years, her years of marriage to Shoghi Effendi, and
her final years of service and travels. Like the perspectives that
flank her resting-place, they also describe the broad influences of
her life: on one side, the Old Pilgrim House, where the very room in
which her mother stayed now overlooks her grave; on the other, the
dining room of No. 10 Haparsim, in which she sat by the Guardian's
side for all the years of her marriage; and opposite, the House of
'Abdu'l-Bahá, a house redolent with history, marked by suffering and
death, a house she filled with life and laughter and to which those
whom she had met in the four comers of the world carne and enjoyed
her hospitality.
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It is a multi-faceted story with these and many more dimensions.
No doubt others more qualified than myself will explore it further
and will in the future understand it better than I can today. But
despite its modesty and insufficiency, I would like to offer this
small tribute to her, with my love.
VIOLETTE NAKHJAVANI
Haifa, Israel
August 2000, in memory
of Amatu'l-Bahá's 90th birthday
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<p1>
I
EARLY YEARS
<p2>
The birth of Mary Sutherland Maxwell, on August 8th, in the
Hahnemann Hospital, later known as The Fifth Avenue Hospital, in New
York City, was the hottest news to hit the North American Bahá'í
community in the summer of 1910. Ever since May Bolles had accepted
the Faith of Bahá'u'lláh, she had been known and loved by all the
early Bahá'ís as one of the foremost disciples of 'Abdu'l-Bahá; her
husband, Sutherland Maxwell, was a distinguished architect in Canada
and their home in Montreal a place of culture and spiritual vitality.
When the Bahá'ís read the announcement: "A little daughter has come
to bless the home of Mr. and Mrs. W. S. Maxwell of Montreal, Canada",
in Vol. 1, issue 9 of the {Star of the West} on August 20th, it must
have caused many flutters of excited interest amongst them. There
must have been many who expressed their congratulations and sent
their good wishes.
[.]
[.//]
.......... {In the garden of existence a rose hath bloomed with the
utmost freshness, fragrance and beauty. Educate her according to the
divine teachings so that she may grow up to be a real Bahá'í and
strive with all thy heart, that she may receive the Holy Spirit.}
[.///]
[.]
These words of the Centre of the Covenant, 'Abdu'l-Bahá, in a
Tablet dated March 2, 1911, were addressed to May Maxwell when Mary
was just seven months old and were surely the greatest confirmation
she had ever received of this blessing. The circumstances of her
little girl's birth were like a fairy tale and have been repeated,
and frequently distorted, since they were recorded in the
<p2> early years of this century. May Maxwell gives us the original
version in a letter she wrote to Agnes Alexander, on May 7,1910:
[.]
[.//]
My Dearest Agnes,
.......... All of your dear letters have been received and... You
must have wondered that I could remain so silent in spite of all your
love and kindness but you will understand when I tell you that this
winter has been one of great physical weakness and suffering for me,
so that I have been most of the time unable to write, or to make any
effort.
.......... A little more than a year ago when I was in Acca I was
passing one evening in the twilight in front of the Master's door.
His daughter Rouha was with me and in my arms I held her wee babe. I
suddenly saw Our Beloved Lord framed in the doorway gazing
attentively upon me--then He said--"You love that baby?"
.......... "Oh! I love him," I replied--and after a pause Our Lord
said: "Come here, come in here," and I stood before Him in His room,
with the baby in my arms and Rouha by my side. Then the Blessed one
sat looking at us; and He said to me: "Would you like to have a
baby?" and I answered, "I should be so happy to have one--" and He
said, "Do you know why you never had one? It is because you were a
chosen maidservant of God--you were called for the service of God--
you could not have children because you had to devote your time to
the service of the Cause. This is the only reason; this is the only
reason."
.......... I stood with bowed head before Him and after a little
silence He said, "Speak, do you choose to have a child, you may
choose!"
.......... Then I looked at Him with all my heart and soul and
adoration, and I said, "I choose whatever God chooses--I have no
choice but His." Although those words were very simple--in them I
renounced all hope of Motherhood. Then 'Abdu'l-Bahá arose quickly and
came to me and
<p5> clasped me in His arms with the greatest love and joy, and He
said: "That is the best choice, the Will of God is the best choice",
and walking up and down the room He continued, "I will pray for you,
that God will send you that which is best for you. Be sure of this,
that God will send you that which is best for you--" and this He
repeated several times.
.......... Thus ended this never-to-be forgotten scene--but I cannot
describe its reality--the deep significance of those moments--the
atmosphere of beauty and sanctity which pervaded the little room--the
surrender of a soul. in the Presence of the Lord--the quiet twilight
on earth mingling with the effulgent purity and peace of the Kingdom
of God.
.......... And regarding the Adored One Himself--what can we say?
Such love--such wondrous love--revealed in Face and Voice and Eyes
and Touch! A love so tender to understand, so strong to redeem! He
desired for me as for all, the highest and best--not the wayward
mortal desiring--not even the natural human longings--not even the
pure flower of Motherhood--but the surrender of the soul to God by
which alone it attains the apex of severance and sanctity, and
becomes enkindled with the Fire of Eternal Love.
.......... And so I have told you, my Agnes--of one scene of those
divine and perfect days in the Kingdom of God--and in time I shall
hope to tell you all... For those days live forever far above the
world--and I long to have you and all the dear ones share their
sacred fruits. And now my lamb I am going to confide to you a secret
which is the sequel to what I have told you. Our dear Lord has
favored His maidservant past all her hope, and by the pure showers of
His Bounty has watered the seed of life, and is bringing forth a
child. In a few months Inchallah, the babe He is sending to my
husband and me will be born, and I beg for your prayers, both for the
little one and for myself--for I am not strong--nor young! and
physically I am passing through some trials--and this winter I had a
<p6> fall which nearly proved fatal. I have not told the friends--
even the most intimate--but I wanted you to know--and I know you will
keep my confidence.
[.///]
[.]
May took her Lord's injunctions to heart. She strove to educate
her precious, God-given daughter according to the divine teachings
just as He had instructed her to do. She did her utmost to ensure
that her little Mary should grow up "to be a real Bahá'í" in order
that she might indeed be able to "receive the Holy Spirit" just as
the Master promised.
Some years ago, Amatu'l-Bahá showed me a small black photo album
which she had found in the desk drawer of the beloved Guardian after
his passing. He had arranged his favourite photographs of Mary
Maxwell in this album, from babyhood through to her teenage years.
And there was among them a photograph of her at age five of which he
was particularly fond. In a little note written by May Maxwell
herself we find a description very similar to this photograph, which
warms the heart. She writes:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Mary was just five years old when this picture of her
bursting thru the daisy beds was taken. This picture reveals almost
all of Mary. If we were so developed that we could see the inner
things as well as the outer we would know all about Mary by studying
this picture. Here she is in her own world--the kingdom of Nature
which she so loves--the sun, the air, the flowers, everything that
grows is dear and familiar to her. Most of all the animal world from
the tiniest bug to the king of the animal kingdom Mary adores--and
this lion king is the favourite of all. Ever since she was a toddling
baby Mother Nature has held sway over the passionate love of this
child--so that in the even brief years of her life she has learned
all about beetles, worms, caterpillars, flies, ants, bees, wasps,
hornets, spiders, etc.--where they live, how they live, what they
eat, and what changes
<p7> they undergo. She knows about toads, frogs, lizards, snakes, mud
eels, and I don't know what slimy creatures. All this knowledge she
has gained at first hand, straight from the source by watching these
creatures-catching them--keeping them for a time and feeding them--
and then making people read her all about them in books.
[.///]
[.]
Rúhíyyih Khánum used to refer to her formal education as
"patchy", recalling her school days to have been few and far between.
The traditional educational methods of the time tended to be rigid
and authoritarian, narrow-minded and dictatorial, and little Mary may
have suffered from these methods, for her spirit was untrammelled and
her will strong. Her mother's concern to provide her with the
"freedom" which 'Abdu'l-Bahá had prescribed is reflected in a letter
addressed to Marion Holley (Hofman) dated July 15th, 1937, in which
May Maxwell tells about Mary's early training:
[.]
[.//]
.......... ...You may know that when Rúhíyyih was three or four years
old I imported the first set (Montessori Method) to Canada, with a
Montessori teacher from New York and established the first school of
this type in Canada (Montreal) in our own home.... It really did
wonders for her and the other eight children, and 'Abdu'l-Bahá, with
whom I discussed Montessori's work in 1912, said that she was the
greatest modern psychologist... It was through all this that I became
interested in the "Movement of Progress and Education" of which I was
practically a charter member and subscribed to their magazine edited
by Stanwood Cobb.
[.///]
[.]
After such beginnings, she also had a year of schooling in
Montreal, a few months in Chevy Chase Country Day School in Maryland
and another year in Weston High School in Montreal. Between these
haphazard school experiences she was tutored at home by governesses
and
<p8> private teachers, but this was the sum total of her scholastic
training until she later became a part-time student at McGill
University, where she used to say she invariably arrived at her 9,00
A.M. class late! Her mother, who suffered from nervous disorders and
insomnia throughout her life, could not bear to wake Mary up early in
the mornings as she had a theory that young people's sleep should
never be disturbed! Be that as it may, there is a copy of her paper,
dated May 1931, for the Department of Economics at McGill University
entitled "The Bahá'í System of Public Finance" by Mary Maxwell, on
which she herself has written: "I passed with 2nd class honours on
this in a fourth year course!" Rúhíyyih Khánum used to explain that
the reason for her unconventional upbringing and education was her
mother's bad health, and the constant fear she had of losing her.
When she was away from home, she would become acutely anxious for her
mother, who was physically fragile and had come close to death on
many occasions.
Yet despite these inconsistencies of education, she was to
become a well-read and knowledgeable person, with a consuming
interest in a variety of subjects. Her thirst for acquiring knowledge
was insatiable and throughout her life, practically to the very end,
she clipped articles from the daily papers which caught her attention
because they reflected Bahá'í themes or subjects of particular
interest to her. She loved to have her favourite fairy tales read to
her when she was young, and since she did not want to leave a story
unfinished when her mother put her to bed, she simply learned to read
unaided in order to go on reading the story to the end. It may have
been this habit which accustomed her to reading late at night. She
used to say, "I have been weaned on the classical European fairy
tales of the Brothers Grimm and Hans Christian Andersen."
<p9>
The Oz books were also among her favourites. These beautiful
editions, some of which were graced with original drawings by Arthur
Rackham and Kay Neilson, were treasured by her to the very end of her
life. Her beloved father, from whom she inherited her artistic
abilities, her knowledge of antiques, and her love of good books,
increased this collection whenever he came across a particularly
beautiful edition of her favourites.
She had a full, free and happy childhood. Her only sorrows at
this time, which she would speak of until late in life, were the
periods of separation from her beloved mother. May Maxwell was a
devoted and dedicated servant of the Cause, a member of several
Bahá'í administrative bodies, as well as one of the star teachers of
the Faith. She suffered greatly from the extreme cold of Montreal and
her ill health would often keep her away from her home for two or
more months at a time. She would go to New York or Wilmette to attend
meetings, would become ill and then could not return home for several
weeks. The physical attachment and spiritual kinship that connected
mother and daughter was singular and strong. Rúhíyyih Khánum often
said, "If Bahá'ís believed in such things as 'soul mates', my mother
and I would be like that." This bond, consciously nurtured by May
Maxwell herself, is beautifully expressed in a letter written by the
mother to her daughter some years later:
[.]
[.//]
.......... ...however often I have been compelled to leave you since
you were a little child, for the sake of this great Cause in which we
are united, and however lonely you may have often been, you never
suffered alone, because I was always with you, I felt for you more
deeply than you can ever realize, and it is out of the pangs of this
mighty motherlove that my spiritual motherhood to you has been born.
[.///]
[.]
<p10>
However arbitrary and independent may have been her formal
intellectual education, there are clear indications that her
spiritual training was pursued with rigour and unrelenting
discipline. It was a training whose hallmark was love and whose main
characteristic was obedience to the Covenant. There is a vast amount
of correspondence between May Maxwell and 'Abdu'l-Bahá in which
references can be found to the little girl, many of which indicate
the attention and love of the Master for the child. In a rare letter
from Mr. W. S. Maxwell to 'Abdu'l-Bahá, dated March 12th, 1915, he
says, "Little Mary is a joy to us and thinks of you very frequently.
She loves you with a deep and true love and understanding." Her
spiritual training had clearly begun from a very early age.
Rúhíyyih Khánum was often asked if she remembered 'Abdu'l-Bahá's
three-day visit to their home during the fall of 1912. She would
answer with her characteristic honesty, "I was only two years old. I
don't think I remember it, but all my life I heard my mother telling
me in detail of all oft hose precious and blessed days, so the events
imprinted on my subconscious seem like my own memories." May Maxwell
recorded in her notes a particularly moving reference to the arrival
of 'Abdu'l-Bahá in the Maxwell home on the night of August 30th,
1912, and His words on that occasion:
[.]
[.//]
.......... "... home", He said, "all that is in it is mine"--turning
with an ineffable look He continued--"You are mine--your husband and
child. This is my home." He was cold and we lighted a fire. He looked
about and He asked where the child was. When we said that she was
sleeping He told us not to disturb her and added, "dark indeed is the
home where there is no child."
[.///]
[.]
There is an especially touching story about this visit,
<p11> told by 'Abdu'l-Bahá Himself to His companions and recorded in
the memoirs of A. A. Nakhjavani. 'Abdu'l-Bahá told them:
[.]
[.//]
.......... "Today I was resting on the {chaise longue} in my bedroom
and the door opened. The little girl came in to me and pushed my
eyelids up with her small finger and said, 'Wake up. 'Abdu'l-Bahá!' I
took her in my arms and placed her head on my chest and we both had a
good sleep."
[.///]
[.]
When Rúhíyyih Khánum repeated this story in later years she used
to say that once when her mother complained to 'Abdu'l-Bahá that she
was naughty, the Master had said. "Leave her alone. She is the
essence of sweetness."
The years of 'Abdu'l-Bahá's ministry were drawing to a close
with World War I, and as a precursor to His Will and Testament, He
sent the Tablets of the Divine Plan to the Bahá'ís of the West. It
was a sacred legacy to the North American continent and the Bahá'ís
celebrated this epoch-making event with befitting solemnity. Nine
young girls were chosen from the community, and, to the sound of
solemn music, drew aside the curtains covering the original
handwritten Tablets of 'Abdu'l-Bahá. Mary Maxwell, adorned in a new
pink dress, and her best childhood friend, Elizabeth Coristine of
Montreal, were privileged to unveil the first and second of these
Tablets for Canada in a spectacular {tableau vivant} which took place
in the Hotel McAlpin in New York on April 29th, 1919 at 10:00 a.m. It
was shortly before Mary's ninth birthday and the end of the Heroic
Age of the Faith of Bahá'u'lláh.
The passing of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, in November 1921, devastated the
whole Bahá'í community. both in the East and West, but the blow
proved almost fatal to May Maxwell, who was given the news abruptly
and brutally, over the
<p12> telephone, without any forewarning. She was so shattered and so
shaken in body and soul that she may have become a permanent invalid
had not Mr. Maxwell finally intervened. He convinced her that the
only way she would be able to leave her wheelchair was if she went to
visit the Shrines in the Holy Land and met her beloved Guardian, face
to face. And he thought Mary should go with her. She used to say in
later years, "My father was busy with his work at the Chateau
Frontenac and my mother was an invalid. There was no one else to
accompany her but me and an Irish Catholic maid. And I was twelve
years old."
Just seventeen months after the Ascension of the Master and four
months before her 13th birthday, therefore, they set sail from New
York for the Holy Land, on April 29th, 1923. This was Mary's first
pilgrimage and left an indelible impression and many memories in her
heart and mind. In later years she recalled, in a personal letter,
how she was touched by "the spirit of service" she discovered in
Haifa:
[.]
[.//]
.......... ...a Queen or a beggar woman would be met with the same
loving sweetness. Indeed it was this divine normality that really
confirmed me here as a little girl of twelve years.
.......... It was the first time she met the beloved Guardian and she
often described that meeting with a sweet pleasure in the
remembrance. They were installed in the Old Western Pilgrim House at
the end of Persian Street and her mother, who had not been able to
walk for over a year, was resting in bed. Since her nights were
frequently sleepless and her nerves delicate, Mary had learned from
an early age to protect her from intrusion and was vigilant against
disturbances. She said that she was in the hallway of the Pilgrim
House when the door suddenly opened and
<p13> a young man stepped in, with a swift, deft movement, and asked
if he could see Mrs. Maxwell. She was a tall girl for her age, fully
grown and physically well-developed already. She said she pulled
herself up to her full height and, looking him squarely in the eyes,
asked to know, with considerable dignity and aplomb, who it was who
wished to see Mrs. Maxwell. The young gentleman meekly replied, "I am
Shoghi Effendi", upon which she turned tail and fled into her
mother's room in mortified embarrassment. Hiding her head, as she
used to say "like a puppy", beneath her mother's pillows, she could
only point to the door and gasp, "He-he--is there!" when her mother
asked her what the matter was. And when May Maxwell found out who it
was behind the door, she said, "Pull yourself together, Mary, and go
and invite him in."
They were away from Montreal for almost a year. Shoghi Effendi,
before leaving for Europe that summer--for he was exhausted by the
weight of his responsibilities and needed to recuperate his own
strength--advised Mrs. Maxwell to spend the time in Egypt, and so
during his absence from the Middle East she stayed in Port Said with
her daughter and her maid. After his return, Shoghi Effendi recalled
them to Haifa for another lengthy stay, as a result of which they had
two pilgrimages during that single year. May came back to the States
in 1924, in time to attend the National Bahá'í Convention. Filled
with joy and restored to health, she redoubled her efforts in the
teaching work and began to educate the friends in the Bahá'í
Administration, in which she had been carefully instructed by Shoghi
Effendi during her pilgrimage.
Two years later, Mary accompanied Juliet Thompson and Daisy
Smythe to the Holy Land. They were two of her mother's closest
friends, and Juliet Thompson, too, had been designated by the Master
as His "disciple". On
<p14> this pilgrimage Mary often spoke of her deep sorrow at leaving
the Greatest Holy Leaf, whose high station she had come to recognize
and cherish despite her own youth, and whom she loved dearly despite
the difference of their ages. During her first pilgrimage, the
Greatest Holy Leaf had asked to see Mary's performance of the
Egyptian 'shimmy', which she had learned that summer in Port Said,
and had laughed till the tears rolled down her cheeks when young
Mary, dressed in full costume, with {kohl} around her eyes and a drum
under her arm, had sung and danced before her in the Master's House,
Now on this second pilgrimage it was a more mature Mary who
understood with sadness that this would be the last time she would
see Bahíyyih Khánum. the greatest lady and heroine of the Bahá'í
Dispensation, whom she described as the essence of meekness and
gentleness.
Back in Canada, she threw herself eagerly into all kinds of
youth activities, both within the Bahá'í administration as well as
elsewhere. all of which were just as important to her as the studies
she pursued with equal enthusiasm. From then on she was continuously
involved in membership on committees and in her efforts to promote
the cause of racial amity. Shortly before she was 16, she became a
member of the Executive Committee of The Fellowship of Canadian Youth
for Peace, serving as its Treasurer. On November 30th, 1928, her
mother wrote, "Mary is well and doing splendid work with her studies,
besides the 'Fratority' Society whose membership is constantly
extending and whose influence is becoming a strong power for interracial amity of all kinds in this city." As was expected, soon after
she had turned 21, she was elected on the Local Spiritual Assembly of
Montreal, as well as on the Teaching Committee.
<p15>
Her training in oratory and public speaking too began early. She
used to mention an incident which took place after her return from
her second pilgrimage, when she was almost 16. In a Bahá'í meeting at
Green Acre, one of the well-known old Bahá'ís paused in his lecture
unexpectedly and, turning to young Mary Maxwell, asked her to come up
on the platform and tell the friends about her experiences in the
Holy Land. She said she was shocked and tried to escape through the
door but was caught before she could get away. The speaker reminded
her that since she had had the great privilege of visiting the Holy
Shrines and hearing the beloved Guardian, it was her duty to share
these bounties with others!
From informal talks like this she graduated to more formal
engagements, which required conscious preparation, both of thought
and spirit. Just before her nineteenth birthday, she spoke at the
National Bahá'í Convention in a manner that evidently touched many
peoples' hearts and minds. In a letter to May Maxwell after this
event Elizabeth Herlitz writes, "Sorry I did not hear your daughter
speak on Saturday eve during the Convention. I was told I had missed
one of the outstanding features of the entire Bahá'í Program."
Increasingly, too, she began to accompany her mother on teaching
trips, during which she had occasion not only to observe her mother's
manner of giving Bahá'í talks but also to learn how to lecture
herself, in the Bahá'í spirit. May writes: "Mary and I have been on a
three weeks' teaching trip since the Convention.... I have been
entirely submerged in the field of teaching with Mary where we have
done our first united work together with remarkable results..." It
was soon after this trip that she received her first letter from the
beloved Guardian, dated May 29th and written in his own hand:
<p16>
[.]
[.//]
My dear co-worker:
.......... I am much pleased to learn of your growing activities in
the Cause & I will supplicate from the depths of my heart in your
behalf at the holy Shrines that the Beloved may graciously guide you
& assist you to render inestimable services to His Cause in the days
to come.
Your true brother,
Shoghi
[.///]
[.]
One of the most wonderful events of her life, at the age of 20,
was a lecture she delivered in New York City at the Friends' Meeting
House. Her subject, "Mysticism in the Bahá'í Religion", was daunting
and all the other speakers at this Congress were seasoned lecturers
and famous orators. One of these, Syud Hossain, was described as an
"incomparable lecturer on the Orient, world peace and international
relations", and was the editor of "The New Orient". Several wellknown university professors, bishops and canons of different churches
also addressed the Congress, and at the end of the programme, there
was also to be a talk given by the conceited enemy of the Bahá'í
Faith, Ahmad Sohrab. After her lecture she received a standing
ovation, and on that same day was given the following cable: "HEARTY
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR BEAUTIFUL CONSCIENTIOUS AND ABLE PRESENTATION
OF A GREAT AND DIFFICULT THEME I AM HAPPY AND PROUD OF YOU--SYUD
HOSSAIN".
Her writing began early too. She wrote books and plays and
poetry, and her highest hope was to one day become an author. She
busied herself with early literary efforts, writing articles with
such titles as "Have the Emotions a Place Today?" She was developing
that diversity and range of skills that would serve to make of her a
perfect instrument of service in the hands of her beloved Guardian,
who noted her progress with keen interest.
<p17>
When a copy of the translation of Nabíl's Narrative by the
beloved Guardian, {The Dawn-Breakers}, reached the Maxwells, they
wrote a letter of gratitude to Shoghi Effendi, and in reply he
encouraged Mary to study this book and lecture on it. The article she
wrote entitled 'The Re-florescence of Historical Romance in Nabíl',
which he later included in {The Bahá'í World}, Volume V (1932-34),
was surely a result of the Guardian's direct encouragement, and the
ardent, youthful enthusiasm which it reveals must have informed her
unforgettable lectures on the Heroic Age of the Cause. These were
first given in Montreal and then later in Green Acre, continued in
Louhelen, and finally at Esslingen in Germany.
A letter of Shoghi Effendi's to May Maxwell at this time shows
how closely he was following the development and spiritual training
of this remarkable young woman. It was as though he had undertaken
her spiritual education himself, was guiding her choices and
carefully directing her attentions so that she would not dissipate
her spiritual potential:
[.]
[.//]
.......... I feel that she should, while pursuing her studies, devote
her energies to an intensive study of, & vigorous service to, the
Cause, of which I hope & trust she will grow to become a brilliant
and universally honoured exponent. I am sure, far from feeling
disappointed or hurt at my sugges-tion, she will redouble in her
activities & efforts to approach & attain the high standard destined
for her by the beloved Master. Your plan of travelling with her
throughout Canada in the service of the Cause is a splendid one &
highly opportune. Kindly assure her & her dear father of my best
wishes & prayers for their happiness welfare & success.
Your true & affectionate brother,
Shoghi
[.///]
[.]
In May 1933, Mary spent several weeks in Washington,
<p18> D.C. first with her mother and then alone, teaching the Faith
and concentrating her efforts on finding ways to draw the two
opposing races together, for the cause of racial unity was close to
her heart and the rights and responsibilities of both races was a
subject that touched her keenly throughout her life, On November 20th
of that year she spoke at the "coloured people's Church" in Montreal.
Fred Schopflocher wrote to May about this event, saying,
[.]
[.//]
.......... She had everybody spellbound and how that girl looked,
just ravishing, just the daughter of her mother! With a pure white
blouse she stood forth like the silvery moon in a dark, dark night
and her little green hat, green in its symbol, a beacon of hope,
faith and assurance. I truly was proud of the girl, my dear little
Mary and you know, May, it is not often that I enthuse, there is
conviction to the truth behind it....
.......... Well this affair was wonderful. Mr. Este was at his best
... and practically announced himself a Bahá'í from the pulpit and
his congregation with it.
[.///]
[.]
Rev. Este, the parson of this Church, remained a life-long
friend of Rúhíyyih Khánum's, despite the fact that he never actually
became a Bahá'í. In 1970, during my first visit to the Americas, I
met him in Montreal, when he was elderly and retired. But despite his
frailty he came especially to the Maxwell home, now the Shrine, to
see Rúhíyyih Khánum, and it was clear that a deep love and friendship
had existed between them since that occasion in 1934.
In contrast to her earnest efforts at promoting Bahá'í
principles at the grass roots, Mary attended official functions with
her father at home in Montreal during her early twenties, meeting the
Governor-General of Canada at events such as the Royal Canadian
Academy's Fifty-Fourth
<p19> Exhibition, It was this balance between high and low, between
her obligations to the Bahá'í community in particular and society at
large that would serve her so well in later years, She always had the
ability to mingle with officialdom and humble folk with equal ease;
her support of local Bahá'í teaching work as well as social issues at
the international level was equally enthusiastic throughout her life.
Rúhíyyih Khánum used to say that as a young woman she had very
much wanted to learn Spanish but when, in 1935, civil war threatened
her plans to go to Spain for this purpose, she was induced to
accompany her cousins Jeanne and Randolph Bolles to Germany instead.
Her aunt, who was German herself, accompanied them and they sailed
for Europe on July 10th, From August of that same year. May also
joined them and, for the next year and a half, while May spent most
of her time teaching and helping the friends in France and Belgium,
Mary paralleled her mother's work in Germany.
She became so enamoured of Germany during this time that she
asked Shoghi Effendi if she might stay in this country rather than
returning to travel with her mother. May writes that Mary was
"greatly encouraged by the Guardian to concentrate her efforts where
her heart is!" She was, as her mother puts it, "Among a people who
seem so akin to her that--as I believe I wrote you--her whole nature
has undergone a radical change under this new and profound
influence." An old-time Montreal friend, S. H. Abramson, visiting in
Europe, writes to May that, "Mary has fallen in love with Germany and
become almost 100% German," She learned the language with such
fluency and spoke with so perfect an accent that many thought her to
be German, She used to say when she travelled in northern Germany
people would ask her
<p20> if she was from the south, and when she was in the south, they
thought she was from the north!
To have lived in Germany during its most critical period in the
twentieth century, with her attention fixed solely on the work of the
Cause, her efforts given entirely to the development of its
institutions, and her time spent primarily in the company of Bahá'ís
who were later destined to suffer so terribly under Hitler's regime,
is surely an indication of the mettle she was made of. Tall and
beautiful, under a crown of light brown hair and dressed in a
'dirndl', she passed through the fire unscathed as the jack boots
marched and the banners thickened the air about her. How strong was
her obedience to her Guardian during this period, and how much this
obedience must have protected her at this fearful time. For she
received encouragement every step of the way, and guidance. In
addition, both she and her mother received a warm invitation to come
to the Holy Land at the end of their extended stay in Europe. Shoghi
Effendi's secretary writes to May Maxwell on January 21st, 1936 that:
[.]
[.//]
.......... The Guardian is very much encouraged & gratified to learn
of the progress & success of your dear daughter's activities in the
teaching field. He wishes you to congratulate her most heartily upon
the success that has attended her work in Munich. He hopes that her
"first German off-spring" Mr. Alfonse Giesel will, as a result of
such a contact, become a most active & leading servant of the Cause
in Germany.
[.///]
[.]
In the postscript below, the Guardian writes, in his own hand:
[.]
[.//]
Dearly-beloved co-worker:
.......... I wish to assure you in person of a most hearty welcome.
<p21> Your distinguished services, so loyally, courageously &
devotedly rendered, in both the European & American continents, fully
entitle you to visit the Holy Shrines & to draw fresh inspiration
from the Source of His inexhaustible grace. I am profoundly thankful
for what you, Mary & Mrs. Bolles have achieved, & for the spirit
which animates you in His service. The Beloved is well-pleased with
the many evidences of your exemplary devotion to His Cause & of
perseverance in the path of service. Affectionately
Shoghi
[.///]
[.]
A week later, the Guardian's secretary addressed a letter to
Mary Maxwell herself, on behalf of Shoghi Effendi. His guidance must
have seemed like a bright beacon before her in the midst of a
darkening Europe, in which the spirit was being extinguished more and
more:
[.]
[.//]
.......... The Guardian is very pleased, indeed to learn that you are
so much longing to visit the Holy Shrines, after so many years. He
wishes me, therefore, to hasten in extending to you a most hearty
welcome. Your dear Mother, who we have just learned is now in Paris,
has also expressed a desire to visit Haifa, and the Guardian has
extended to her too, a most cordial invitation.
.......... Before your coming to Haifa Shoghi Effendi would advise
you to visit the centers in Germany and if possible to extend your
trip to Austria and the Balkans where we have now a chain of active
and prosperous communities that link the Western with the Eastern
part of Europe. He would even suggest that you follow that route when
you come to Haifa, as this would be of great interest to you, and of
invaluable encouragement to the friends in these new and somewhat
isolated centers.
[.///]
[.]
Shoghi Effendi added, in his postscript:
[.]
[.//]
Dear and valued co-worker:
<p22>
.......... I wish to assure you in person of a hearty welcome to
visit the Holy Land and lay your head on the sacred Threshold after
having rendered valuable services in the Faith in both America and
Europe. For those you have asked me to pray, in your letters. I will
supplicate the blessings of Bahá'u'lláh. Rest assured. Your true
brother,
Shoghi
[.///]
[.]
Mary Maxwell fulfilled the injunctions of the beloved Guardian.
She travelled to every single community in Germany, met every
isolated believer, group, or Assembly, from north to south and east
to west of the country. By the time she had accomplished this task, a
year had passed and the rumblings of war were upon them in earnest.
It was impossible now to travel through the Balkans or Austria, and
she and her mother were then urged by Shoghi Effendi to come to the
Holy Land directly. It was a turning point.
When mother and daughter registered their names in the Pilgrims'
book in Haifa on January 12th, 1937, another chapter began in the
life of Mary Maxwell. Her training and spiritual education were over.
She had passed the test and come out true. As Shoghi Effendi told May
Maxwell on this pilgrimage, her daughter now had the spiritual
foundation on which she could be "moulded and disciplined". According
to May's notes, he said:
[.]
[.//]
.......... She has clear perception and sound judgement and is very
just. Her judgements and attitudes are _correct_--_sound_--as I told
her in regard to her attitude toward the government in Germany. You
must be very happy--hopeful and assured. Remember all I have written
you and Mary about her future--it will all be fulfilled--and
attained. She has many years before her. You will be very happy--very
proud of her--so will her Father.
[.///]
[.]
<p23>
II
YEARS OF MARRIAGE
TO SHOGHI EFFENDI
<p24>
<p25>
II
Pilgrimage was a unique experience for every pilgrim. To sit at
the dinner table with the "Sign of God on earth", to be able to ask
him questions and receive his answers, these were bounties indeed
beyond estimation. For May and Mary Maxwell, pilgrimage must have
felt like an unexpected privilege, a glance from the grace of God
after their lengthy sojourn in a Europe darkened by wars and rumours
of wars. Their pilgrims' notes were among the most widely circulated
at that time. Rúhíyyih Khánum used to say that Shoghi Effendi allowed
her to take down these notes in his presence and then correct them
the following evening, for mother and daughter reviewed their notes
each night, raising further questions of Shoghi Effendi if they had
any doubts, so that no errors would be made. The Maxwell pilgrim
notes are voluminous; Volume II alone is 37 pages long and bears a
note by Rúhíyyih Khánum: "The classifying under head-ings was done by
me in order to keep the subjects often referred to together. R.R."
It was at the end of their pilgrimage that one day the mother of
Shoghi Effendi asked to speak to May Maxwell and told her of Shoghi
Effendi's offer of marriage to her daughter. Mary did not know of it
until some weeks later. In reminiscing about those days, Rúhíyyih
Khánum used to say, with a twinkle in her eyes, that the beloved
Guardian took her in hand and taught her Persian calligraphy after
dinner in the course of those unforgettable evenings. He gave her a
set of reed pens and ink and special mulberry papers and tutored her
in the art of writing the Persian script. He also gave her a set of
cards to copy from,
<p26> on which the great calligrapher, Mishkin-Qalam, had written the
Hidden Words of Bahá'u'lláh in three different styles of writing. In
our early years in Haifa, she showed my husband and myself her
copying note books in which Shoghi Effendi had himself written a line
in his exquisite handwriting for her to copy underneath. She told us,
"I could never copy his delicate script exactly, and the length of my
sentence was always at least twice as long as his." And then she
would add, with a bewitching smile, "I think Shoghi Effendi wanted an
excuse to stay longer with me and to get to know me better!"
It was that time of the year when the mimosa trees were in full
bloom and often, when she saw their golden showers in early spring,
Rúhíyyih Khánum would remember and speak of the day when the
Guardian's younger sister came to her and said, "Shoghi Effendi wants
to see you in his room." She had no notion of what was awaiting her,
but on her way out of the Pilgrim House she broke a small branch of
the mimosa flower and carried it with her into the presence of Shoghi
Effendi and offered it to her beloved. That was the day he told her
of his wish to marry her. Rúhíyyih Khánum used to say, "I was alone
with Shoghi Effendi for only 15 minutes before our marriage."
The wedding took place on March 24th, 1937, in Haifa. It was on
this occasion that the beloved Guardian gave her the name Rúhíyyih
Khánum. May Maxwell, in a letter to her dear friend Leonora Holsapple
(Armstrong), dated September 28th, 1938, gives us a glimpse of this
unique event.
[.]
[.//]
.......... As one might have expected, the Guardian's marriage was
utterly simple, devoid of every earthly trapping, yet perfect in its
beauty and simplicity. A few weeks after Rúhíyyih Khánum and I
arrived in Haifa, the Guardian with utmost
<p27> gentleness began to teach her Persian and to give special
attention to her general training and education.... Later, through
conversations with his dear mother talking to me confidentially at
his request (in the true oriental manner!) I was gradually informed,
but at that time my daughter knew nothing about it, until the day, a
week or two later, when the younger sister of the Guardian took her
into his presence. Whatever happened at that time is known only to
God, but He sustained and supported her in what was perhaps the most
overwhelming shock of her life, with her deep reverence, almost
worship of the Guardian as the Sign of God upon this earth. It was
almost too much for a human being to bear. On March 24th the Guardian
took Rúhíyyih Khánum in his car to the tomb of Bahá'u'lláh where he
chanted two prayers in the inner sanctuary and told her that that was
the reality of the marriage. They were alone. When they returned, the
Guardian's mother took them alone into the room of the Greatest Holy
Leaf... Then all the families greeted and embraced them, the
certificates of marriage were signed, and later Shoghi Effendi and
his little western wife came to the Pilgrim House and it was our turn
to embrace them and to feel all that it was possible to feel at such
an overwhelming moment. There is no doubt about it that to us it was
more like a dream than reality. The Guardian has shown her a love and
kindness, an understanding and sympathy through which she is steadily
developing, and although the tests are severe, Leonora, past all our
comprehension, yet through the divine protection she is steadily
attaining that station which God has ordained for her.
[.///]
[.]
When Rúhíyyih Khánum spoke of her wedding on certain occasions
she used to say, as she also wrote in {The Priceless Pearl}, that on
her wedding day, when she went with Shoghi Effendi to Bahjí, "I
remember I was dressed, except for a white lace blouse, entirely in
black for this
<p28> unique occasion, and was a typical example of the way oriental
women dressed to go out into the streets in those days, the custom
being to wear black." The ring, which was a simple Bahá'í ring in the
shape of a heart, had been given to her the day Shoghi Effendi
proposed. He had asked her then to wear it on a chain around her
neck, and on the day of their marriage, in the Shrine of Bahá'u'lláh,
he took it from her and put it on her finger himself. It was a ring
that had been given to Shoghi Effendi by the Greatest Holy Leaf, and
Rúhíyyih Khánum later had one made exactly like it for the beloved
Guardian. They were both buried with their rings on their fingers.
After the recital of the marriage vow, which took place in the room
of the Greatest Holy Leaf, the mother of Shoghi Effendi placed
Rúhíyyih Khánum's hand in the hand of her son, according to the old
Persian tradition of "dast be dast". The witnesses were the father
and the mother of the Guardian.
Rúhíyyih Khánum often remarked that that evening with her
parents present at the dinner table was not different from all the
other evenings. It was only after dinner when Shoghi Effendi got up
to leave that, as she used to say, "I followed him across the road to
'Abdu'l-Bahá's House and upstairs to his apartment." Her suitcase had
been carried up already by Fujita, the Japanese Bahá'í serving Shoghi
Effendi, earlier in the day.
The news of this blessed marriage electrified the Bahá'í world,
both in the East and the West. Cables composed by the beloved
Guardian and signed by his mother were sent to the National Spiritual
Assembly of Iran and the National Spiritual Assembly of the United
States and Canada. The one to the West, dated March 27th, 1937, read
as follows:
<p29>
[.]
[.//]
ANNOUNCE ASSEMBLIES CELEBRATION MARRIAGE BE-LOVED GUARDIAN STOP
INESTIMABLE HONOUR CONFERRED UPON HANDMAID OF BAHA'U'LLAH RUHIYYIH
KHANUM MISS MARY MAXWELL STOP UNION OF EAST AND WEST PROCLAIMED BY
BAHA'I FAITH CEME TED. [SIGNED] ZIAIYYIH, MOTHER OF THE GUARDIAN
[.///]
[.]
Later, responding to the congratulatory message of the above
National Spiritual Assembly, Shoghi Effendi cabled:
[.]
[.//]
DEEPLY MOVED YOUR MESSAGE. INSTITUTION GUARDIANSHIP HEAD CORNERSTONE
ADMINISTRATIVE ORDER CAUSE BAHA'U'LLAH ALREADY ENNOBLED THROUGH ITS
ORGANIC CONNECTION WITH PERSONS OF TWIN FOUNDERS BAHA'I FAITH IS NOW
FURTHER REINFORCED THROUGH DIRECT ASSOCIATION WITH WEST AND
PARTICULARLY WITH AMERICAN BELIEVERS WHOSE SPIRITUAL DESTINY IS TO
USHER IN WORLD ORDER BAHA'U'LLAH. FOR MY PART DESIRE CONGRATULATE
COMMUNITY AMERICAN BELIEVERS ON ACQUISITION TIE VITALLY BINDING THEM
TO SO WEIGHTY AN ORGAN OF THEIR FAITH.
[.///]
[.]
Even the Montreal newspaper, "The Gazette", announced the
marriage:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Miss Mary Maxwell, only daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William
Sutherland Maxwell, of Montreal, whose marriage to Shoghi Effendi
Rabbani, Guardian of the Baha'i Faith, which took place in Haifa,
Palestine, on Saturday last is announced. Mr. and Mrs. Maxwell were
present at the ceremony. The bride and groom will live in Haifa,
which is the centre of this faith. The groom is the grandson of Sir
Abdul Baha Abbas and great-grandson of Baha'ollah, founder of the
movement and formulator of its principles.
[.///]
[.]
I myself remember, as a small child in Tehran, how much everyone
rejoiced, how lavish were the banquets that were spread throughout
the Bahá'í community in
<p30> celebration of this wonderful event. It was like a fairy tale
come true!
But the reality for Rúhíyyih Khánum herself must have been far
otherwise; the period of adjustment that followed for her was a
training time which could not have been easy. Already, the
circumstances, however propitious, were hardly conducive to
tranquillity of spirit. To be parted at so great a distance from her
beloved parents and say goodbye to her familiar life in Montreal, to
be plunged into an oriental household together with all her in-laws
under one roof, must have been hard for this young woman raised with
a degree of freedom that was unusual even in the West at that time.
Despite her natural buoyancy of temper and optimistic nature, she
must have longed for and missed her parents terribly during these
early years. In a letter to them she writes:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Your love and the sense of your strength and courage
sustain me in a way you cannot dream of... I have learned to be happy
in a moment--to ride the waves. When the weather is calm I look
around and enjoy everything. When a wave comes I go thro it as best I
can and come out the other side!
[.///]
[.]
It was especially hard at the beginning when she did not know
the Persian language, for although the members of 'Abdu'l-Bahá's
family all spoke English, they communicated with each other in
Persian. It was only natural, when comments were passed and jokes
were shared which she did not understand, that she would have felt
left out. Were it not for her beloved, Rúhíyyih Khánum may well have
been bereft.
But there were greater tests than mere loneliness and far
greater trials than cultural isolation awaiting this young, naïve and
open-hearted bride. Rúhíyyih Khánum
<p31> had a free and unsuspicious nature. She had entered this
household with a sense of deep love, indeed almost veneration, for
all who were related to Shoghi Effendi. What a blow it must have been
so soon after her marriage to the Guardian, to first feel the winds
of ill will blowing from the members of the household towards him, to
recognize the signs of dissension harbouring within the bosom of his
family towards the Centre of the Cause. She used to speak of those
days with deep sorrow and pain. Many times we heard her say, "When I
saw those oak trees fall one after another, I wept and prayed for my
own soul, a mere blade of grass." For one by one, in those early
years of her marriage, the family fell away from faithfulness; the
branches of Afnán and Aghsán broke off from the mighty tree of the
Covenant. They all left, one by one, until she was alone in that
house at the side of her beloved. "Shoghi Effendi held me tight under
his protective arms", she used to say.
She told us that during that first year of her marriage she
suffered so much that one day she stood outside her room on the
balcony and in deep distress said to herself, "I have reached the end
of my tether." Her vivid imagination created a picture of her with a
rope in her hand, herself at the bottom of the rope! Her sense of
humour and her logical mind reminded her that, "Well, you are at the
end of your tether, you cannot go down any farther, but you can climb
up it!" From then on, she said, she never reached the end of her
rope, as she could always climb up again.
She became the Guardian's shield and his sole support in those
dark days of spiritual convulsion in the family of 'Abdu'l-Bahá.
There was a time when Shoghi Effendi could not trust any member of
his family to be alone with the Persian pilgrims for fear of the
negative impact of
<p32> their poisonous innuendoes and inferences. He would ask
Rúhíyyih Khánum to go down and sit with them. She told us that she
had once been ill with jaundice, had had a fever and was as yellow as
a canary, but despite this Shoghi Effendi sent her down to sit with
the Persian women pilgrims. She could not go back up to bed until the
last one had finally left. He was equally rigorous about strict
attendance at all Holy Day celebrations and would tell Rúhíyyih
Khánum that if she felt indisposed, it would bring her healing to
participate in these gatherings, which were in honour of the Central
Figures of the Faith. It was also during this turbulent period that
Shoghi Effendi pulled her up short one day, and gesturing to her
hand, said, "Your destiny is in the palm of your own hand." This was
a great shock for her and made her realize that she was not immune to
her own tests of faith. "When Shoghi Effendi married me", she used to
say, "I felt safe and smug and thought I had nothing more to worry
about, my destiny was in his hand. But when he said that, there it
was, back in my own hand." She would always make us laugh when she
finished this very serious tale.
Her firmness in the Covenant, a manifestation of her deep faith,
was her greatest protection in those early years of marriage. It was
a suit of armour that preserved her spirit throughout her long life.
During the year after Rúhíyyih Khánum's marriage, May Maxwell wrote
several letters to her young friend Marion Holley (Hofman) quoting
her daughter's words:
[.]
[.//]
.......... "...she says, "I am convinced that the greatest gift of a
believer is faith; greater than intelligence, greater than character,
for by faith we sink or swim, live or die, and it is almost the sole
cause of our ultimate achievement and eternal life..." and "...she
adds that she has learned
<p33> how faulty her reasoning is, she rests everything on Faith.
Faith is the keynote of her life, the solace and support of her
existence, the foundation of her new-born character."
[.///]
[.]
Perhaps the outpouring of her heart years later, in her poem
"This is Faith", written on April 4th, 1954, exempli-fies the depth
of her understanding of this subject.
[.]
[.//]
THIS IS FAITH
To walk where there is no path
----- To breathe where there is no air
To see where there is no light--
---------- This is Faith.
To cry out in the silence,
----- The silence of the night,
And hearing no echo believe
----- And believe again and again--
---------- This is Faith.
To hold pebbles and see jewels
----- To raise sticks and see forests
To smile with weeping eyes--
---------- This is Faith.
To say: "God, I believe" when others deny,
----- "I hear" when there is no answer,
"I see" though naught is seen--
---------- This is Faith.
And the fierce love in the heart,
----- The savage love that cries
Hidden Thou art yet there!
----- Veil Thy face and mute Thy tongue
<p34>
Yet I see and hear Thee, Love,
----- Beat me down to the bare earth,
Yet I rise and love Thee, Love!
---------- This is Faith.
[.///]
[.]
Rúhíyyih Khánum made frequent reference in later life to the
fact that one of the reasons she had been chosen to be Shoghi
Effendi's wife was because she was May Maxwell's daughter. We often
heard her insist that he had told her so himself many times. Indeed,
his own words emphasize this same theme and underscore it as one of
the reasons for her unwavering faith:
[.]
[.//]
.......... "She is imbued with the Bahá'í spirit," he is quoted as
having said in May Maxwell's handwritten notes, "not confused or
mixed with other matters--or subjects extraneous to the Cause ...
This is due to your influence--you do not realise to what extent Mary
reflects your spirit. She is wholly devoted to the Faith-extremely
attached."
[.///]
[.]
In a letter to her mother, a year after her marriage, Rúhíyyih
Khánum wrote: "If anyone asked me what my theme was in life I should
say, 'Shoghi Effendi'." It is clear from this that she had thrown
herself, with heart and soul, into her destiny and her task required
a rigorous discipline.
Although the faith on which it was reposed had been instilled
within her since her birth and the love with which it was inspired
had developed and evolved since her girlhood, her habits of schooling
would not have seemed, at first glance, to have prepared her for such
a destiny. But under Shoghi Effendi's strict tutelage she took
herself in hand and applied herself to conscientious study. With what
pride May Maxwell might have read the postscript in
<p35> Shoghi Effendi's own hand in his letter to her dated February
25th, 1939: "Mary is quite well, and exceedingly busy in her study of
the Bible at present which I regard as a necessary foundation for her
future work."
Rúhíyyih Khánum used to relate a gleeful story on this subject
of her study of the Bible. In the course of a conversation with
Shoghi Effendi, she had one day said: "I have never read the Bible",
to which Shoghi Effendi responded with surprise, "It is high time you
did so!" Whereupon he gave her strict instructions to study it. She
ended her story by saying, "After that, not only did I study the
Bible diligently, but I also bought a copy of the Koran and read it
from cover to cover before he found out that I had not read the Koran
either!" Shoghi Effendi, in effect, was not only her theme in life,
but also her education. Although she was an autodidact by nature and
preferred to teach herself, rather than receive instruction--a habit
she applied to many subjects in later life--he was, in effect, her
principal teacher. At this time she was also seriously learning
Persian. She used to say that Shoghi Effendi once told her, "I am a
witness that all the Persian you have learned has been learned by you
yourself, without any help."
One of the most outstanding services performed by Rúhíyyih
Khánum during those eventful twenty years at the side of the beloved
Guardian, was to be his secretary. She undertook this task almost
immediately after her marriage, and became his principal secretary in
English from 1941 on. What may have been the first letter she wrote
on behalf of Shoghi Effendi is addressed to her mother, and includes
two postscripts in the handwriting of Shoghi Effendi.
Characteristically, these serve to highlight the bond of unity the
members of this family shared in their commitment to the Cause:
<p36>
[.]
[.//]
.......... The bond that has always united you to me has now been
powerfully reinforced, and I feel sure that the services you will be
enabled to render as a direct result of this new tie that binds us to
each other will serve to draw me closer to you, and enable me to help
you more effectively through my prayers.
[.///]
[.]
The second states:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Kindly assure Mr. Maxwell of my great love and affection
for him. I have great hopes that he will in collaboration with you
further the teaching work in Canada and thus pave the way for any
international services he may be enabled to render in the future.
[.///]
[.]
To her second letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi to her
mother, Shoghi Effendi appends the following:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Mary is in very good health and is making real progress in
her spiritual life and is cultivating those virtues and traits of
character that will be of immense value to her in her highly
responsible and exalted task which she is strenuously striving to
perform.
[.///]
[.]
The reciprocity between Rúhíyyih Khánum and her parents was
preserved despite the difficulties of distance and separation.
Following the guidelines set by Shoghi Effendi, she echoes the idea
that service to the Cause performed by anyone of them was a shared
blessing for them all and of direct consequence to each. In an early
letter to her father, responding to news of an indisposition on his
part, she emphasizes the closeness between them with a characteristic
jocularity that conceals her deeper anxieties and pains:
[.]
[.//]
.......... So you see, Daddy, it is little short of a sacred
obligation
<p37> on your part to do everything to keep well and in that way and
through serving the Cause help me all you can.
[.///]
[.]
She adored her mother and had always hoped to see her again. Two
years after her marriage, in December of 1939, May Maxwell echoes
this theme of closeness which is sustained through service of the
Cause, despite physical separation:
[.]
[.//]
.......... ...her sublime faith and courage, her deep insight into
the true meaning of life and of the eternal fruits of human pain and
sorrow, clearly reveal, not only the depth and strength of her
character, but also ... that she is walking in the path of light--
that she is one of those rare few who have truly attained their
highest destiny. It is not only thru my passionate love for this
great Bahá'í Faith, but thru my love for her, and yearning to be more
worthy of her, that I have considered going to South America to
teach.
[.///]
[./]
And so it was that May Maxwell decided to make her supreme
sacrifice. She went travel-teaching in order to be more worthy of her
beloved daughter whom she missed so much. She was 70 years old, with
a weak heart and in very poor health. She arrived in Buenos Aires at
the end of February, accompanied by her young niece, Jeanne Bolles,
and the next day, on March 1st, 1940, she died of a massive heart
attack.
The devastating news of May Maxwell's passing in Argentina was a
terrible shock to Rúhíyyih Khánum. She often repeated the story of
how she received this sad news from the Guardian. Four cables had
arrived that day and she took them to Shoghi Effendi in his study. He
opened each one and then looked up at Rúhíyyih Khánum with a mixture
of shock, love and compassion on his face. She said the look
frightened her, and she started backing away
<p38> until she reached the wall. She said she wanted to sink into
the wall so deep was the fear engendered in her by that look. Shoghi
Effendi went over to her, held her in his arms and broke the news to
her with great tenderness. He told her "Now I will be your mother".
Then he spoke of the high station of May Maxwell in the Abhá Kingdom,
of her joy in at long last having reached her heart's desire, of her
nearness to her beloved Lord and Master 'Abdu'l-Bahá. Then gently, in
order to dispel her shaking grief, he .began to talk to Amatu'l-Bahá
in a lighter mood, to describe her mother's activities in the next
world where she was going and what she was doing in that sublime
company. She would have been ushered immediately into the presence of
Bahá'u'lláh first, of course, he assured her. And no sooner had she
come there than she naturally asked permission to tell Him about her
precious daughter. But she talked so much that Bahá'u'lláh had
finally become tired and had passed her on to 'Abdu'l-Bahá. Here
again she did nothing but talk about her beautiful daughter, until at
length, exhausted, 'Abdu'l-Bahá passed her on to the Greatest Holy
Leaf. And there she is still said Shoghi Effendi laughing, there she
is still talking about her beloved daughter, stopping every passing
member of the Concourse with her opening lines, "Do let me tell you
about my daughter...!" By the time he reached this point in his
narrative, Rúhíyyih Khánum was laughing through her tears. And so
with infinite compassion and patience, he comforted her.
She went to the Shrine of Bahá'u'lláh afterwards and spent some
time alone in that hallowed spot reciting aloud the special prayer
for burial. She loved this prayer and described its effect in these
words:
[.]
[.//]
.......... As I repeated the verses, 19 times each, each time it felt
<p39> like the rushing of a wave which enveloped me and washed away
the burning in my heart and soul, until at the end I found peace and
comfort.
[.///]
[.]
The following three cables, the first from Shoghi Effendi to Mr.
Maxwell and the last two from the Guardian and Rúhíyyih Khánum
herself to the National Spiritual Assembly of the United States and
Canada, convey the significance of May Maxwell's station and the
loving, generous act of Shoghi Effendi in inviting her bereaved
husband to come and live close at last to his precious daughter.
[.]
[.//]
GRIEVED PROFOUNDLY YET COMFORTED ABIDING REALIZATION BEFITTING ONE SO
NOBLE SUCH VALIANT EXEMPLARY SERVICE CAUSE BAHA'U'LLAH STOP RUHIYYIH
THOUGH ACUTELY CONSCIOUS IRREPARABLE LOSS REJOICES REVERENTLY
GRATEFUL IMMORTAL CROWN DESERVEDLY WON HER ILLUSTRIOUS MOTHER STOP
ADVISE INTERMENT BUENOS AIRES STOP HER TOMB DESIGNED BY YOURSELF
ERECTED BY ME SPOT SHE FOUGHT FELL GLORIOUSLY WILL BECOME HISTORIC
CENTRE PIONEERS BAHA'I ACTIVITY STOP MOST WELCOME ARRANGE AFFAIRS
RESIDE HAIFA STOP BE ASSURED DEEPEST LOVING SYMPATHY.
[.///]
[.]
To the National Assembly he wrote:
[.]
[.//]
'ABDU'L-BAHA'S BELOVED HANDMAID GATHERED GLORY ABHA KINGDOM. HER
EARTHLY LIFE SO RICH EVENTFUL INCOMPARABLY BLESSED WORTHILY ENDED. TO
SACRED TIE HER SIGNAL SERVICES HAD FORGED PRICELESS HONOUR MARTYR'S
DEATH NOW ADDED, DOUBLE CROWN DESERVEDLY WON, SEVEN YEAR PLAN
PARTICULARLY SOUTH AMERICAN CAMPAIGN DERIVE FRESH IMPETUS EXAMPLE HER
GLORIOUS SACRIFICE. SOUTHERN OUTPOST FAITH GREATLY ENRICHED THROUGH
ASSOCIATION HER HISTORIC RESTING-PLACE DESTINED REMAIN POIGNANT
REMINDER RESISTLESS MARCH TRIUMPHANT ARMY BAHA'U'LLAH. ADVISE
BELIEVERS BOTH AMERICAS HOLD BEFITTING MEMORIAL GATHERING.
[.///]
[.]
<p40>
Ruhiyyih Khánum's cable, dated March 4th, states:
[.]
[.//]
HUMBLY GRATEFUL BELOVED MOTHER ANSWERED GUARDIAN'S CALL TURNED
SOUTHWARD SACRIFICED LIFE HOLY FAITH. BEG PRAYERS DAUGHTER MAY FOLLOW
HER FOOTSTEPS
[.///]
[.]
Some months after the passing of May Maxwell, when Reza Shah
Pahlavi of Iran was deposed and banished from his home and the news
came that the Allies were planning to send him to Argentina, Shoghi
Effendi told Rúhíyyih Khánum, "Let the living dead go and visit the
grave of the dead who are living."
One of the distinguishing characteristics of Rúhíyyih Khánum was
her selfless compassion for others in the midst of her own grief and
sorrow. This letter written to Lucienne Migette, reveals her empathy
towards this French Bahá'í, one of the many spiritual children of May
Maxwell, who was extremely attached to her:
[.]
[.//]
.......... I long to write to you in French as I know it is a closer
bond to be addressed in one's own language at such a time and I speak
French--but I cannot spell it, alas! But we do not even need words to
express to each other what we feel!
..........
Indeed, in spite of my own grief at hearing my beloved had left me in
this world, I was very distressed when I thought of how great a blow
this would be to you! I know only too well how much you miss her! But
now, dear sister, we must take comfort together. We must inherit, as
her true children, the children of her radiant and beautiful soul,
her character. We must be courageous as she was, going on to serve
our beloved Faith even as she did, till the last breath of her life!
I believe this is our heritage from her. To follow in her footsteps,
to go on with work she never deserted, day or night, for over forty
years! Only in this way can we be assured of being with her in the
world to
<p41> come. And I am sure Lucienne, that those who love her as we do,
are only thinking of how to be with her again! ...
.......... The beloved Guardian has been so kind to me, so loving and
gentle. He has carried me over the abyss! It was so sudden, such a
terrible shock! I was just living to see her again--but God takes
away from us in order to bestow something greater. If Mother had been
with me--she would not have died in Buenos Aires, sacrificing her
life itself for the Faith, setting us all an example we long to
follow, and winning the crown of Martyrdom!! We can only thank God we
had her for a spiritual mother--for that is the eternal bond that
cannot be severed!
[.///]
[.]
The passing of May Maxwell marked the beginning of turbulent
years in the Holy Land. The terrors of World War II were unleashed at
this very hour, and every mem-ber of Shoghi Effendi's family had left
the Cause. Mr. Maxwell had joined the Guardian and Rúhíyyih Khánum in
Rome in the summer of 1940, and when they could not return to
Palestine, they only just managed to reach France and cross over to
England on the last boat before the German army closed the borders.
Since Rúhíyyih Khánum recounts this story in full detail in {The
Priceless Pearl}, I will only outline it briefly.
Although it was at the height of the "Children's evacuation"
from Britain and all the boats were full, they were eventually able
to get passage on the SS {Cape Town Castle} and the three of them
sailed to South Africa in order to travel back up north to the Holy
Land, via Egypt. This was Rúhíyyih Khánum's introduction to sub-
Sahara Africa and served as the main stimulus for her return there so
many years later. They left Mr. Maxwell in Durban from where he flew
to Khartoum in the Sudan, and Shoghi Effendi and Rúhíyyih Khánum
drove overland from Cape Town to Cairo, seeing some of the well-known
sights along
<p42> the way. In Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe) they visited Cecil Rhodes'
grave and saw the magnificence of the Victoria Falls. When their car
broke down on an isolated jungle path in the Congo Rúhíyyih Khánum
asked Shoghi Effendi if she could go for a little walk while it was
being repaired. She was longing to stretch her legs after hours of
motoring and walked off down the narrow jungle path, oblivious of
time, drinking in the beauty of untouched nature. Suddenly she was
overtaken by an African cyclist who told her that the gentleman in
the car was very worried over her. Glancing at her watch, Rúhíyyih
Khánum was shocked to realize she had been walking for almost two
hours! She asked the man to lend her his bicycle and then cycled back
as fast as she could to relieve the Guardian of his anxiety! Rúhíyyih
Khánum's adventurous spirit was one of her most endearing
characteristics, especially in travelling. She loved the world of
nature, trees nourished her eyes and soul, and she was never happier
than when exploring. In later years she had the opportunity to
satisfy this deep yearning for nature in her extensive travels.
The war years were filled with activity and great achievements
at the World Centre. Before the arrival of Mr. Maxwell, Rúhíyyih
Khánum used to help Shoghi Effendi by making drawings to scale, and
constructing paper and cardboard models of stairs in the Shrine
Gardens, for example. She used to say that although Shoghi Effendi
had a perfect sense of taste and proportion, he said he could not
visualize an object; he had to see it in a drawing or a model. After
Mr. Maxwell came to live in Haifa, Shoghi Effendi asked Rúhíyyih
Khánum to draw something for him one day, and she said, "But Shoghi
Effendi, you have one of Canada's best architects across the street!
Let him do it for you." He had looked up at her surprised, and asked,
"Can your father do it?", to which she rejoined,
<p43> "Can he do it? He has built churches, hotels, parliament
buildings, and numerous houses. This is child's play for him."
This was the beginning of what Rúhíyyih Khánum liked to call a
"partnership between the Guardian and my father." She would say, "My
father was like a glove on the hand of Shoghi Effendi." It was during
this period that Shoghi Effendi commissioned Mr. Maxwell to make the
drawings for the superstructure of the Shrine of the Báb which was to
be the crowning achievement of the latter's long and successful
career. The love and collaboration between them was the greatest
source of joy to Rúhíyyih Khánum. She used to say, "I really learned
to know and appreciate my father through Shoghi Effendi." She liked
to tell the story of how, one night, when Shoghi Effendi was in bed
resting, she had brought him a beautiful drawing of the main gate to
the Shrine gardens. It was exquisitely drawn and delicately tinted
with water colours. Shoghi Effendi had taken the drawing from her,
looked at it, and said with a heavy sigh, "It is not fair." Alarmed,
Rúhíyyih Khánum had asked him what was wrong. "Nothing," he had said,
"nothing is wrong; it is just that when you are given such a
beautiful rendition, of course you want to have it!"
These were arduous but also very happy years for Rúhíyyih
Khánum. She used to say, "I was all alone: a wife, a companion, a
secretary and the housekeeper." She was always the happiest when she
worked the hardest. During this time she was also assisting the
beloved Guardian as a proof reader after he completed the writing of
his masterpiece, {God Passes By}. They would sit side by side, each
holding several copies of pages typed by Shoghi Effendi, and for
hours on end, they proof-read and transliterated those endless
Persian names together. She
<p44> said from the time she married until the Guardian's passing,
she was always in the room with him when he composed messages, both
in English and Persian. He composed out loud, and always chanted the
Persian in his heavenly voice. For years after she treasured the pile
of finished as well as unfinished embroidery which she used to sew
during those hours.
At the end of World War II, the factional fighting between the
Arabs and Jews began and the British Mandate came to an end with the
Israeli War of Independence. The shortage of food and lack of help
undermined Rúhíyyih Khánum's natural good health and left her ill
with a persistent fever and cough. She was alone in the house, with
her father and the beloved Guardian to tend for and no one to take
care of her. One day Shoghi Effendi asked if she had anyone she could
call upon to come and look after her and she thought of her dear
friend and spiritual daughter, Gladys Cotton, who was unmarried and
very fond of her. With Shoghi Effendi's encouragement she invited
Gladys to come, which she did, to their mutual advantage, for as it
turned out, she later married her old friend Ben Weeden in the Holy
Land. Gladys proved to be a great assistance to Rúhíyyih Khánum and
even more so to Shoghi Effendi.
From 1941, when Rúhíyyih Khánum became Shoghi Effendi's
principal secretary, until 1957, she wrote thousands of letters on
his behalf, a great many of which have already been published. She
always lamented the fact that her handwriting was not good and her
spelling imperfect. She used to refer to her handwritten letters and
say: "If you look at some of those letters, you will see that Shoghi
Effendi, on reading over them, has put a cross over the t's, a loop
over the i's, a dot over the i's, and made the a's look like a's and
the o's look like o's!" She also made
<p45> fun of her own spelling which was sometimes ingenious and
occasionally outrageous. Since she was never sure of it, she would
ask Shoghi Effendi for the correct spelling of words and one day, in
humorous exasperation, he turned to her and said, "Before you came
into my life I could spell; now you have confused me!"
She also frequently described how Shoghi Effendi trained her to
be a good secretary. From 1941 until 1951, when he appointed the
International Bahá'í Council, Rúhíyyih Khánum wrote all the
Guardian's letters long hand. She often suffered from writers' cramp
in her arm and shoulder because of this and it was only after Ethel
Revell, a member of the Council residing in Haifa, became her muchloved private secretary that she had any assistance in having these
letters typed. In those early days of training, Shoghi Effendi would
tell her exactly what to write but when she showed him the finished
letter he would take one look at its length, tear it up, and say,
"Brief! Be brief!" She used to say with a chuckle that she quickly
learned her lesson. In the early years, he would write down the
points he wanted her to incorporate in pencil at the bottom of the
letter he had received, but later on, when he saw how well she wrote,
he would just tell her what to answer verbally. However, she always
stressed the fact that he read every single letter she wrote for him
before appending his own postscript. In later years, she wrote not
only his personal letters but also his official correspondence with
National Spiritual Assemblies. He also asked her to read the National
Spiritual Assembly minutes received in German as he did not know that
language. Needless to say, she was able to lift a tremendous load
from his shoulders by performing this secretarial work.
In April of 1948, when Canada formed its first independent
National Spiritual Assembly, Rúhíyyih Khánum
<p46> rejoiced with and for the Canadian Bahá'í Community. She truly
participated with the Canadian friends in the celebrations, and
through her loving messages encouraged and uplifted them. To Rosemary
Sala, a very dear and old family friend, she cabled, on behalf of her
father and herself:
[.]
[.//]
WE WOULD DEEPLY APPRECIATE YOUR MAKING ARRANGEMENT SERVE DELEGATES
FRIENDS EITHER A BANQUET OR BUFFET IN OUR HOME TOKEN MAXWELL JOY
OCCASION CONVENTION... DEEPEST LOVE. [SIGNED] RUHIYYIH
[.///]
[.]
To which, three days later, Rosemary replied:
[.]
[.//]
HUNDRED FRIENDS OVERJOYED ACCEPT RIDVAN SUPPER SUNDAY YOUR GUESTS
WONDERFUL SPIRIT MOUNTING HEALING TROUBLED HEARTS. DEEPEST LOVE.
[SIGNED]
ROSEMARY
[.///]
[.]
To the Canadian National Convention she wrote:
[.]
[.//]
OUR HEARTS WITH YOU ALL JOYOUS TRIUMPHANT OCCASION LAUNCHING CANADIAN
INDEPENDENT SERVICE BELOVED FAITH ASSUMPTION PRECIOUS RESPONSIBILITY.
MAY YOUR LABOURS BREAK ALL RECORDS CARRY OFF ALL PALMS LOVING
GREETINGS BEST WISHES ALL IN WHICH MAY SURELY JOINS US. [SIGNED]
RUHIYYIH SUTHERLAND
[.///]
[.]
The jubilant answer of the Convention reads as follows:
[.]
[.//]
YOUR MAGNIFICENT LETTER READ FIRST MORNING MEMORABLE CONVENTION
FRIENDS DEEPLY GRATEFUL STIRRED REJOICE IN LINK WITH YOU AND YOUR
UNIQUE DEVOTED SERVICES GLORIOUS FAITH. SEND LOVE AND PRAYERS.
[SIGNED] FIRST CANADIAN CONVENTION.
[.///]
[.]
The magnificent letter in their cable refers to a six-page typed
letter signed "Rúhíyyih Khánum", addressed "To the Delegates and
friends attending the First Canadian National Bahá'í Convention".
<p47>
Two weeks later, on May 10th, 1948, she received this loving
cable from Dorothy Baker, who represented the United States National
Spiritual Assembly at the inaugural Canadian Convention:
[.]
[.//]
TWO CONVENTIONS GLORIOUS YOUR MESSAGE CANADA READ MAXWELL HOME
UPLIFTED ALL HEARTS STOP SUPPLICATING SPEEDY REOPENING COMMUNICATION
OUR BELOVED PRAYING ACCEPTED RANSOM HIS SAFETY DEAREST LOVE. [SIGNED)
DOROTHY BAKER
[.///]
[.]
While the establishment of independent National Spiritual
Assemblies was the cause of celebration in the Bahá'í world, the
cause of political independence was the source of much bloodshed
among nations at this time. In {The Priceless Pearl} Rúhíyyih Khánum
refers in full to the subject of war in the Holy Land prior to the
formation of the State of Israel. This cable from the Bolles family,
in April 1948, shows how concerned their family and friends must have
been: "Guardian you all constantly mind heart praying safety peaceful
surroundings..." Rúhíyyih Khánum's cable to Milly Collins, again in
April 1948, also gives us an idea of how the situation must have
been, how uncertain the future was: "Written you letter but unlikely
can mail it sorry. Very close to you always dearest. All well love.
[signed] Ruhiyyih". Despite the fact that it seemed, at times, as if
the tents of Armageddon were pitched in the valley of 'Akká while
gunfire echoed between sea and mountain, Rúhíyyih Khánum remained
calm in the heart of the storm with Shoghi Effendi as her example.
Rúhíyyih Khánum told us that Shoghi Effendi encouraged her to
write, and once, as she was copying her own favourite poems in a
book, he asked to see them for himself. The next day he gave her book
back, saying, "I read
<p48> them all. They are beautiful, they made me cry." She also said
that after the transfer of the remains of the Purest Branch and his
mother, Navváb, from the old 'Akká cemetery to Haifa and their
interment on the slopes of Mt. Carmel next to the resting-place of
the Greatest Holy Leaf in a very deeply moving ceremony, that night
Shoghi Ef-fendi looked at her and asked her, "Are you going to write
an article about this?" She was surprised and said, "Oh, Shoghi
Effendi, do you want me to?" He said, "Yes, it would be very good."
The result was that moving and heart-rending article in volume VIII
of {The Bahá'í World} entitled "The Burial of the Purest Branch and
the Mother of 'Abdu'l-Bahá". His encouragement was the main reason
she wrote the book {Prescription For Living}. She often said she felt
so sad for the young men who returned, confused and disillusioned,
from that devastating World War II to a changed and unfamiliar world.
She wanted to give them some light, some direction, and a way to see
hope for the future. She also used to say that David Hofman, who had
just started his publishing company, George Ronald, encouraged her to
write a book and let him publish it. After it came out, in 1950, she
dedicated the first copy to the beloved Guardian. He read it, praised
it and found one mistake in it that was later corrected; it is now
translated into six languages. Through Shoghi Effendi's training, she
also became an avid newspaper reader and kept interesting clippings
to the end of her life.
The general suffering at this time was augmented in Rúhíyyih
Khánum's private life by her father's severe illness during the
1940s. In 1950, when they were in Europe for the summer, Gladys
Weeden wrote to Rúhíyyih Khánum from Haifa saying that the rationing
of food was very bad and that given her father's serious condition
and his complications of the gall bladder, she should
<p49> know that fresh food was not available. So after consultation
with the Guardian, it was decided that Mr. Maxwell should be sent to
Canada with his Swiss nurse, until the situation improved in Israel.
When they parted at the end of that summer, it was the last time
Rúhíyyih Khánum saw her dear father. He died two years later in
Montreal.
After the formation of the State of Israel, Rúhíyyih Khánum
enjoyed a degree of freedom in Haifa that had not been possible for
her before. Her social life became more varied and lively. She was a
close friend of the Mayor of Haifa, Mr. Abba Khoushy, and his wife
Hanna, and began to give wonderful dinner parties and soirees for the
dignitaries of Haifa. She used to say Shoghi Effendi allowed her to
entertain as long as it did not interfere with her work and she did
not expect him to attend! She would hold her parties in the Western
Pilgrim House in the company of the members of the International
Bahá'í Council. This way, she said, the absence of the host was less
obvious.
The Bahá'í world was stirred to great excitement in 1951 with
the announcement of the formation of the first International Bahá'í
Council, of which Rúhíiyyih Khánum was herself a member. She was also
its chosen liaison with the Guardian. This news was announced to the
Bahá'í world by Shoghi Effendi in a stirring message, dated January
9th, 1951, whose vital significance can be gauged by the fact that it
is quoted in full in {The Priceless Pearl}.
A year later, in 1952, after the passing of Sutherland Maxwell,
Shoghi Effendi sent a cable dated March 26th to the National
Spiritual Assembly of the United States announcing that "mantle Hand
Cause now falls shoulders his distinguished daughter Amatu'l-Bahá
Rúhíyyih who already rendered still rendering manifold no less
<p50> meritorious self sacrificing services World Centre Faith
Bahá'u'lláh".
And the following year both the Canadian and Ameri-can "Bahá'í
News" confirmed that "The Maxwell home, blessed by the Master's visit
in 1912, has been declared a Shrine, to become to Bahá'ís, the most
holy spot in Canada, surpassing even the future temple" This was not
only one of the greatest gifts bestowed by 'Abdu'l-Bahá on the
Canadian Bahá'í community, but it was also a recognition of the
unique services of three of Bahá'u'lláh's outstanding servants--
William Sutherland, May and Mary Maxwell.
On the 15th of December 1952, the beloved Guardian announced
that five Intercontinental Conferences would be held during the
course of the Holy Year 1953, and designated Rúhíyyih Khánum to be
his representative at the Conference in Wilmette. It was a soulstirring cable which not only offered the Bahá'ís a sweeping vista of
their history and the challenges they faced ahead but also
specifically enumerated Amatu'l-Bahá's functions. She was, in his
words, to
[.]
[.//]
DELIVER MY OFFICIAL MESSAGE ASSEMBLED BELIEVERS ELUCIDATE CHARACTER
PURPOSES IMPENDING DECADE-LONG SPIRITUAL WORLD CRUSADE RALLY
PARTICIPANTS ENERGETIC SUSTAINED ENTHUSIASTIC PROSECUTION COLOSSAL
TASKS AHEAD.
[.///]
[.]
She was furthermore delegated by him to dedicate the Mother
Temple in North America on his behalf and
[.]
[.//]
UNVEIL OCCASION COMPLETION CONSTRUCTION MOTHER TEMPLE WEST PRIVILEGED
ATTENDANTS WILMETTE CON-FERENCE MOST PRIZED REMEMBRANCE AUTHOR FAITH
NEVER BEFORE LEFT SHORES HOLY LAND TO BE PLACED BENEATH DOME
CONSECRATED EDIFICE STOP MORE-OVER ASSIGNING HER TASK ACT MY DEPUTY
HISTORIC
<p51> CEREMONY MARKING OFFICIAL DEDICATION HOLIEST MASHRIQUL-ADHKAR
BAHAI WORLD REARED EVERLAST-ING GLORY HONOUR MOST GREAT NAME HEART
NORTH AMERICAN CONTINENT [SIGNED] SHOGHI
[.///]
[.]
When the National Spiritual Assembly of the United States asked
her if she would accept to be one of the keynote speakers at the
Conference, she naturally accepted. When Shoghi Effendi heard of it,
he asked her, "Can you do it?" Rúhíyyih Khánum's response was utterly
characteristic. "If I haven't got something to tell the Bahá'ís after
16 years at your side", she told him, "then I have not been worthy of
this honour." She was by nature courageous, although her humility was
also instinctive. And her love of Shoghi Effendi tempered her every
response. She had a capacity, even at times of great stress, to keep
her heart centred on the Covenant, her eyes fixed bravely ahead and
her feet firm on the ground.
I came to the Holy Land as a pilgrim in Ridván of 1953, and
remember that Amatu'l-Bahá left for Wilmette a day before my
pilgrimage ended. I will never forget how nervous and anxious she was
then. She had left North America 18 years before, when she was a
young Bahá'í and was known as the daughter of May Maxwell. Now she
was returning as Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum, the consort of the
beloved Guardian and a Hand of the Cause of God. But she was equal to
the challenge. Though very young myself, I was, like all who met her,
struck at once by her innate grace, her regal presence and disarmed
by her spontaneous vitality, her direct, unflinching gaze. She had
eyes that shifted colour with her clothes, sometimes appearing to be
green and sometimes blue. She herself always called them "yellow
eyes" and when she turned her unwavering look at you, it was not easy
to remain unaffected. In Wilmette, she rose to speak like the
<p52> queen she was, her delicate, gauzy mantilla framing her lovely
young face, and even from the photographs it is easy to see how she
would have made an unforgettable impression on the Bahá'ís, as well
as on the non-Bahá'í seekers and distinguished speakers. When the
chairman introduced her, scattering much flattery and many flowers of
rhetoric in the process, she quipped, "After such an introduction I
should be lowered from heaven!" It brought the house down!
There were 2,000 believers gathered for the dedication of the
Temple in Wilmette and Rúhíyyih Khánum shook hands with all of them,
developing a blister on her hand in doing so. She told us how she
kept this sore fresh on her finger by turning her ring daily and
pressing it hard against the flesh for almost three weeks, until she
arrived back in Haifa. Then she showed it to the Guardian and said,
"Look at this, Shoghi Effendi. There were so many Bahá'ís present
that I got a blister."
After attending the 1953 Forty-fifth Annual Convention, the
Bahá'í Dedication of the Temple, and the public Dedication the next
day, she attended the All-America Intercontinental Conference from
May 3rd to May 6th. In a cable answering one of Milly Collins',
Shoghi Effendi states:
[.]
[.//]
REJOICE AMATU'L-BAHAS SUCCESS SERVITUDE HOLY THRESHOLD SHARE YOUR
PRIDE CONTINUED PRAYERS SURROUNDING YOU BOTH.
[.///]
[.]
Rúhíyyih Khánum was accompanied all through this trip by Amelia
Collins, a Hand of the Cause and Vice-President of the International
Bahá'í Council. From the United States they went to Montreal to visit
her father's resting-place, which led Shoghi Effendi to send the
following
<p53> instructions to the Local Spiritual Assembly of Montreal:
[.]
[.//]
OCCASION VISIT AMATU'L·BAHA MONTREAL ADVISE ALL FRIENDS GATHER GRAVE
HA D CAUSE SUTHERLAND MAXWELL PAY TRIBUTE HIS IMMORTAL SERVICES WORLD
CENTRE FAITH STOP INSTRUCTING AMATU'L·BAHA MILLY PLACE BLOSSOMS
SHRINE AND FRESH FLOWERS MY BEHALF STOP APPRECIATE PHOTOGRAPH
ASSEMBLED FRIENDS LOVE.
[.///]
[.]
He asked Rúhíyyih Khánum to buy $120.00 worth of flowers on his
behalf for this event, and specifically requested that most of them
be blue. He knew Sutherland Maxwell's favourite colour was blue. The
memorial gathering was held at the graveside on May 10th and that
evening Rúhíyyih Khánum spoke at a public meeting at the Ritz-Carlton
Hotel.
After all these duties, she had the painful task of sorting out
her parents' belongings, and with Shoghi Effendi's consent, shipped
her personal furniture to Haifa. She then did a beautiful thing that
pleased the Guardian immensely. She gave her home, "The Bahá'í
Shrine", at 1548 Pine Avenue West, to the Faith. It is now registered
in the name of the National Spiritual Assembly of Canada.
When she finally returned to the Holy Land, she found Shoghi
Effendi waiting for her at the top of the staircase, in their own
private apartment in the Master's House. He was so thrilled with her
achievements on this trip that he had prepared a special gift for her
homecoming and handed her his gift right there on the stairs. Years
later, she showed me the exquisite tooled-leather folder which framed
two beautiful sheets of illuminated paper inscribed by Shoghi
Effendi's own hand. He had written in English on one side and in
Persian on the other, and the gist of the words were something like:
"Welcome Amatu'l-Bahá,
<p54> welcome. You return victorious in discharging your manifold
duties. Your martyred mother and your saintly father are proud of
you, and your Guardian is well pleased with you." These are naturally
not the Guardian's own words, but just what I remember of them.
The last years of our beloved Guardian's life were unusually
busy for Amatu'l-Bahá. The International Archives Building was being
constructed and Shoghi Effendi had begun to buy the appropriate
furnishings for it during his summers in England. With Rúhíyyih
Khánum's help he searched for and found all the ornaments and
cabinets needed to house the precious relics of the Faith. Rúhíyyih
Khánum would often say, "Shoghi Effendi was the hunter and I was his
hunting dog." She would go out and look for what he needed, and
whenever she found the appropriate object, she would come and tell
him about it. Then they would go together and if he liked the object,
he would purchase it.
She once asked Shoghi Effendi for a piece of land on the grounds
of their home to make a garden of her own and he offered her a little
comer at the back of the house to do with as she pleased. This she
worked on with great enthusiasm, making a plan for a fish pond and
flower beds which when completed transformed the patch into a
beautiful little garden. When Shoghi Effendi was buying eagles to
ornament the Shrine gardens, she found a small stone eagle herself,
and since he agreed that she might have it, she placed her own eagle
on the roof of a little building by her pool and garden. During this
time too, and usually till quite late at night, which was her only
free time, she designed and decorated the three rooms in the Master's
House which Shoghi Effendi had given to her to furnish with her
Montreal furniture. 'Abdu'l-Bahá's House was extremely austere. They
had been prisoners and exiles and
<p55> had accumulated no furniture of any value. Only the Master's
drawing room, where He received non-Bahá'í officials at the end of
His life, was furnished by the Greatest Holy Leaf with a set of
matching chairs and divans which she had bought in Beirut. Now that
Rúhíyyih Khánum had her own furniture, she began to make this home
her own. She created an exquisite library which she later used for
special dinner parties, particularly for dignitaries, and she called
her beautiful drawing room "Montreal in Haifa".
From 1952 onwards, when some degree of safety and order was
restored to Israel, Shoghi Effendi re-opened the opportunity for
pilgrimage, and the friends, deprived for a period of over ten years,
started coming to the Holy Land in groups of nine, from both the East
and the West. To welcome them, to cater to their needs, and respond
to their concerns was a considerable task in itself which consumed
not only many hours of the Guardian's time but those of Rúhíyyih
Khánum as well. All three meals for both Pilgrim Houses, East and
West, as well as for the domestic help, were prepared in the kitchen
of 'Abdu'l-Bahá's House and it was Rúhíyyih Khánum who had to plan
for and prepare these unending meals in the face of great shortages
of all kinds of essential foods in the post-war years.
In 1957, the beloved Guardian and Rúhíyyih Khánum left together
for their summer vacation for the last time. The Guardian was very
tired. As usual, he maintained all his correspondence in his absence
and carried with him all his notes for his map of the Ten Year
Crusade, which was approaching its midway point. In August that year
he thrilled the Bahá'ís of the world with a two-fold message. The
first part was the announcement of five Intercontinental Conferences
to celebrate this midway point of the Crusade, and the second was his
appointment of
<p56> eight more Hands of the Cause in different continents. Everyone
was filled with anticipation. Everyone looked forward to jubilation
and celebration ahead. We in Uganda were thrilled beyond belief, for
we had learned with awe and excitement that our precious Amatu'l-Bahá
Rúhíiyyih Khánum had been designated by the beloved Guardian to
represent him at the African Conference in Kampala. She was going to
come to us!
And then, on November 4th, the cataclysmic news of Shoghi
Effendi's passing rocked the Bahá'í world. He had died in London, we
heard in disbelief, and was gone from amongst us. The community of
the Greatest Name, which had for thirty-six years looked to him for
guidance, for encouragement, for leadership and, above all, for his
encompassing love, was lost, and bereft. And there was no one to turn
to but Amatu'l-Bahá, though she was the most forlorn of all at that
time. Her mother, whom she adored, had died far from her side, and
her father, whom she so cherished, was gone too, and now she had lost
her Guardian who had replaced them both. Her own heart-wrenching
story, entitled "The Passing of Shoghi Effendi", written soon after
his death, tells us everything that could be told. And yet, we will
never know what she must have felt in her soul on that cold November
morning in a hotel bedroom when she found her beloved gone. She was
alone, and as far as she knew the Guardian had left no will. It was
up to her to take the next step to ascertain what should be done.
<p57>
III
FINAL YEARS OF
SERVICE AND TRAVEL
<p58>
<p59>
III
The devastating shock of the sudden passing of beloved Shoghi
Effendi remained with Amatu'l-Bahá throughout her life. She told me
more than once, usually at times of sad despondency, which were rare,
that on that terrible morning when she went towards his bed and
greeted him as usual, when she received no answer and touched him,
when she found him cold and realized with a stab of pain that he was
gone, her instant reflex was to kill herself. She said that such a
state of mind and heart did not last long, however, for she knew only
too well that he would not be pleased with her if she had done this.
He had trained her for twenty years and entrusted his affairs to her
hands. How could she fail him now, at that moment of distress? In the
early years when we came to Haifa, Ali and I heard her say several
times that during their last summer in London, Shoghi Effendi had on
one occasion told her, "I don't want to go back to Haifa, you go
alone, you know what to do." She said that at the time she had
attributed this statement to his extreme tiredness and despondency,
as he was ill with severe influenza. But later when she remembered
his words, it gave her courage and self-assurance. The fulfilment of
all his hopes and the completion of all his aspirations for the Ten
Year Crusade became of uppermost importance to her. His good pleasure
became the goal and object of her existence. From that moment to the
end of her life her priorities never wavered.
In the face of her own immeasurable personal loss, however, it
is remarkable to consider with what self-abnegation her heart turned
to her fellow believers at that
<p60> critical time of trial, with what heroism, courage and
compassion she became the lighthouse to guide and show us the way to
safety. She appealed with all her soul to the unseen Source of life
and light, and then set about doing what needed to be done. All
around her, friends were prostrate with grief, helpless with sorrow,
leaving her to rise alone to the painful task in front of her, for
the sake of her beloved Shoghi Effendi. She had to inform the Hands
of the Cause and the Bahá'í world of this tragic event in such a
manner as might lessen as much as possible the shock waves it was
bound to cause. She had to tell the heart-broken believers to come to
his funeral and bid their Guardian a last farewell. She went around
London looking for a befitting burial ground and found it. She
searched for a shroud and chose the casket and bought it. She saw to
every detail in the sad days that followed. And the day after the
funeral, when she was driving away from the graveside, she saw in her
mind's eye a vision of a column, an eagle and a globe, and she
conceived the monument above his grave. She remembered how fond
Shoghi Effendi had been of beautiful columns, and how he had said it
was a pity that in his gardens there was no place for a single
column. With this thought in mind, she designed the graceful column
rising over his grave and placed the globe on it, surmounted by the
symbol of his victories: the majestic eagle, with its wings open. Was
it ready to fly?--Or had it perhaps just alighted from its lofty
heights?
On the 15th of November Rúhíyyih Khánum arrived in Haifa,
accompanied by her dear friend and colleague, the Hand of the Cause
Milly Collins. Three days later the first Conclave of the Hands of
the Cause began in Bahjí. It was during the first days of this
Conclave that they searched for the will of Shoghi Effendi and did
not find
<p61> it. At the end of that historic meeting, the Hands of the Cause
informed the benumbed community of the Most Great Name that there was
no other recourse but to turn with heart and soul to the explicit
directives in {The Dispensation of Bahá'u'lláh}, which Shoghi Effendi
had referred to as his Will and Testament, to complete the goals of
the Ten Year Crusade which he had bequeathed to them before he died,
and to arrange for the election of the Universal House of Justice at
the end of that period, the only infallible source of guidance for
the future.
During that first year after Shoghi Effendi's passing, Rúhíyyih
Khánum spent most of her time in Bahjí and slept in the Mansion.
Apart from carrying out all her heavy administrative duties, she
threw herself into physical work, cleaning the Shrine and working in
the gardens. She could not bear the emptiness and the loneliness of
her apartment in Haifa. The next five or six years were perhaps the
saddest and hardest in her entire life. Her {Poems of the Passing}
are the best witness to her broken heart. The first poem of this
collection, "A Waste, a Waste the World to Me" was written on
December 2nd, barely a month after the beloved Guardian's passing.
The messages of the Hands of the Faith written during this
period give us a glimpse of the back-breaking responsibility which
these brave men and women so ably shouldered in protecting the Cause
of God and leading the Bahá'ís of the world to their final victory.
The Hands of the Cause who gathered together at their Conclaves were
strong individuals from both the East and the West. Their primary aim
and objective was to direct and hold together the affairs of the
Cause of God but there often seemed to be unfathomable gaps in their
conflicting points of view. Mr. Samandarí, the oldest and one of the
most respected and loved among the Hands, used to say that the role
<p62> Amatu'l-Bahá played in those early gatherings was vital. She
became the bridge between cultures and languages, a Westerner imbued
with Eastern understanding. Her horizons had been widened and
stretched by Shoghi Effendi. As a result of her deep sense of
fairness and her ability to see clearly both sides of any argument,
the gaps were gradually narrowed and negotiated.
Amatu'l-Bahá demonstrated her own, immediate commitment to
service after the passing of the Guardian when she accepted to attend
the first of the series of the Inter-continental Bahá'í Conferences
called by the beloved Guardian to mark and celebrate the midway point
of the Ten Year Crusade. Initially, her grief was so intense that she
did not want to go, but her fellow Hands convinced her that since it
had been the wish of Shoghi Effendi, she must do so. She travelled
with Dr. Lutfu'lláh Hakím, a member of the International Bahá'í
Council, who had been designated by Shoghi Effendi to escort
Amatu'l-Bahá on that trip. Her dear cousin Jeanne Chute with her
husband Challoner also accompanied her. Although Rúhíyyih Khánum was
in mourning, and wore black for one year after Shoghi Effendi's
passing in accordance with the custom of the East, she altered this
custom for the duration of her trip to Africa and arrived at Entebbe
Airport dressed beautifully in a simple white suit. She told me
afterwards that all her clothes for that Conference had been seen and
approved by the Guardian the previous summer, and this was one of the
reasons why she did not come to Kampala in mourning clothes. She also
wanted to create the sense of jubilation during this Conference the
way Shoghi Effendi had anticipated it should be, and she knew that a
mood of mourning would not allow for this. Her standard in life was
always his approval and his good pleasure.
<p63>
Over 900 people stood up in sorrowful awe as she entered that
Conference Hall in Kampala, on January 24th, 1958. She was tall,
erect and very beautiful. And then, 400 African Bahá'ís raised their
voices and began to sing "Alláh-u-Abhá", softly and spontaneously.
The air was so charged with love, so pent-up with emotion as
Amatu'l-Bahá walked up the central aisle, that we were all shaken. We
felt lifted to higher realms. When she stood before us to address the
Conference, her voice broke and tears came to her eyes several times.
But the waves of deep love and sympathy in that audience were
tangible; they enveloped and caressed her, and at the end assuaged
her sorrow. She often said the love of the friends, particularly the
Africans, was like a balm to her soul and a healing for her grief at
that time. She also said that Africa was the continent that brought
most joy to the heart of Shoghi Effendi at the end of his life. That
was why she chose to place the continent of Africa on the front of
the globe surmounting his grave. Her love for the Africans and their
continent became a permanent part of her life afterwards. She brought
to that Conference a wider perspective, a global outlook, an allembracing point of view that we had been lacking, and she went back
from it recharged with hope and courage to continue.
Although she travelled to different conferences and to the
Dedications of both Mother Temples of Africa and Australasia during
the Custodianship of the Hands, her historic journeys for which she
is best remembered by the friends did not begin until after the
election of the Universal House of Justice. One of the most important
trips during this interregnum period, however, was her visit to major
communities in the United States and Canada in 1960. When Mason Remey
made his idiotic self-appointed claim as Guardian, and sent word that
he was
<p64> going to attend the National Convention in Wilmette to proclaim
himself to the Bahá'ís, the Custodians of the Faith asked Rúhíyyih
Khánum, who knew Mason from her earliest childhood, to be present at
that occasion and protect the assembled friends from any negative
influence that he might try to exert on them. Through her wisdom, her
courage, her firmness in the Covenant, she was able to infuse and
reinforce in the hearts of the friends the spirit of confidence and
steadfastness.
In 1961, the election of the International Bahá'í Council took
place. This Council, which was the precursor of the Supreme Universal
House of Justice, was destined to be of great assistance to the Hands
in the preparation for that first International Bahá'í Convention. It
helped the Hands to compile the marvellous statistical booklet at the
end of the Ten Year Crusade, as well as to make all the other
logistical arrangements. One of the major decisions of the Hands
during this period was that Rúhíyyih Khánum should undertake the
completion of the interior of the International Archives Building.
Again, in order to complete this task she turned for assistance to
the younger members of the newly elected Council. Shoghi Effendi had
bought beautiful Chinese and Japanese furniture during the last year
of his life for the purpose of decorating and displaying the holy
relics, and these had to be carefully arranged and meticulously
prepared for their precious contents. Artistry, a sense of
proportion, a strict adherence to the placement of the objects
according to the priority of their importance--all these guided
Amatu'l-Bahá in her task. The following acknowledgement written by
the Hands of the Cause in the Holy Land on August 28th, 1961,
expresses the significance and the results of what she did:
<p65>
[.]
[.//]
.......... We were so impressed by the effect that has been achieved
in the Archives Building that we feel we should write to express to
you our appreciation... The interior is truly worthy of the purpose
for which the building was designed. Many generations of Bahá'ís will
be grateful for the cumulative backbreaking efforts which were put
into making the Archives Building a fitting place for the holy relics
it will contain, though they may not be aware of the difficulties and
strains under which the result was achieved.
[.///]
[.]
The triumphant conclusion of the Ten Year Crusade of the beloved
Guardian, in April of 1963, was crowned by the election of the longawaited Universal House of Justice in Haifa. After consultation and
with the approval of the Hands of the Cause, Amatu'l-Bahá arranged to
conduct the opening session of this first International Bahá'í
Convention in the House of 'Abdu'l-Bahá itself. It was highly
symbolic that the election should take place in that blessed House,
which had played such a significant role in the unfoldment of the
Administrative Order of Bahá'u'lláh. With the help of some of the
Council members, she painstakingly measured the central hall, as well
as the four rooms opening into it, and confirmed that the space was
just large enough for exactly the right number of chairs to seat all
the attendants.
"The Most Great Jubilee" was truly unforgettable. How thrilling
was that morning of the first election of the Universal House of
Justice, and how great the celebration which followed it in Bahjí at
the Shrine of the Blessed Beauty! To befittingly honour the occasion,
Rúhíyyih Khánum had ordered thousands of roses and carnations to
carpet the inner rooms of all three Shrines. With just a handful of
helpers she worked through the day and all through the night, till
the early hours of
<p66> dawn, nipping the buds and culling the blossoms to lay thick
upon the ground. This lovely gesture was to become a tradition that
would be followed in later years, and was an exquisite example of
Rúhíyyih Khánum's aesthetic and spiritual sensibilities combined. The
beauty and the fragrance of the Shrines on that day were imprinted in
the hearts and memories of all present. She opened that International
Bahá'í Convention and every successive one, till that of April 1998.
After the successful election of the Supreme Body, Rúhíyyih
Khánum and the Hands of the Cause of God rejoiced with 7,000 Bahá'ís
in London in the majestic Royal Albert Hall for the celebration of
the first Bahá'í World Congress. It was on this occasion that the
Universal House of Justice presented its very first statement to the
Bahá'í world, in which tribute was paid to those who
[.]
[.//]
.......... share(d) the victory with their beloved commander, he who
raised them up and appointed them. They kept the ship on its course
and brought it safe to port. The Universal House of Justice, with
pride and love, recalls on this supreme occasion its profound
admiration for the heroic work which they have accomplished ... the
reality of the sacrifice, the labour, the self-discipline, the superb
stewardship of the Hands of the Cause of God.
[.///]
[.]
Amatu'l-Bahá personally invited a number of indigenous Bahá'ís
to attend this historic event as her personal guests, from Africa,
South America and Australia. "Uncle" Fred, that dignified, old
Aborigine from Australia, was among them and his stalwart faith was a
source of joy and pride to her. Her deeply moving and thoughtprovoking talk on Shoghi Effendi's life on this occasion was a
masterpiece of eloquence and poignancy. And none who saw
<p67> her there could forget the emotions experienced as the dear
friends from Africa softly chanted the rise and fall of "Alláh-u-
Abhá" once more, just as they had done at the Kampala Conference
after the passing of the Guardian. And none who heard them there
could restrain the stab of loss and sorrow and the thrill of joy as
we brought his Ten Year Crusade to its final and triumphal close.
Rúhíyyih Khánum's systematic travels around the globe began in
the year 1964. Many times, both privately and publicly, Rúhíyyih
Khánum would talk about the genesis of these unique trips. She would
recount an incident in the lifetime of Shoghi Effendi, when one day,
as he was passing by her desk, he stopped and looked at her and said,
"What will become of you after I die?" She was shattered by this
unexpected remark and began to weep, say-ing, "Oh Shoghi Effendi,
don't say such terrible things. I don't want to live without you." He
paid no attention, however, and after a pause continued, "I suppose
you will travel and encourage the friends". She would say this was
the only remark he ever made about what she should do with her life
after his passing. And so it was that, when she was somewhat freed
from her arduous administrative duties and the affairs of the Cause
were placed under the infallible guidance of the Universal House of
Justice, she took these words as his last instructions to her and did
her utmost to fulfil his hopes.
In the course of her long life she travelled to 185 countries,
dependencies and major islands of the globe. But while she visited
just 31 countries in the first 54 years, she travelled in all the
rest during her last years, from 1964 until her final trip in 1997.
When I tried to count the number of territories she visited in these
34 years, I came up with the astounding figure of 154. Many of these
countries were visited more than once, and some, like
<p68> India, were honoured by her presence as many as nine times.
But travelling was not the only thing she did during this period
and her trips were of such a variety that the best way to look at
them is through the range of activities which they involved. Indeed,
the wide spectrum of her achievements, from 1964 until her last
official engagement in April of 1998, leaves the mind reeling with
disbelief. To stand back for a brief moment and look at all that she
accomplished in 34 years dazzles the sight. Her many activities
scintillate like multi-coloured rays of light reflected through a
crystal window. The single-minded purity of that light was one:
devotion to the Covenant; but its expression was infinitely varied,
richly diverse. One is reminded of May Maxwell's words written to and
about her beloved daughter many years ago:
[.]
[.//]
.......... I really feel, Mary, that the great spiritual blessings
which are coming to you in guiding so many souls to the Blessed
Cause, are not only due to the power of spiritual attraction which
'Abdu'l-Bahá gave you, but also to your strict obedience to the
instructions of Shoghi Effendi.
[.///]
[.]
Though I was privileged to travel with her on some of her
remarkable journeys during this time, I can only write of all that
she accomplished in their course with my head bowed in admiration,
acutely aware of my inadequacy to summarize her achievements.
Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum used to say, "I have lived five lives in
this one life", and this remark could just as well apply to her
trips, for she was certainly covering at least five times as many
activities in the course of a single journey as any other normal
traveller might have done.
In each country she performed multiple services for
<p69> the Cause. Her role as Ambassador of the Bahá'í Faith, for
example, was remarkable in itself. Everywhere she went she met with
Heads of State and high-ranking authorities at the national, local or
even village levels, and moved with complete ease from one class of
society to another. Although she herself was in every way queenly and
worthy of honour and respect, she always approached these emblems of
material power and political authority with deference and a natural
humility. From the first moment of her audience, she would explain
that her visit was in the nature of a courtesy call, and nothing
more. She would invariably state that she had come from the World
Centre of the Bahá'í Faith and was visiting the Bahá'ís in that
country, who were a strictly apolitical and non-partisan people,
well-wishers of the government and obedient to its laws. When asked
by the National Spiritual Assemblies of these countries to raise the
question of Bahá'í registration or make any other request during the
course of her official audiences, she would always refuse. She would
then explain to the Bahá'ís that her purpose in meeting any officials
or dignitaries was to introduce them more intimately to the
principles of the Faith and create an atmosphere of trust so that
later on, when she had gone away, the Bahá'í institutions could more
easily approach the government and make their own requests. This
policy invariably worked.
In Africa alone she met with 17 Heads of State and was
instrumental in helping the Bahá'ís achieve many of their legal
goals. The highest in rank and the leader she most valued meeting in
all her travels was Emperor Haile Selassie of Ethiopia. She greatly
admired his nobility, his courage and his uprightness. The Head of
State whose meeting brought her the greatest joy and pride was His
Highness Malietoa Tanumafili II of Western Samoa,
<p70> the first ruling monarch to embrace the Cause of Bahá'u'lláh.
In all her encounters, she strove to be positive and looked for every
opportunity to offer praise and appreciation in her dealings with
state officials, even if very little was called for. When she met the
Prime Minister of India, Indira Gandhi, for example, she praised her
courage and high ideals and assured her of her prayers. No wonder
that proud lady was touched and responded with warm respect and
reverence. She always maintained a high standard of propriety in
these matters, and when she shared the platform or sat at dinner with
such people as Prince Philip of Great Britain or the Archbishop of
Canterbury, with Governors-General and Ambassadors, she invariably
won their admiration and respect, not only for herself but most
importantly for the Cause of Bahá'u'lláh. This was her ultimate
concern. Rúhíyyih Khánum truly had no personal ambition; she was not
in the least interested in meeting or moving in such company for its
own sake or her pleasure. It was only for the Cause that she would
accept any appointments and invitations of this kind.
Another activity which she undertook in the course of her many
travels was contact with the representatives of the media. She must
have had hundreds of newspaper, radio and television interviews, in
the capital cities around the world as well as in the large and small
towns of every country she visited. No matter where the interview
took place, no matter how insignificant or important, she agonized
over what she would say and never took the opportunity for granted.
Before going to meet a journalist or be filmed in a studio she would
always pray and ask for God's guidance, His assistance and, above
all, His protection. She used to tell the friends that when they met
the representatives of the media, their principal aim
<p71> should be to create a good impression of the Faith. "If these
people only remember one thing, that the word 'Bahá'í means something
good, you have achieved your purpose", she used to say. She would
advise the friends to have enough printed information about the
teachings and concepts of the Faith always available in advance as
hand-outs, because the media representatives never remembered verbal
information correctly. All they remembered was the impression they
received. "Make every effort to make this worthy of Bahá'u'lláh", she
urged the friends. Many of the articles that appeared after
interviews with the press portrayed Rúhíyyih Khánum's personal charm
and candour. In a newspaper in Nigeria, for example, a cheeky young
reporter wrote a very good article on the Bahá'í Faith, ending with
this comment: "Madame Rabbani, you are always welcome in our country;
next time you come please bring your daughter, who must be very
beautiful"! So many times, either on radio or television, the
interviewer would become so interested in Amatu'l-Bahá that he would
increase the time allotted to her, on occasion by half an hour.
Another vital service rendered by Amatu'l-Bahá in the course of
her many travels was her role as the representative of the Universal
House of Justice at national and international Bahá'í Conferences
across the planet. Her talks were both instructive and memorable on
these occasions. Standing on platforms on behalf of the Sacred
Institution she served, in the course of Bahá'í Conventions at
Ridván, at youth conferences and Native gatherings, at inaugurations
of Bahá'í Temples and other great historical events to which the
Bahá'ís had streamed from all the quarters of the globe, she was
erect and regal and forever memorable, the essence of dignity and
beauty. Her mastery of just the right word on each of
<p72> these occasions. her ability to draw out her audience and touch
people's hearts, her clear and simple logic which made sense to
everyone alike, and, above all, her wit and her bewitching sense of
humour--these qualities endeared her to and charmed her audiences.
Who could ever forget her visible joy who saw her at New York City at
the second Bahá'í World Congress? Who could forget her eloquence who
heard her speak, in Paris, in Machu Picchu, or Auckland? Although
Rúhíiyyih Khánum did not consider herself a pious person who spent
much time in prayer, I believe she had a genuine reverence which was
very private and unpretentious. When asked, she attributed her power
of public speaking to the fact that at the beginning of her marriage
Shoghi Effendi had recommended that she memorize the beautiful prayer
of 'Abdu'l-Bahá which begins, "O Lord, my God and my Haven in my
distress! My shield and my Shelter in my woes!..." and which
concludes with the poignant sentence: "Loose my tongue to laud Thy
name amidst Thy people, that my voice may be raised in great
assemblies and from my lips may stream the flood of thy praise." She
also attributed it to the advice given by 'Abdu'l-Bahá to May
Maxwell, to turn her heart to Him, pray, and then speak, for Rúhíyyih
Khánum herself followed this advice faithfully. She gave talks with
the same degree of resourcefulness in French, in German and in
Persian. I remember when we were at a meeting with the Bahá'ís of
Mauritius, she asked her audience whether they wanted to hear her
French, which was grammatically rusty and a muddle of genders, or
have her speak in English, with a translator? The whole audience.
with one voice, begged her to speak in French and I, who understand
the language most imperfectly, can testify to the impact of her
words, despite the faults! Persian also was a language
<p73> she had learned orally and by herself. She didn't know much
grammar and her vocabulary was limited and rather quaint. Despite its
limitations, however, she always knew exactly what she wanted to say,
and said it forcefully, simply, choosing exactly the right words. The
Persians, I know, just loved her ingenuity in inventing new words all
of her own, a combination of the cross-fertilization of languages and
a lively visual imagination translated into words.
One of the most memorable services in the course of Amatu'l-
Bahá's many travels was the time she spent and the attention she gave
to perfectly ordinary people in the peripheries of society. Rúhíyyih
Khánum was at her happiest with villagers, wherever they might have
been. When asked what was her favourite spot, the place she had
enjoyed most in all her travels, she would often say that it was in
the villages and jungles of the world.
She rarely missed the opportunity to validate people in far
flung and remote places whom few had heard of and whose simple
actions none might ever know. I remember, when we were travelling in
Africa, we arrived in a small town on the border of Kenya and Uganda
and were invited to lunch in the home of an elderly man, a Bahá'í of
some years. They told us he used to work as a cook in the city for
the Europeans and had now retired. He had set an elegant table for
his precious guest in his small, clean and beautiful hut, with a
spotless, brilliant white linen tablecloth and matching napkins, and
he served us a most delicious rice and curry. Rúhíyyih Khánum, who
herself loved beautiful table settings, was thrilled and made him
feel that his home was a palace and his hospitality that of a king.
We never forgot that lunch and I don't think our host ever forgot it
either.
How often in the course of these 40 years by her side
<p74> did I witness shy, unsure, sometimes dejected human beings
uplifted by her genuine kindness, her praise and patience. The
lowered head would be raised a little, self-assurance would be
restored and dignity regained. Her instinct was to approach people
with an open, candid heart, simply and unselfconsciously. It was to
look for positive qualities in people and verbalize these. But though
she was the perfect diplomat in some respects, she was also very
direct and often said things frankly and outspokenly. At times she
may have hurt people's pride. However, I witnessed how many times she
regretted it, how much she felt remorse afterwards if she thought she
may have been too harsh with anyone. The driving impulse in all her
encounters with the Bahá'ís was to stir them to action and rouse them
up so that they would teach the Faith. And often, even when she was
critical of individuals, her intent was to protect the Cause. If her
manner may at times have appeared abrupt, and initially formidable to
those who approached her, it was often the result of her own innate
shyness, which few people guessed, for she was disconcerted, to the
end of her life, by effusiveness and adulation. While she was a
stickler for the respect due to the rank she occupied as Hand of the
Cause of God and the widow of Shoghi Effendi, she was the last person
to stand on ceremony with the friends.
Seldom did Rúhíyih Khánum travel, especially on her longer
trips, without a pet. Her love for animals was such that she would
gladly accept the extra hardship of tending and cleaning her pets for
the simple joy of their company. She used to say, "I get strength and
vitality from animals." Her most famous and widely-travelled pets are
worthy of mention. There was, for example, the agouti, named Usu
after his birth place, the island of Usupoto in
<p75> Panama. Usu travelled with her through all the 11 countries in
South America, arrived safely in Haifa, and lived a very happy and
pampered life for 20 full years. Or there was Tooti, her African Grey
parrot from Ghana, who journeyed with us through 30 countries in
Africa and gave us a great deal of joy. Tooti was a terrific talker,
and learned many languages from the numerous hotel employees along
the way; she also announced our arrival everywhere with a loud
"Rabbani African Safari"! Or there were the two mischievous
chipmunks, Tillie and Chips, and the lame parrot called Horatio who
were her companions on her trip to the islands in the Indian Ocean.
Or the beautiful baby ocelot she bought from a vendor in a small town
in Ecuador, who successfully travelled with us through 13 islands in
the West Indies. And of course there were many others. Her motto was,
"You only live once; why not get clean joy out of it?"
Rúhíyyih Khánum was one of the most hard-working human beings
that I have ever met. She often used to say, as she kneeled to scrub
the tiles or polish the floor or stood on the top of a ladder
painting walls and ceilings, "Rúhíyyih Khánum has done a great many
things in life which Mary Maxwell would never have dreamed of doing."
And she never asked anyone to do anything which she had not or could
not also have done herself. Much of her hard work was centred on her
home in Haifa, which was the hub of continuous activity until the
last two and a half years of her life. She kept a regular entourage
around her as busy as herself and trained them rigorously in the arts
of practical maintenance at the World Centre.
Her first and foremost concern was always the upkeep and care of
the Shrines. I remember the only nightmares she ever had, which were
very rare, were about some harm done to the Bahá'í Holy Places or
disrespect shown
<p76> towards the Shrines. From the time of the election of the first
Universal House of Justice, she assumed the task of educating those
of us who were new in Haifa in how to care for the Holy Places. She
taught us how to clean the Sacred Shrines, how to wash each crystal
in their chandeliers, how to arrange and freshen the flowers, to
restore the curtains and curtain linings, how to cover the Thresholds
with petals, simply and informally, without rigidity, Her constant
reminder was to keep these precious Holy Shrines exactly the way
Shoghi Effendi had arranged them. "This is not a place of innovation,
but preservation" was her advice to all, and she was acutely
sensitive if anyone tried to introduce his or her own likes or
dislikes into this area of service. She also undertook periodically
to inspect and keep all the Holy Places in order, framing pictures,
replacing the frayed and worn out fabrics, keeping an eagle eye on
any deviation from the Guardian's ways. When she travelled to
countries where she could find fine textiles, table cloths or
ornaments needed in the future for these Holy Places or the Shrines,
she would purchase these and keep them in the depot, in her home, for
future use. For she was a very practical person. She knew these
material things would break, grow old, be lost and need to be
replaced and she literally created a bank of appropriate furnishings
for these Holy Places for the future which were in keeping with the
style and taste of the past.
Economy was her constant cry and she deplored waste in any form.
How many houses she furnished with second-hand furniture found in her
forays in the flea markets of Haifa and Jaffa. How much she saved the
Fund with her shrewd bargains and strict economies. The renovation
and furnishing of the House of 'Abdu'lláh Páshá engrossed her
interest for several years. She collaborated with and helped the
Universal House of Justice not
<p77> only in its renovation, but also in its interior decoration.
She searched for and found period Turkish furniture in 'Akká, Nablus
and other areas, with the help of Salah Jarrah, the faithful servant
of Shoghi Effendi. This House in particular is a masterpiece of her
creativity and artistic ability.
One of her most endearing projects in between journeys, when she
returned to Haifa, was the never-to-be-forgotten bazaars she
organized in her own home. She was consummately skilled at bringing
people together and making them work in joy and harmony for a cause.
In the case of her wonderful bazaars, this particular cause combined
two absorbing interests: the Fund and flea markets. When there were
still relatively few of us in Haifa, she would involve almost
everyone in helping her, and raised large amounts of money for causes
close to her heart, such as the Bahá'í Temple in India, or special
teaching projects in different parts of the world. This was one of
the many ways in which she brought joy to the House of the Master,
which had in the past seen so much grief and sorrow. Without ever
violating its sacredness or intruding into its heart of sanctity, she
opened wide its doors and filled its rooms with delighted laughter,
for she was one of those rare human beings who know how to combine
deep reverence and respect with complete freedom of heart and
spontaneity of expression.
Another of Amatu'l-Bahá's important social activities in Haifa
was her role as the Hostess. Her beautiful library, which was her
official dining room for special guests and occasions, and her
charming drawing room, which she referred to as "Montreal in Haifa",
were the scenes of many elegant dinners and luncheon parties. She
loved setting a beautiful table, arranging flowers and overseeing
every detail of the event. Apart from formal dinners, she
<p78> would also give many informal parties, just for fun. After
returning from India, every now and then she would be so homesick for
that country that she would throw an "Indian Night" party. She would
dress the few ladies working at that time in Haifa in her beautiful
saris, trace the floors with exquisite patterns made of coloured
flour, play Indian music, and we would all enjoy delicious, spicy
Indian food under her hospitable roof. And also do the cleaning up
with her afterwards! Or there were her exciting "African Nights" when
all the friends who were either African or connected to the work in
Africa were invited to her home, usually outside in her beautiful
garden, and after a scrumptious dinner would drum and sing to their
hearts' content. How exhilarating were her dinner parties for the new
Counsellors, too, where the guests, numbering over 90 at times, were
squeezed into the main hall, as she would say, "with a shoe horn".
Even the dignified member of the Universal House of Justice, Charles
Wolcott, a distinguished musician himself, was so taken by the spirit
of happiness on one of these occasions that he spontaneously played
on her large African drum, to the intense joy of Rúhíyyih Khánum and
the African Counsellors. Many hundreds of the friends who met
Amatu'l-Bahá on her travels, enjoyed her delightful hospitality and
loving attention when visiting Haifa.
There were, of course, a stream of regular nine-day pilgrims
with whom she also met, twice a month for nine months of the year,
during the course of her last decades in residence in Haifa. This was
a custom and responsibility which went back to her earliest years at
the side of Shoghi Effendi, and which she dutifully maintained until
the last years of her life. She spoke with about 2000 pilgrims each
year in the main hall of the Master's House, giving talks which
provided guidance and inspiration for
<p79> many, and she also kept up a voluminous correspondence,
encouraging institutions as well as individuals and responding to
questions and requests throughout these years.
A particularly important event that took place in Haifa during
this period, and one which brought many hundreds of pilgrims flocking
through the doors of the Master's House, was the Centenary of the
arrival of Bahá'u'lláh in the Holy Land in 1968. That year, two
thousand Bahá'ís gathered in Haifa and 'Akká, many of whom had
crossed the Mediterranean Sea after attending the Palermo Conference
in Sicily. Another extraordinary event in which Rúhíyyih Khánum
participated was the commemoration of the Centenary of the passing of
Bahá'u'lláh, during the Holy Year, 1992. On this occasion, three
thousand Bahá'ís came to the Holy Land and gathered during the
afternoon of May 28th at Bahjí to witness the ceremony during which
Amatu'l-Bahá lowered the cylinder containing the Roll of Honour of
the Knights of Bahá'u'lláh and placed it in its permanent place at
the entrance of the Most Holy Shrine. On the night of His Ascension,
after a devotional program in the Haram-i-Aqdas, we all
circumambulated that blessed Shrine, the paths round which were lined
and lighted by thousands of candles. Rúhíyyih Khánum spent that night
and the night before in the Mansion of Bahjí. She hardly slept the
first night for, despite her advanced age by this time, she and her
small band of helpers worked until the early hours of the morning
carpeting the Shrine with thousands of rose buds and carnations, just
as she had done almost 30 years before. When she completed the
circumambulation, she went into the Mansion, stood on the balcony and
watched in ecstasy and awe the complete ring of Bahá'ís circling
round that Holy of Holies.
Amatu'l-Bahá's legacy to us, apart from the rich
<p80> memories of her personality and the varied activities
associated with her services, also lies in the treasure trove of
books she wrote and films she produced. When one contemplates the
fullness of her days and years, many of which were spent in travel,
one is filled with wonder at how she managed to do so much writing,
which involves staying still and without any distractions for long
periods of time. When did she ever have sufficient time to write such
invaluable books as {The Priceless Pearl}, for example? Often, when
asked how she could conduct such a full social life, fulfil so many
teaching and administrative obligations and complete such a weighty
textbook in the history of our Cause too, she would say, "I worked
according to the pattern of Shoghi Effendi when writing {God Passes
By}." She gathered and read all her material and facts in one year,
making copious notes. Then the following year she wrote the book.
Many of her books were written in the pauses between trips. Her
{Manual for Pioneers}, written with the practical desire to help many
young and inexperienced Bahá'ís across the world, was the result of
her observations while travelling in Africa. She began tak-ing notes
during her trip and then wrote the book in Haifa after she returned.
{The Desire of the World} is a compilation of prayers and personal
meditations which she had collected over the years during the dawn
hours of the Fast period. {The Ministry of the Custodians}, her
masterly compilation covering the interim period before the election
of the Supreme Body, includes a powerful introduction written by
Amatu'l-Bahá and fills a vital gap in Bahá'í history, covering almost
six years of invaluable service of the standard-bearers of the Cause
of Bahá'u'lláh. Her last literary work, {Poems of the Passing}, an
outpouring of her broken heart after the death of Shoghi Effendi, was
printed in 1996 and seems, after her own recent passing,
<p81> to give us words with which to grieve in turn. Although she had
excellent help for typing and other technical matters, Rúhíyyih
Khánum was especially involved with the appearance and layout of all
her books, particularly the covers and dust jackets, which she
herself always chose and sometimes designed. For some of her
publications she even selected the page formatting, and the style and
size of the fonts used. She was not content with delegating any tasks
which she could do herself and mastered many skills as the result, to
oversee their being properly done.
Two documentary films were also produced by Rúhíyyih Khánum in
the course of her life, which she not only featured in herself, but
also directed. Even the smallest detail of the editing and sound
track in these films were subject to her taste and judgement, for she
never engaged in any project if not whole-heartedly. "The Green Light
Expedition" was the fruit of her six months' journey in 1975 through
the Amazon Basin, the Peruvian and Bolivian altiplano, all the way to
the Bush Negroes of Suriname. This two-hour documentary is truly a
classic masterpiece, an expression of her concern for the moral as
well as the environmental plight of people and places so long ignored
and unjustly treated. Her second film, a deeply spiritual experience,
is called "The Pilgrimage", and offers a visual pilgrimage to the
Holy Shrines and sites of the Bahá'í Holy Places in Haifa and 'Akká,
with the privilege of Amatu'l-Bahá as one's guide.
Even if there were all the images of her memorable travels and
all the tapes of her talks at our disposal, how is it possible to
encompass a life as rich and broad as that of Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih
Khánum's in this inadequate frame of words? She touched and filled my
life and the lives of numerous people everywhere around the world,
not only by giving us a desire to serve but also by bringing
<p82> us joy and laughter, and her relationships have linked many
people over the years. But the primary source of comfort and
happiness to Amatu'l-Baha herself in the last decades of her life
was, above all else, her love for the Universal House of Justice and
her bond with this Institution and its individual members. Every
single year, from the time of its inception in 1963, on the
anniversary of the passing of the beloved Guardian, she received most
heart-warming, most loving tributes from the Supreme Body to the
victories she had won in the previous year. Each Naw-Rúz too, or on
the occasion of her return from her long travels, and also on her
birthday, she received loving and encouraging personal messages from
the Universal House of Justice which warmed her heart. In March of
1987, on the 50th anniversary of her marriage to the beloved
Guardian, the Universal House of Justice gave a banquet in her honour
in the majestic banquet hall of its Seat. This honour was repeated a
decade later on the anniversary of her 60th year in the Holy Land,
and it meant more to her than could be expressed in words. When all
nine members of the Universal House of Justice came to her home for
the last time three weeks before her passing and paid their respects,
when she was quite frail and in bed, such a deep sense of happiness
and contentment enveloped her that it was tangible, like sunlight, in
the room after they left. She lingered quietly in that light a
moment, and then said--"I felt their love; they are my closest
friends." This bond, which symbolized her total dedication to the
Covenant throughout her life, was strong and vibrant to the end and
always reciprocal.
About two weeks before her passing, she was in her bed with her
eyes closed. I thought she was asleep, when suddenly she opened her
eyes, turned towards me and said, "Remember, white over black". She
repeated this twice, and again closed her eyes. I did not know if she
had been dreaming or thinking about something specific. When she
passed away, I remembered this, and remembered too the square piece
of black silk velvet which she owned that was lined and embroidered
so beautifully with exquisite gold thread. She had used this a few
times for the funerals of very special people, such as the Hands of
the Cause Milly Collins and Tarázu'lláh Samandarí, as well as Ethel
Revell. We covered her casket with this, and placed along its full
length a most delicate floral arrangement of white rose buds,
fuchsias and tubular roses. Was this what she had seen?
How befitting her funeral was, held in the large central hall of
the Master's House where she had chaired the election of the first
Universal House of Justice. Accordingly, we followed the same pattern
that she had set on that significant occasion and removed the doors
to the four sides of the hall in order to arrange seats for the large
number of people attending her funeral service. The two Hands of the
Cause were present, together with members of the Universal House of
Justice, the International Teaching Centre Counsellors, and twentyfour Continental Counsellors from all over the world. Also attending
were her family members and representatives from 76 National
Spiritual Assemblies, senior officials from the Canadian and United
States embassies, representatives of the Israeli government, the
mayors of Haifa and 'Akká, other prominent Israeli citizens and a
number of special invited guests. The hall and both sides of the
front entrance were filled with beautiful floral arrangements which
over-flowed down the steps and into the garden of her home. Following
the readings and the chanting of the Prayer for the Dead, she left
for the last time that house which she had entered as a bride 63
years before, her coffin carried
<p84> by members of the Universal House of Justice, This beautifully
crafted coffin of clear American cedar was borne across the street
and lowered into its vault in the centre of the garden opposite by
believers representing a variety of ethnic origins. Her restingplace, too, was heaped on each side by a tribute of flowers from
those who loved her all over the planet, though despite their volume,
how few they seemed before her great achievements. Almost 1,000
people, including pilgrims and volunteers serving at the Bahá'í World
Centre, stood outside her home and in the closed-off street, as well
as in the garden where her grave had been prepared. The interior of
the grave was carpeted on all sides with hundreds of roses and
carnations, just as she had arranged for her beloved Shoghi Effendi
42 years before. And as the rain poured down, more prayers were
recited and chanted before her casket was lowered into the ground.
The rain-storm which had begun on the night she passed away finally
subsided to a drizzle as her precious remains were laid to rest, and
it seemed to me then as though the skies were mingling their tears
with those of all who loved admired and cherished her.
I think, to sum up such a life, there are no adequate words but
those expressed in the message of the Universal House of Justice to
the Bahá'í world after her passing:
[.]
[.//]
19 January 2000
To the Bahá'ís of the World
.......... In the early hours of this morning, the soul of Amatu'l-
Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum, beloved consort of Shoghi Effendi and the
Bahá'í world's last remaining
<p85> link with the family of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, was released from the
limitations of this earthly existence. In the midst of our grief, we
are sustained by our confidence that she has been gathered to the
glory of the Concourse on High in the presence of the Abhá Beauty.
.......... For all whose hearts she touched so deeply, the sorrow
that this irreparable loss brings will, in God's good time, be
assuaged in awareness of the joy that is hers through her reunion
with the Guardian and with the Master, Who had Himself prayed in the
Most Holy Shrine that her parents be blessed with a child. Down the
centuries to come, the followers of Bahá'u'lláh will contemplate with
wonder and gratitude the quality of the services--ardent,
indomitable, resourceful--that she brought to the protection and
promotion of the Cause.
.......... In her youth, Amatu'l-Bahá had already distinguished
herself through her activities in North America, and later, both with
her dear mother and on her own, she had rendered valuable service to
the Cause in Europe. Her twenty years of intimate association with
Shoghi Effendi evoked from his pen such accolades as "my helpmate",
"my shield", "my tireless collaborator in the arduous tasks I
shoulder." To these tributes he added in 1952 his decision to elevate
her to the rank of Hand of the Cause of God, after the death of her
illustrious father. The devastating shock of the beloved Guardian's
passing steeled her resolve to lend her share, with the other Hands
of the Cause, to the triumph of the Ten Year Crusade, and
subsequently to undertake, with characteristic intrepidity, her
historic worldwide travels.
.......... A life so noble in its provenance, so crucial to the
<p86> preservation of the Faith's integrity, and so rich in its
dedicated, uninterrupted and selfless service, moves us to call for
befogging commemorations by Bahá'í communities on both national and
local levels, as well as for special gatherings in her memory in all
Houses of Worship.
.......... With yearning hearts, we supplicate at the Holy Threshold
for infinite heavenly bounties to surround her soul, as she assumes
her rightful and well-earned position among the exalted company in
the Abhá Kingdom.
The Universal House of Justice
[.///]
[.]
<p87>
IV
HIGHLIGHTS OF
HER TRAVELS
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.......... {O that I could travel, even though on foot and in the
utmost poverty, to these regions, and, raising the call of "Yá
Bahá'u'l-Abhá" in cities, villages, mountains, deserts and oceans,
promote the divine teachings! This, alas, I cannot do. How intensely
I deplore it! Please God, ye may achieve it.}
'Abdu'l-Bahá
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A TRIBUTE TO
AMATU'L-BAHÁ RÚHÍYYIH KHÁNUM 1
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A
TRIBUTE
TO
AMATU'L-BAHÁ
RÚHÍYYIH KHÁNUM
by
Violette Nakhjavani
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CONTENTS
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Prologue --------------------------------------- xi
I Early Years ----------------------------------- 1
II Years of Marriage to Shoghi Effendi --------- 23
III Final Years of Service and Travel ---------- 57
IV Highlights of Her Travels ------------------- 87
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LIST OF ILLUSTRATIONS
Frontispiece: Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum, 1981
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Part I
1910 through 1923 -------------------- 8 and 9
1923 through 1926 ------------------- 16 and 17
1928 through 1936 ------------------- 22 and 23
Part II
1948 through 1953 ------------------- 50 and 51
Part III
1958 through 1963 -------------------- 64 and 65
1967 through 1987 -------------------- 70 and 71
1977 through 1993 -------------------- 76 and 77
1992 through 1997 -------------------- 80 and 81
1998 through 2000 -------------------- 86 and 87
Part IV
1964 through 1997 ------------------- 89 and 117
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
The writing of this tribute in its present form would not have been
possible without the indispensable assistance of Nell Golden, the
trusted and much-loved secretary of Amatu'l-Bahá, whose meticulous
research into the body of documents about Rúhíyyih Khánum's life
provided many of the facts incorporated into this text which she also
most kindly and painstakingly typeset. I also wish to express my
appreciation and deep gratitude to my daughter Bahiyyih Nakhjavani
for her invaluable help in editing this manuscript and to Audrey
Marcus for designing the cover.
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Note: Material in the tribute has been taken from the private papers
of Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum. Unfortunately so far the original
letter of May Maxwell to Agnes Alexander quoted on pages 4-6 has not
been found but the text of the letter suggests a great deal of
credibility as it is in agreement in its essentials with the diary
notes found among the papers of Mírzá 'Alí Akbar Nakhjavání.
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PROLOGUE
On January 19th in the year 2000, a lady passed away from this
world. She was unique, and with her passing a chapter ended, a page
of history turned. And when Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum's earthly
remains were buried a few days later, the Universal House of Justice
laid her to rest in a place that is also unique. For her grave is not
on the mountainside among the sacred monuments of the Greatest Holy
Leaf and other members of the family of Bahá'u'lláh nor is it in the
cemetery where Bahá'ís at the World Centre have been buried for so
many dec-ades past. But like her place in history, it seems, almost,
to have been prepared for her by Shoghi Effendi, and lies in a garden
all on its own. Flanked on each side by associations with those who
dominated her life--her mother May Maxwell and her own Guardian-her
grave is in the little park opposite the Master's House where she
lived for 63 years and in which she left her own unique mark.
Although her place in history has thus been symbolically fixed
at her death, it will be much more difficult to frame and define a
life as rich and varied as that of Mary Maxwell, who was later given
the name and title of Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum by her beloved
husband and her Guardian. We are still too close to her to be able to
understand the true value of her services to the Bahá'í world
community and still too limited in our grasp of our own history to be
able to evaluate the different perspectives afforded by her
personality. Perhaps we are also still too influenced at the present
time by
<pxii> the twin tendencies to over-exaggerate and underestimate in
the writing of biography, to be able to do her justice. For we have
not yet learned to distinguish between proper objectivity and
voyeurism, between tiresome hagiography and the telling of a person's
spiritual story. Perhaps it is too soon to write about the life of
Rúhíyyih Khánum.
Certainly, I am no writer and would never presume to call myself
the biographer of someone as dynamic and forceful as 'Amatu'l-Bahá.
But owing to the immense honour I have had during these past forty
years, of knowing her and hearing the ways in which she chose to
define and to describe herself, I feel a certain responsibility to
make some first, poor and inadequate attempt to summarize the broad
outlines of her life.
The following monograph, in three parts, is a summary of her
story within a simple chronological framework of events. These three
parts, from Mary Maxwell's birth to Rúhíyyih Khánum's final years,
cover her early years, her years of marriage to Shoghi Effendi, and
her final years of service and travels. Like the perspectives that
flank her resting-place, they also describe the broad influences of
her life: on one side, the Old Pilgrim House, where the very room in
which her mother stayed now overlooks her grave; on the other, the
dining room of No. 10 Haparsim, in which she sat by the Guardian's
side for all the years of her marriage; and opposite, the House of
'Abdu'l-Bahá, a house redolent with history, marked by suffering and
death, a house she filled with life and laughter and to which those
whom she had met in the four comers of the world carne and enjoyed
her hospitality.
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It is a multi-faceted story with these and many more dimensions.
No doubt others more qualified than myself will explore it further
and will in the future understand it better than I can today. But
despite its modesty and insufficiency, I would like to offer this
small tribute to her, with my love.
VIOLETTE NAKHJAVANI
Haifa, Israel
August 2000, in memory
of Amatu'l-Bahá's 90th birthday
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<p1>
I
EARLY YEARS
<p2>
The birth of Mary Sutherland Maxwell, on August 8th, in the
Hahnemann Hospital, later known as The Fifth Avenue Hospital, in New
York City, was the hottest news to hit the North American Bahá'í
community in the summer of 1910. Ever since May Bolles had accepted
the Faith of Bahá'u'lláh, she had been known and loved by all the
early Bahá'ís as one of the foremost disciples of 'Abdu'l-Bahá; her
husband, Sutherland Maxwell, was a distinguished architect in Canada
and their home in Montreal a place of culture and spiritual vitality.
When the Bahá'ís read the announcement: "A little daughter has come
to bless the home of Mr. and Mrs. W. S. Maxwell of Montreal, Canada",
in Vol. 1, issue 9 of the {Star of the West} on August 20th, it must
have caused many flutters of excited interest amongst them. There
must have been many who expressed their congratulations and sent
their good wishes.
[.]
[.//]
.......... {In the garden of existence a rose hath bloomed with the
utmost freshness, fragrance and beauty. Educate her according to the
divine teachings so that she may grow up to be a real Bahá'í and
strive with all thy heart, that she may receive the Holy Spirit.}
[.///]
[.]
These words of the Centre of the Covenant, 'Abdu'l-Bahá, in a
Tablet dated March 2, 1911, were addressed to May Maxwell when Mary
was just seven months old and were surely the greatest confirmation
she had ever received of this blessing. The circumstances of her
little girl's birth were like a fairy tale and have been repeated,
and frequently distorted, since they were recorded in the
<p2> early years of this century. May Maxwell gives us the original
version in a letter she wrote to Agnes Alexander, on May 7,1910:
[.]
[.//]
My Dearest Agnes,
.......... All of your dear letters have been received and... You
must have wondered that I could remain so silent in spite of all your
love and kindness but you will understand when I tell you that this
winter has been one of great physical weakness and suffering for me,
so that I have been most of the time unable to write, or to make any
effort.
.......... A little more than a year ago when I was in Acca I was
passing one evening in the twilight in front of the Master's door.
His daughter Rouha was with me and in my arms I held her wee babe. I
suddenly saw Our Beloved Lord framed in the doorway gazing
attentively upon me--then He said--"You love that baby?"
.......... "Oh! I love him," I replied--and after a pause Our Lord
said: "Come here, come in here," and I stood before Him in His room,
with the baby in my arms and Rouha by my side. Then the Blessed one
sat looking at us; and He said to me: "Would you like to have a
baby?" and I answered, "I should be so happy to have one--" and He
said, "Do you know why you never had one? It is because you were a
chosen maidservant of God--you were called for the service of God--
you could not have children because you had to devote your time to
the service of the Cause. This is the only reason; this is the only
reason."
.......... I stood with bowed head before Him and after a little
silence He said, "Speak, do you choose to have a child, you may
choose!"
.......... Then I looked at Him with all my heart and soul and
adoration, and I said, "I choose whatever God chooses--I have no
choice but His." Although those words were very simple--in them I
renounced all hope of Motherhood. Then 'Abdu'l-Bahá arose quickly and
came to me and
<p5> clasped me in His arms with the greatest love and joy, and He
said: "That is the best choice, the Will of God is the best choice",
and walking up and down the room He continued, "I will pray for you,
that God will send you that which is best for you. Be sure of this,
that God will send you that which is best for you--" and this He
repeated several times.
.......... Thus ended this never-to-be forgotten scene--but I cannot
describe its reality--the deep significance of those moments--the
atmosphere of beauty and sanctity which pervaded the little room--the
surrender of a soul. in the Presence of the Lord--the quiet twilight
on earth mingling with the effulgent purity and peace of the Kingdom
of God.
.......... And regarding the Adored One Himself--what can we say?
Such love--such wondrous love--revealed in Face and Voice and Eyes
and Touch! A love so tender to understand, so strong to redeem! He
desired for me as for all, the highest and best--not the wayward
mortal desiring--not even the natural human longings--not even the
pure flower of Motherhood--but the surrender of the soul to God by
which alone it attains the apex of severance and sanctity, and
becomes enkindled with the Fire of Eternal Love.
.......... And so I have told you, my Agnes--of one scene of those
divine and perfect days in the Kingdom of God--and in time I shall
hope to tell you all... For those days live forever far above the
world--and I long to have you and all the dear ones share their
sacred fruits. And now my lamb I am going to confide to you a secret
which is the sequel to what I have told you. Our dear Lord has
favored His maidservant past all her hope, and by the pure showers of
His Bounty has watered the seed of life, and is bringing forth a
child. In a few months Inchallah, the babe He is sending to my
husband and me will be born, and I beg for your prayers, both for the
little one and for myself--for I am not strong--nor young! and
physically I am passing through some trials--and this winter I had a
<p6> fall which nearly proved fatal. I have not told the friends--
even the most intimate--but I wanted you to know--and I know you will
keep my confidence.
[.///]
[.]
May took her Lord's injunctions to heart. She strove to educate
her precious, God-given daughter according to the divine teachings
just as He had instructed her to do. She did her utmost to ensure
that her little Mary should grow up "to be a real Bahá'í" in order
that she might indeed be able to "receive the Holy Spirit" just as
the Master promised.
Some years ago, Amatu'l-Bahá showed me a small black photo album
which she had found in the desk drawer of the beloved Guardian after
his passing. He had arranged his favourite photographs of Mary
Maxwell in this album, from babyhood through to her teenage years.
And there was among them a photograph of her at age five of which he
was particularly fond. In a little note written by May Maxwell
herself we find a description very similar to this photograph, which
warms the heart. She writes:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Mary was just five years old when this picture of her
bursting thru the daisy beds was taken. This picture reveals almost
all of Mary. If we were so developed that we could see the inner
things as well as the outer we would know all about Mary by studying
this picture. Here she is in her own world--the kingdom of Nature
which she so loves--the sun, the air, the flowers, everything that
grows is dear and familiar to her. Most of all the animal world from
the tiniest bug to the king of the animal kingdom Mary adores--and
this lion king is the favourite of all. Ever since she was a toddling
baby Mother Nature has held sway over the passionate love of this
child--so that in the even brief years of her life she has learned
all about beetles, worms, caterpillars, flies, ants, bees, wasps,
hornets, spiders, etc.--where they live, how they live, what they
eat, and what changes
<p7> they undergo. She knows about toads, frogs, lizards, snakes, mud
eels, and I don't know what slimy creatures. All this knowledge she
has gained at first hand, straight from the source by watching these
creatures-catching them--keeping them for a time and feeding them--
and then making people read her all about them in books.
[.///]
[.]
Rúhíyyih Khánum used to refer to her formal education as
"patchy", recalling her school days to have been few and far between.
The traditional educational methods of the time tended to be rigid
and authoritarian, narrow-minded and dictatorial, and little Mary may
have suffered from these methods, for her spirit was untrammelled and
her will strong. Her mother's concern to provide her with the
"freedom" which 'Abdu'l-Bahá had prescribed is reflected in a letter
addressed to Marion Holley (Hofman) dated July 15th, 1937, in which
May Maxwell tells about Mary's early training:
[.]
[.//]
.......... ...You may know that when Rúhíyyih was three or four years
old I imported the first set (Montessori Method) to Canada, with a
Montessori teacher from New York and established the first school of
this type in Canada (Montreal) in our own home.... It really did
wonders for her and the other eight children, and 'Abdu'l-Bahá, with
whom I discussed Montessori's work in 1912, said that she was the
greatest modern psychologist... It was through all this that I became
interested in the "Movement of Progress and Education" of which I was
practically a charter member and subscribed to their magazine edited
by Stanwood Cobb.
[.///]
[.]
After such beginnings, she also had a year of schooling in
Montreal, a few months in Chevy Chase Country Day School in Maryland
and another year in Weston High School in Montreal. Between these
haphazard school experiences she was tutored at home by governesses
and
<p8> private teachers, but this was the sum total of her scholastic
training until she later became a part-time student at McGill
University, where she used to say she invariably arrived at her 9,00
A.M. class late! Her mother, who suffered from nervous disorders and
insomnia throughout her life, could not bear to wake Mary up early in
the mornings as she had a theory that young people's sleep should
never be disturbed! Be that as it may, there is a copy of her paper,
dated May 1931, for the Department of Economics at McGill University
entitled "The Bahá'í System of Public Finance" by Mary Maxwell, on
which she herself has written: "I passed with 2nd class honours on
this in a fourth year course!" Rúhíyyih Khánum used to explain that
the reason for her unconventional upbringing and education was her
mother's bad health, and the constant fear she had of losing her.
When she was away from home, she would become acutely anxious for her
mother, who was physically fragile and had come close to death on
many occasions.
Yet despite these inconsistencies of education, she was to
become a well-read and knowledgeable person, with a consuming
interest in a variety of subjects. Her thirst for acquiring knowledge
was insatiable and throughout her life, practically to the very end,
she clipped articles from the daily papers which caught her attention
because they reflected Bahá'í themes or subjects of particular
interest to her. She loved to have her favourite fairy tales read to
her when she was young, and since she did not want to leave a story
unfinished when her mother put her to bed, she simply learned to read
unaided in order to go on reading the story to the end. It may have
been this habit which accustomed her to reading late at night. She
used to say, "I have been weaned on the classical European fairy
tales of the Brothers Grimm and Hans Christian Andersen."
<p9>
The Oz books were also among her favourites. These beautiful
editions, some of which were graced with original drawings by Arthur
Rackham and Kay Neilson, were treasured by her to the very end of her
life. Her beloved father, from whom she inherited her artistic
abilities, her knowledge of antiques, and her love of good books,
increased this collection whenever he came across a particularly
beautiful edition of her favourites.
She had a full, free and happy childhood. Her only sorrows at
this time, which she would speak of until late in life, were the
periods of separation from her beloved mother. May Maxwell was a
devoted and dedicated servant of the Cause, a member of several
Bahá'í administrative bodies, as well as one of the star teachers of
the Faith. She suffered greatly from the extreme cold of Montreal and
her ill health would often keep her away from her home for two or
more months at a time. She would go to New York or Wilmette to attend
meetings, would become ill and then could not return home for several
weeks. The physical attachment and spiritual kinship that connected
mother and daughter was singular and strong. Rúhíyyih Khánum often
said, "If Bahá'ís believed in such things as 'soul mates', my mother
and I would be like that." This bond, consciously nurtured by May
Maxwell herself, is beautifully expressed in a letter written by the
mother to her daughter some years later:
[.]
[.//]
.......... ...however often I have been compelled to leave you since
you were a little child, for the sake of this great Cause in which we
are united, and however lonely you may have often been, you never
suffered alone, because I was always with you, I felt for you more
deeply than you can ever realize, and it is out of the pangs of this
mighty motherlove that my spiritual motherhood to you has been born.
[.///]
[.]
<p10>
However arbitrary and independent may have been her formal
intellectual education, there are clear indications that her
spiritual training was pursued with rigour and unrelenting
discipline. It was a training whose hallmark was love and whose main
characteristic was obedience to the Covenant. There is a vast amount
of correspondence between May Maxwell and 'Abdu'l-Bahá in which
references can be found to the little girl, many of which indicate
the attention and love of the Master for the child. In a rare letter
from Mr. W. S. Maxwell to 'Abdu'l-Bahá, dated March 12th, 1915, he
says, "Little Mary is a joy to us and thinks of you very frequently.
She loves you with a deep and true love and understanding." Her
spiritual training had clearly begun from a very early age.
Rúhíyyih Khánum was often asked if she remembered 'Abdu'l-Bahá's
three-day visit to their home during the fall of 1912. She would
answer with her characteristic honesty, "I was only two years old. I
don't think I remember it, but all my life I heard my mother telling
me in detail of all oft hose precious and blessed days, so the events
imprinted on my subconscious seem like my own memories." May Maxwell
recorded in her notes a particularly moving reference to the arrival
of 'Abdu'l-Bahá in the Maxwell home on the night of August 30th,
1912, and His words on that occasion:
[.]
[.//]
.......... "... home", He said, "all that is in it is mine"--turning
with an ineffable look He continued--"You are mine--your husband and
child. This is my home." He was cold and we lighted a fire. He looked
about and He asked where the child was. When we said that she was
sleeping He told us not to disturb her and added, "dark indeed is the
home where there is no child."
[.///]
[.]
There is an especially touching story about this visit,
<p11> told by 'Abdu'l-Bahá Himself to His companions and recorded in
the memoirs of A. A. Nakhjavani. 'Abdu'l-Bahá told them:
[.]
[.//]
.......... "Today I was resting on the {chaise longue} in my bedroom
and the door opened. The little girl came in to me and pushed my
eyelids up with her small finger and said, 'Wake up. 'Abdu'l-Bahá!' I
took her in my arms and placed her head on my chest and we both had a
good sleep."
[.///]
[.]
When Rúhíyyih Khánum repeated this story in later years she used
to say that once when her mother complained to 'Abdu'l-Bahá that she
was naughty, the Master had said. "Leave her alone. She is the
essence of sweetness."
The years of 'Abdu'l-Bahá's ministry were drawing to a close
with World War I, and as a precursor to His Will and Testament, He
sent the Tablets of the Divine Plan to the Bahá'ís of the West. It
was a sacred legacy to the North American continent and the Bahá'ís
celebrated this epoch-making event with befitting solemnity. Nine
young girls were chosen from the community, and, to the sound of
solemn music, drew aside the curtains covering the original
handwritten Tablets of 'Abdu'l-Bahá. Mary Maxwell, adorned in a new
pink dress, and her best childhood friend, Elizabeth Coristine of
Montreal, were privileged to unveil the first and second of these
Tablets for Canada in a spectacular {tableau vivant} which took place
in the Hotel McAlpin in New York on April 29th, 1919 at 10:00 a.m. It
was shortly before Mary's ninth birthday and the end of the Heroic
Age of the Faith of Bahá'u'lláh.
The passing of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, in November 1921, devastated the
whole Bahá'í community. both in the East and West, but the blow
proved almost fatal to May Maxwell, who was given the news abruptly
and brutally, over the
<p12> telephone, without any forewarning. She was so shattered and so
shaken in body and soul that she may have become a permanent invalid
had not Mr. Maxwell finally intervened. He convinced her that the
only way she would be able to leave her wheelchair was if she went to
visit the Shrines in the Holy Land and met her beloved Guardian, face
to face. And he thought Mary should go with her. She used to say in
later years, "My father was busy with his work at the Chateau
Frontenac and my mother was an invalid. There was no one else to
accompany her but me and an Irish Catholic maid. And I was twelve
years old."
Just seventeen months after the Ascension of the Master and four
months before her 13th birthday, therefore, they set sail from New
York for the Holy Land, on April 29th, 1923. This was Mary's first
pilgrimage and left an indelible impression and many memories in her
heart and mind. In later years she recalled, in a personal letter,
how she was touched by "the spirit of service" she discovered in
Haifa:
[.]
[.//]
.......... ...a Queen or a beggar woman would be met with the same
loving sweetness. Indeed it was this divine normality that really
confirmed me here as a little girl of twelve years.
.......... It was the first time she met the beloved Guardian and she
often described that meeting with a sweet pleasure in the
remembrance. They were installed in the Old Western Pilgrim House at
the end of Persian Street and her mother, who had not been able to
walk for over a year, was resting in bed. Since her nights were
frequently sleepless and her nerves delicate, Mary had learned from
an early age to protect her from intrusion and was vigilant against
disturbances. She said that she was in the hallway of the Pilgrim
House when the door suddenly opened and
<p13> a young man stepped in, with a swift, deft movement, and asked
if he could see Mrs. Maxwell. She was a tall girl for her age, fully
grown and physically well-developed already. She said she pulled
herself up to her full height and, looking him squarely in the eyes,
asked to know, with considerable dignity and aplomb, who it was who
wished to see Mrs. Maxwell. The young gentleman meekly replied, "I am
Shoghi Effendi", upon which she turned tail and fled into her
mother's room in mortified embarrassment. Hiding her head, as she
used to say "like a puppy", beneath her mother's pillows, she could
only point to the door and gasp, "He-he--is there!" when her mother
asked her what the matter was. And when May Maxwell found out who it
was behind the door, she said, "Pull yourself together, Mary, and go
and invite him in."
They were away from Montreal for almost a year. Shoghi Effendi,
before leaving for Europe that summer--for he was exhausted by the
weight of his responsibilities and needed to recuperate his own
strength--advised Mrs. Maxwell to spend the time in Egypt, and so
during his absence from the Middle East she stayed in Port Said with
her daughter and her maid. After his return, Shoghi Effendi recalled
them to Haifa for another lengthy stay, as a result of which they had
two pilgrimages during that single year. May came back to the States
in 1924, in time to attend the National Bahá'í Convention. Filled
with joy and restored to health, she redoubled her efforts in the
teaching work and began to educate the friends in the Bahá'í
Administration, in which she had been carefully instructed by Shoghi
Effendi during her pilgrimage.
Two years later, Mary accompanied Juliet Thompson and Daisy
Smythe to the Holy Land. They were two of her mother's closest
friends, and Juliet Thompson, too, had been designated by the Master
as His "disciple". On
<p14> this pilgrimage Mary often spoke of her deep sorrow at leaving
the Greatest Holy Leaf, whose high station she had come to recognize
and cherish despite her own youth, and whom she loved dearly despite
the difference of their ages. During her first pilgrimage, the
Greatest Holy Leaf had asked to see Mary's performance of the
Egyptian 'shimmy', which she had learned that summer in Port Said,
and had laughed till the tears rolled down her cheeks when young
Mary, dressed in full costume, with {kohl} around her eyes and a drum
under her arm, had sung and danced before her in the Master's House,
Now on this second pilgrimage it was a more mature Mary who
understood with sadness that this would be the last time she would
see Bahíyyih Khánum. the greatest lady and heroine of the Bahá'í
Dispensation, whom she described as the essence of meekness and
gentleness.
Back in Canada, she threw herself eagerly into all kinds of
youth activities, both within the Bahá'í administration as well as
elsewhere. all of which were just as important to her as the studies
she pursued with equal enthusiasm. From then on she was continuously
involved in membership on committees and in her efforts to promote
the cause of racial amity. Shortly before she was 16, she became a
member of the Executive Committee of The Fellowship of Canadian Youth
for Peace, serving as its Treasurer. On November 30th, 1928, her
mother wrote, "Mary is well and doing splendid work with her studies,
besides the 'Fratority' Society whose membership is constantly
extending and whose influence is becoming a strong power for interracial amity of all kinds in this city." As was expected, soon after
she had turned 21, she was elected on the Local Spiritual Assembly of
Montreal, as well as on the Teaching Committee.
<p15>
Her training in oratory and public speaking too began early. She
used to mention an incident which took place after her return from
her second pilgrimage, when she was almost 16. In a Bahá'í meeting at
Green Acre, one of the well-known old Bahá'ís paused in his lecture
unexpectedly and, turning to young Mary Maxwell, asked her to come up
on the platform and tell the friends about her experiences in the
Holy Land. She said she was shocked and tried to escape through the
door but was caught before she could get away. The speaker reminded
her that since she had had the great privilege of visiting the Holy
Shrines and hearing the beloved Guardian, it was her duty to share
these bounties with others!
From informal talks like this she graduated to more formal
engagements, which required conscious preparation, both of thought
and spirit. Just before her nineteenth birthday, she spoke at the
National Bahá'í Convention in a manner that evidently touched many
peoples' hearts and minds. In a letter to May Maxwell after this
event Elizabeth Herlitz writes, "Sorry I did not hear your daughter
speak on Saturday eve during the Convention. I was told I had missed
one of the outstanding features of the entire Bahá'í Program."
Increasingly, too, she began to accompany her mother on teaching
trips, during which she had occasion not only to observe her mother's
manner of giving Bahá'í talks but also to learn how to lecture
herself, in the Bahá'í spirit. May writes: "Mary and I have been on a
three weeks' teaching trip since the Convention.... I have been
entirely submerged in the field of teaching with Mary where we have
done our first united work together with remarkable results..." It
was soon after this trip that she received her first letter from the
beloved Guardian, dated May 29th and written in his own hand:
<p16>
[.]
[.//]
My dear co-worker:
.......... I am much pleased to learn of your growing activities in
the Cause & I will supplicate from the depths of my heart in your
behalf at the holy Shrines that the Beloved may graciously guide you
& assist you to render inestimable services to His Cause in the days
to come.
Your true brother,
Shoghi
[.///]
[.]
One of the most wonderful events of her life, at the age of 20,
was a lecture she delivered in New York City at the Friends' Meeting
House. Her subject, "Mysticism in the Bahá'í Religion", was daunting
and all the other speakers at this Congress were seasoned lecturers
and famous orators. One of these, Syud Hossain, was described as an
"incomparable lecturer on the Orient, world peace and international
relations", and was the editor of "The New Orient". Several wellknown university professors, bishops and canons of different churches
also addressed the Congress, and at the end of the programme, there
was also to be a talk given by the conceited enemy of the Bahá'í
Faith, Ahmad Sohrab. After her lecture she received a standing
ovation, and on that same day was given the following cable: "HEARTY
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR BEAUTIFUL CONSCIENTIOUS AND ABLE PRESENTATION
OF A GREAT AND DIFFICULT THEME I AM HAPPY AND PROUD OF YOU--SYUD
HOSSAIN".
Her writing began early too. She wrote books and plays and
poetry, and her highest hope was to one day become an author. She
busied herself with early literary efforts, writing articles with
such titles as "Have the Emotions a Place Today?" She was developing
that diversity and range of skills that would serve to make of her a
perfect instrument of service in the hands of her beloved Guardian,
who noted her progress with keen interest.
<p17>
When a copy of the translation of Nabíl's Narrative by the
beloved Guardian, {The Dawn-Breakers}, reached the Maxwells, they
wrote a letter of gratitude to Shoghi Effendi, and in reply he
encouraged Mary to study this book and lecture on it. The article she
wrote entitled 'The Re-florescence of Historical Romance in Nabíl',
which he later included in {The Bahá'í World}, Volume V (1932-34),
was surely a result of the Guardian's direct encouragement, and the
ardent, youthful enthusiasm which it reveals must have informed her
unforgettable lectures on the Heroic Age of the Cause. These were
first given in Montreal and then later in Green Acre, continued in
Louhelen, and finally at Esslingen in Germany.
A letter of Shoghi Effendi's to May Maxwell at this time shows
how closely he was following the development and spiritual training
of this remarkable young woman. It was as though he had undertaken
her spiritual education himself, was guiding her choices and
carefully directing her attentions so that she would not dissipate
her spiritual potential:
[.]
[.//]
.......... I feel that she should, while pursuing her studies, devote
her energies to an intensive study of, & vigorous service to, the
Cause, of which I hope & trust she will grow to become a brilliant
and universally honoured exponent. I am sure, far from feeling
disappointed or hurt at my sugges-tion, she will redouble in her
activities & efforts to approach & attain the high standard destined
for her by the beloved Master. Your plan of travelling with her
throughout Canada in the service of the Cause is a splendid one &
highly opportune. Kindly assure her & her dear father of my best
wishes & prayers for their happiness welfare & success.
Your true & affectionate brother,
Shoghi
[.///]
[.]
In May 1933, Mary spent several weeks in Washington,
<p18> D.C. first with her mother and then alone, teaching the Faith
and concentrating her efforts on finding ways to draw the two
opposing races together, for the cause of racial unity was close to
her heart and the rights and responsibilities of both races was a
subject that touched her keenly throughout her life, On November 20th
of that year she spoke at the "coloured people's Church" in Montreal.
Fred Schopflocher wrote to May about this event, saying,
[.]
[.//]
.......... She had everybody spellbound and how that girl looked,
just ravishing, just the daughter of her mother! With a pure white
blouse she stood forth like the silvery moon in a dark, dark night
and her little green hat, green in its symbol, a beacon of hope,
faith and assurance. I truly was proud of the girl, my dear little
Mary and you know, May, it is not often that I enthuse, there is
conviction to the truth behind it....
.......... Well this affair was wonderful. Mr. Este was at his best
... and practically announced himself a Bahá'í from the pulpit and
his congregation with it.
[.///]
[.]
Rev. Este, the parson of this Church, remained a life-long
friend of Rúhíyyih Khánum's, despite the fact that he never actually
became a Bahá'í. In 1970, during my first visit to the Americas, I
met him in Montreal, when he was elderly and retired. But despite his
frailty he came especially to the Maxwell home, now the Shrine, to
see Rúhíyyih Khánum, and it was clear that a deep love and friendship
had existed between them since that occasion in 1934.
In contrast to her earnest efforts at promoting Bahá'í
principles at the grass roots, Mary attended official functions with
her father at home in Montreal during her early twenties, meeting the
Governor-General of Canada at events such as the Royal Canadian
Academy's Fifty-Fourth
<p19> Exhibition, It was this balance between high and low, between
her obligations to the Bahá'í community in particular and society at
large that would serve her so well in later years, She always had the
ability to mingle with officialdom and humble folk with equal ease;
her support of local Bahá'í teaching work as well as social issues at
the international level was equally enthusiastic throughout her life.
Rúhíyyih Khánum used to say that as a young woman she had very
much wanted to learn Spanish but when, in 1935, civil war threatened
her plans to go to Spain for this purpose, she was induced to
accompany her cousins Jeanne and Randolph Bolles to Germany instead.
Her aunt, who was German herself, accompanied them and they sailed
for Europe on July 10th, From August of that same year. May also
joined them and, for the next year and a half, while May spent most
of her time teaching and helping the friends in France and Belgium,
Mary paralleled her mother's work in Germany.
She became so enamoured of Germany during this time that she
asked Shoghi Effendi if she might stay in this country rather than
returning to travel with her mother. May writes that Mary was
"greatly encouraged by the Guardian to concentrate her efforts where
her heart is!" She was, as her mother puts it, "Among a people who
seem so akin to her that--as I believe I wrote you--her whole nature
has undergone a radical change under this new and profound
influence." An old-time Montreal friend, S. H. Abramson, visiting in
Europe, writes to May that, "Mary has fallen in love with Germany and
become almost 100% German," She learned the language with such
fluency and spoke with so perfect an accent that many thought her to
be German, She used to say when she travelled in northern Germany
people would ask her
<p20> if she was from the south, and when she was in the south, they
thought she was from the north!
To have lived in Germany during its most critical period in the
twentieth century, with her attention fixed solely on the work of the
Cause, her efforts given entirely to the development of its
institutions, and her time spent primarily in the company of Bahá'ís
who were later destined to suffer so terribly under Hitler's regime,
is surely an indication of the mettle she was made of. Tall and
beautiful, under a crown of light brown hair and dressed in a
'dirndl', she passed through the fire unscathed as the jack boots
marched and the banners thickened the air about her. How strong was
her obedience to her Guardian during this period, and how much this
obedience must have protected her at this fearful time. For she
received encouragement every step of the way, and guidance. In
addition, both she and her mother received a warm invitation to come
to the Holy Land at the end of their extended stay in Europe. Shoghi
Effendi's secretary writes to May Maxwell on January 21st, 1936 that:
[.]
[.//]
.......... The Guardian is very much encouraged & gratified to learn
of the progress & success of your dear daughter's activities in the
teaching field. He wishes you to congratulate her most heartily upon
the success that has attended her work in Munich. He hopes that her
"first German off-spring" Mr. Alfonse Giesel will, as a result of
such a contact, become a most active & leading servant of the Cause
in Germany.
[.///]
[.]
In the postscript below, the Guardian writes, in his own hand:
[.]
[.//]
Dearly-beloved co-worker:
.......... I wish to assure you in person of a most hearty welcome.
<p21> Your distinguished services, so loyally, courageously &
devotedly rendered, in both the European & American continents, fully
entitle you to visit the Holy Shrines & to draw fresh inspiration
from the Source of His inexhaustible grace. I am profoundly thankful
for what you, Mary & Mrs. Bolles have achieved, & for the spirit
which animates you in His service. The Beloved is well-pleased with
the many evidences of your exemplary devotion to His Cause & of
perseverance in the path of service. Affectionately
Shoghi
[.///]
[.]
A week later, the Guardian's secretary addressed a letter to
Mary Maxwell herself, on behalf of Shoghi Effendi. His guidance must
have seemed like a bright beacon before her in the midst of a
darkening Europe, in which the spirit was being extinguished more and
more:
[.]
[.//]
.......... The Guardian is very pleased, indeed to learn that you are
so much longing to visit the Holy Shrines, after so many years. He
wishes me, therefore, to hasten in extending to you a most hearty
welcome. Your dear Mother, who we have just learned is now in Paris,
has also expressed a desire to visit Haifa, and the Guardian has
extended to her too, a most cordial invitation.
.......... Before your coming to Haifa Shoghi Effendi would advise
you to visit the centers in Germany and if possible to extend your
trip to Austria and the Balkans where we have now a chain of active
and prosperous communities that link the Western with the Eastern
part of Europe. He would even suggest that you follow that route when
you come to Haifa, as this would be of great interest to you, and of
invaluable encouragement to the friends in these new and somewhat
isolated centers.
[.///]
[.]
Shoghi Effendi added, in his postscript:
[.]
[.//]
Dear and valued co-worker:
<p22>
.......... I wish to assure you in person of a hearty welcome to
visit the Holy Land and lay your head on the sacred Threshold after
having rendered valuable services in the Faith in both America and
Europe. For those you have asked me to pray, in your letters. I will
supplicate the blessings of Bahá'u'lláh. Rest assured. Your true
brother,
Shoghi
[.///]
[.]
Mary Maxwell fulfilled the injunctions of the beloved Guardian.
She travelled to every single community in Germany, met every
isolated believer, group, or Assembly, from north to south and east
to west of the country. By the time she had accomplished this task, a
year had passed and the rumblings of war were upon them in earnest.
It was impossible now to travel through the Balkans or Austria, and
she and her mother were then urged by Shoghi Effendi to come to the
Holy Land directly. It was a turning point.
When mother and daughter registered their names in the Pilgrims'
book in Haifa on January 12th, 1937, another chapter began in the
life of Mary Maxwell. Her training and spiritual education were over.
She had passed the test and come out true. As Shoghi Effendi told May
Maxwell on this pilgrimage, her daughter now had the spiritual
foundation on which she could be "moulded and disciplined". According
to May's notes, he said:
[.]
[.//]
.......... She has clear perception and sound judgement and is very
just. Her judgements and attitudes are _correct_--_sound_--as I told
her in regard to her attitude toward the government in Germany. You
must be very happy--hopeful and assured. Remember all I have written
you and Mary about her future--it will all be fulfilled--and
attained. She has many years before her. You will be very happy--very
proud of her--so will her Father.
[.///]
[.]
<p23>
II
YEARS OF MARRIAGE
TO SHOGHI EFFENDI
<p24>
<p25>
II
Pilgrimage was a unique experience for every pilgrim. To sit at
the dinner table with the "Sign of God on earth", to be able to ask
him questions and receive his answers, these were bounties indeed
beyond estimation. For May and Mary Maxwell, pilgrimage must have
felt like an unexpected privilege, a glance from the grace of God
after their lengthy sojourn in a Europe darkened by wars and rumours
of wars. Their pilgrims' notes were among the most widely circulated
at that time. Rúhíyyih Khánum used to say that Shoghi Effendi allowed
her to take down these notes in his presence and then correct them
the following evening, for mother and daughter reviewed their notes
each night, raising further questions of Shoghi Effendi if they had
any doubts, so that no errors would be made. The Maxwell pilgrim
notes are voluminous; Volume II alone is 37 pages long and bears a
note by Rúhíyyih Khánum: "The classifying under head-ings was done by
me in order to keep the subjects often referred to together. R.R."
It was at the end of their pilgrimage that one day the mother of
Shoghi Effendi asked to speak to May Maxwell and told her of Shoghi
Effendi's offer of marriage to her daughter. Mary did not know of it
until some weeks later. In reminiscing about those days, Rúhíyyih
Khánum used to say, with a twinkle in her eyes, that the beloved
Guardian took her in hand and taught her Persian calligraphy after
dinner in the course of those unforgettable evenings. He gave her a
set of reed pens and ink and special mulberry papers and tutored her
in the art of writing the Persian script. He also gave her a set of
cards to copy from,
<p26> on which the great calligrapher, Mishkin-Qalam, had written the
Hidden Words of Bahá'u'lláh in three different styles of writing. In
our early years in Haifa, she showed my husband and myself her
copying note books in which Shoghi Effendi had himself written a line
in his exquisite handwriting for her to copy underneath. She told us,
"I could never copy his delicate script exactly, and the length of my
sentence was always at least twice as long as his." And then she
would add, with a bewitching smile, "I think Shoghi Effendi wanted an
excuse to stay longer with me and to get to know me better!"
It was that time of the year when the mimosa trees were in full
bloom and often, when she saw their golden showers in early spring,
Rúhíyyih Khánum would remember and speak of the day when the
Guardian's younger sister came to her and said, "Shoghi Effendi wants
to see you in his room." She had no notion of what was awaiting her,
but on her way out of the Pilgrim House she broke a small branch of
the mimosa flower and carried it with her into the presence of Shoghi
Effendi and offered it to her beloved. That was the day he told her
of his wish to marry her. Rúhíyyih Khánum used to say, "I was alone
with Shoghi Effendi for only 15 minutes before our marriage."
The wedding took place on March 24th, 1937, in Haifa. It was on
this occasion that the beloved Guardian gave her the name Rúhíyyih
Khánum. May Maxwell, in a letter to her dear friend Leonora Holsapple
(Armstrong), dated September 28th, 1938, gives us a glimpse of this
unique event.
[.]
[.//]
.......... As one might have expected, the Guardian's marriage was
utterly simple, devoid of every earthly trapping, yet perfect in its
beauty and simplicity. A few weeks after Rúhíyyih Khánum and I
arrived in Haifa, the Guardian with utmost
<p27> gentleness began to teach her Persian and to give special
attention to her general training and education.... Later, through
conversations with his dear mother talking to me confidentially at
his request (in the true oriental manner!) I was gradually informed,
but at that time my daughter knew nothing about it, until the day, a
week or two later, when the younger sister of the Guardian took her
into his presence. Whatever happened at that time is known only to
God, but He sustained and supported her in what was perhaps the most
overwhelming shock of her life, with her deep reverence, almost
worship of the Guardian as the Sign of God upon this earth. It was
almost too much for a human being to bear. On March 24th the Guardian
took Rúhíyyih Khánum in his car to the tomb of Bahá'u'lláh where he
chanted two prayers in the inner sanctuary and told her that that was
the reality of the marriage. They were alone. When they returned, the
Guardian's mother took them alone into the room of the Greatest Holy
Leaf... Then all the families greeted and embraced them, the
certificates of marriage were signed, and later Shoghi Effendi and
his little western wife came to the Pilgrim House and it was our turn
to embrace them and to feel all that it was possible to feel at such
an overwhelming moment. There is no doubt about it that to us it was
more like a dream than reality. The Guardian has shown her a love and
kindness, an understanding and sympathy through which she is steadily
developing, and although the tests are severe, Leonora, past all our
comprehension, yet through the divine protection she is steadily
attaining that station which God has ordained for her.
[.///]
[.]
When Rúhíyyih Khánum spoke of her wedding on certain occasions
she used to say, as she also wrote in {The Priceless Pearl}, that on
her wedding day, when she went with Shoghi Effendi to Bahjí, "I
remember I was dressed, except for a white lace blouse, entirely in
black for this
<p28> unique occasion, and was a typical example of the way oriental
women dressed to go out into the streets in those days, the custom
being to wear black." The ring, which was a simple Bahá'í ring in the
shape of a heart, had been given to her the day Shoghi Effendi
proposed. He had asked her then to wear it on a chain around her
neck, and on the day of their marriage, in the Shrine of Bahá'u'lláh,
he took it from her and put it on her finger himself. It was a ring
that had been given to Shoghi Effendi by the Greatest Holy Leaf, and
Rúhíyyih Khánum later had one made exactly like it for the beloved
Guardian. They were both buried with their rings on their fingers.
After the recital of the marriage vow, which took place in the room
of the Greatest Holy Leaf, the mother of Shoghi Effendi placed
Rúhíyyih Khánum's hand in the hand of her son, according to the old
Persian tradition of "dast be dast". The witnesses were the father
and the mother of the Guardian.
Rúhíyyih Khánum often remarked that that evening with her
parents present at the dinner table was not different from all the
other evenings. It was only after dinner when Shoghi Effendi got up
to leave that, as she used to say, "I followed him across the road to
'Abdu'l-Bahá's House and upstairs to his apartment." Her suitcase had
been carried up already by Fujita, the Japanese Bahá'í serving Shoghi
Effendi, earlier in the day.
The news of this blessed marriage electrified the Bahá'í world,
both in the East and the West. Cables composed by the beloved
Guardian and signed by his mother were sent to the National Spiritual
Assembly of Iran and the National Spiritual Assembly of the United
States and Canada. The one to the West, dated March 27th, 1937, read
as follows:
<p29>
[.]
[.//]
ANNOUNCE ASSEMBLIES CELEBRATION MARRIAGE BE-LOVED GUARDIAN STOP
INESTIMABLE HONOUR CONFERRED UPON HANDMAID OF BAHA'U'LLAH RUHIYYIH
KHANUM MISS MARY MAXWELL STOP UNION OF EAST AND WEST PROCLAIMED BY
BAHA'I FAITH CEME TED. [SIGNED] ZIAIYYIH, MOTHER OF THE GUARDIAN
[.///]
[.]
Later, responding to the congratulatory message of the above
National Spiritual Assembly, Shoghi Effendi cabled:
[.]
[.//]
DEEPLY MOVED YOUR MESSAGE. INSTITUTION GUARDIANSHIP HEAD CORNERSTONE
ADMINISTRATIVE ORDER CAUSE BAHA'U'LLAH ALREADY ENNOBLED THROUGH ITS
ORGANIC CONNECTION WITH PERSONS OF TWIN FOUNDERS BAHA'I FAITH IS NOW
FURTHER REINFORCED THROUGH DIRECT ASSOCIATION WITH WEST AND
PARTICULARLY WITH AMERICAN BELIEVERS WHOSE SPIRITUAL DESTINY IS TO
USHER IN WORLD ORDER BAHA'U'LLAH. FOR MY PART DESIRE CONGRATULATE
COMMUNITY AMERICAN BELIEVERS ON ACQUISITION TIE VITALLY BINDING THEM
TO SO WEIGHTY AN ORGAN OF THEIR FAITH.
[.///]
[.]
Even the Montreal newspaper, "The Gazette", announced the
marriage:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Miss Mary Maxwell, only daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William
Sutherland Maxwell, of Montreal, whose marriage to Shoghi Effendi
Rabbani, Guardian of the Baha'i Faith, which took place in Haifa,
Palestine, on Saturday last is announced. Mr. and Mrs. Maxwell were
present at the ceremony. The bride and groom will live in Haifa,
which is the centre of this faith. The groom is the grandson of Sir
Abdul Baha Abbas and great-grandson of Baha'ollah, founder of the
movement and formulator of its principles.
[.///]
[.]
I myself remember, as a small child in Tehran, how much everyone
rejoiced, how lavish were the banquets that were spread throughout
the Bahá'í community in
<p30> celebration of this wonderful event. It was like a fairy tale
come true!
But the reality for Rúhíyyih Khánum herself must have been far
otherwise; the period of adjustment that followed for her was a
training time which could not have been easy. Already, the
circumstances, however propitious, were hardly conducive to
tranquillity of spirit. To be parted at so great a distance from her
beloved parents and say goodbye to her familiar life in Montreal, to
be plunged into an oriental household together with all her in-laws
under one roof, must have been hard for this young woman raised with
a degree of freedom that was unusual even in the West at that time.
Despite her natural buoyancy of temper and optimistic nature, she
must have longed for and missed her parents terribly during these
early years. In a letter to them she writes:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Your love and the sense of your strength and courage
sustain me in a way you cannot dream of... I have learned to be happy
in a moment--to ride the waves. When the weather is calm I look
around and enjoy everything. When a wave comes I go thro it as best I
can and come out the other side!
[.///]
[.]
It was especially hard at the beginning when she did not know
the Persian language, for although the members of 'Abdu'l-Bahá's
family all spoke English, they communicated with each other in
Persian. It was only natural, when comments were passed and jokes
were shared which she did not understand, that she would have felt
left out. Were it not for her beloved, Rúhíyyih Khánum may well have
been bereft.
But there were greater tests than mere loneliness and far
greater trials than cultural isolation awaiting this young, naïve and
open-hearted bride. Rúhíyyih Khánum
<p31> had a free and unsuspicious nature. She had entered this
household with a sense of deep love, indeed almost veneration, for
all who were related to Shoghi Effendi. What a blow it must have been
so soon after her marriage to the Guardian, to first feel the winds
of ill will blowing from the members of the household towards him, to
recognize the signs of dissension harbouring within the bosom of his
family towards the Centre of the Cause. She used to speak of those
days with deep sorrow and pain. Many times we heard her say, "When I
saw those oak trees fall one after another, I wept and prayed for my
own soul, a mere blade of grass." For one by one, in those early
years of her marriage, the family fell away from faithfulness; the
branches of Afnán and Aghsán broke off from the mighty tree of the
Covenant. They all left, one by one, until she was alone in that
house at the side of her beloved. "Shoghi Effendi held me tight under
his protective arms", she used to say.
She told us that during that first year of her marriage she
suffered so much that one day she stood outside her room on the
balcony and in deep distress said to herself, "I have reached the end
of my tether." Her vivid imagination created a picture of her with a
rope in her hand, herself at the bottom of the rope! Her sense of
humour and her logical mind reminded her that, "Well, you are at the
end of your tether, you cannot go down any farther, but you can climb
up it!" From then on, she said, she never reached the end of her
rope, as she could always climb up again.
She became the Guardian's shield and his sole support in those
dark days of spiritual convulsion in the family of 'Abdu'l-Bahá.
There was a time when Shoghi Effendi could not trust any member of
his family to be alone with the Persian pilgrims for fear of the
negative impact of
<p32> their poisonous innuendoes and inferences. He would ask
Rúhíyyih Khánum to go down and sit with them. She told us that she
had once been ill with jaundice, had had a fever and was as yellow as
a canary, but despite this Shoghi Effendi sent her down to sit with
the Persian women pilgrims. She could not go back up to bed until the
last one had finally left. He was equally rigorous about strict
attendance at all Holy Day celebrations and would tell Rúhíyyih
Khánum that if she felt indisposed, it would bring her healing to
participate in these gatherings, which were in honour of the Central
Figures of the Faith. It was also during this turbulent period that
Shoghi Effendi pulled her up short one day, and gesturing to her
hand, said, "Your destiny is in the palm of your own hand." This was
a great shock for her and made her realize that she was not immune to
her own tests of faith. "When Shoghi Effendi married me", she used to
say, "I felt safe and smug and thought I had nothing more to worry
about, my destiny was in his hand. But when he said that, there it
was, back in my own hand." She would always make us laugh when she
finished this very serious tale.
Her firmness in the Covenant, a manifestation of her deep faith,
was her greatest protection in those early years of marriage. It was
a suit of armour that preserved her spirit throughout her long life.
During the year after Rúhíyyih Khánum's marriage, May Maxwell wrote
several letters to her young friend Marion Holley (Hofman) quoting
her daughter's words:
[.]
[.//]
.......... "...she says, "I am convinced that the greatest gift of a
believer is faith; greater than intelligence, greater than character,
for by faith we sink or swim, live or die, and it is almost the sole
cause of our ultimate achievement and eternal life..." and "...she
adds that she has learned
<p33> how faulty her reasoning is, she rests everything on Faith.
Faith is the keynote of her life, the solace and support of her
existence, the foundation of her new-born character."
[.///]
[.]
Perhaps the outpouring of her heart years later, in her poem
"This is Faith", written on April 4th, 1954, exempli-fies the depth
of her understanding of this subject.
[.]
[.//]
THIS IS FAITH
To walk where there is no path
----- To breathe where there is no air
To see where there is no light--
---------- This is Faith.
To cry out in the silence,
----- The silence of the night,
And hearing no echo believe
----- And believe again and again--
---------- This is Faith.
To hold pebbles and see jewels
----- To raise sticks and see forests
To smile with weeping eyes--
---------- This is Faith.
To say: "God, I believe" when others deny,
----- "I hear" when there is no answer,
"I see" though naught is seen--
---------- This is Faith.
And the fierce love in the heart,
----- The savage love that cries
Hidden Thou art yet there!
----- Veil Thy face and mute Thy tongue
<p34>
Yet I see and hear Thee, Love,
----- Beat me down to the bare earth,
Yet I rise and love Thee, Love!
---------- This is Faith.
[.///]
[.]
Rúhíyyih Khánum made frequent reference in later life to the
fact that one of the reasons she had been chosen to be Shoghi
Effendi's wife was because she was May Maxwell's daughter. We often
heard her insist that he had told her so himself many times. Indeed,
his own words emphasize this same theme and underscore it as one of
the reasons for her unwavering faith:
[.]
[.//]
.......... "She is imbued with the Bahá'í spirit," he is quoted as
having said in May Maxwell's handwritten notes, "not confused or
mixed with other matters--or subjects extraneous to the Cause ...
This is due to your influence--you do not realise to what extent Mary
reflects your spirit. She is wholly devoted to the Faith-extremely
attached."
[.///]
[.]
In a letter to her mother, a year after her marriage, Rúhíyyih
Khánum wrote: "If anyone asked me what my theme was in life I should
say, 'Shoghi Effendi'." It is clear from this that she had thrown
herself, with heart and soul, into her destiny and her task required
a rigorous discipline.
Although the faith on which it was reposed had been instilled
within her since her birth and the love with which it was inspired
had developed and evolved since her girlhood, her habits of schooling
would not have seemed, at first glance, to have prepared her for such
a destiny. But under Shoghi Effendi's strict tutelage she took
herself in hand and applied herself to conscientious study. With what
pride May Maxwell might have read the postscript in
<p35> Shoghi Effendi's own hand in his letter to her dated February
25th, 1939: "Mary is quite well, and exceedingly busy in her study of
the Bible at present which I regard as a necessary foundation for her
future work."
Rúhíyyih Khánum used to relate a gleeful story on this subject
of her study of the Bible. In the course of a conversation with
Shoghi Effendi, she had one day said: "I have never read the Bible",
to which Shoghi Effendi responded with surprise, "It is high time you
did so!" Whereupon he gave her strict instructions to study it. She
ended her story by saying, "After that, not only did I study the
Bible diligently, but I also bought a copy of the Koran and read it
from cover to cover before he found out that I had not read the Koran
either!" Shoghi Effendi, in effect, was not only her theme in life,
but also her education. Although she was an autodidact by nature and
preferred to teach herself, rather than receive instruction--a habit
she applied to many subjects in later life--he was, in effect, her
principal teacher. At this time she was also seriously learning
Persian. She used to say that Shoghi Effendi once told her, "I am a
witness that all the Persian you have learned has been learned by you
yourself, without any help."
One of the most outstanding services performed by Rúhíyyih
Khánum during those eventful twenty years at the side of the beloved
Guardian, was to be his secretary. She undertook this task almost
immediately after her marriage, and became his principal secretary in
English from 1941 on. What may have been the first letter she wrote
on behalf of Shoghi Effendi is addressed to her mother, and includes
two postscripts in the handwriting of Shoghi Effendi.
Characteristically, these serve to highlight the bond of unity the
members of this family shared in their commitment to the Cause:
<p36>
[.]
[.//]
.......... The bond that has always united you to me has now been
powerfully reinforced, and I feel sure that the services you will be
enabled to render as a direct result of this new tie that binds us to
each other will serve to draw me closer to you, and enable me to help
you more effectively through my prayers.
[.///]
[.]
The second states:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Kindly assure Mr. Maxwell of my great love and affection
for him. I have great hopes that he will in collaboration with you
further the teaching work in Canada and thus pave the way for any
international services he may be enabled to render in the future.
[.///]
[.]
To her second letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi to her
mother, Shoghi Effendi appends the following:
[.]
[.//]
.......... Mary is in very good health and is making real progress in
her spiritual life and is cultivating those virtues and traits of
character that will be of immense value to her in her highly
responsible and exalted task which she is strenuously striving to
perform.
[.///]
[.]
The reciprocity between Rúhíyyih Khánum and her parents was
preserved despite the difficulties of distance and separation.
Following the guidelines set by Shoghi Effendi, she echoes the idea
that service to the Cause performed by anyone of them was a shared
blessing for them all and of direct consequence to each. In an early
letter to her father, responding to news of an indisposition on his
part, she emphasizes the closeness between them with a characteristic
jocularity that conceals her deeper anxieties and pains:
[.]
[.//]
.......... So you see, Daddy, it is little short of a sacred
obligation
<p37> on your part to do everything to keep well and in that way and
through serving the Cause help me all you can.
[.///]
[.]
She adored her mother and had always hoped to see her again. Two
years after her marriage, in December of 1939, May Maxwell echoes
this theme of closeness which is sustained through service of the
Cause, despite physical separation:
[.]
[.//]
.......... ...her sublime faith and courage, her deep insight into
the true meaning of life and of the eternal fruits of human pain and
sorrow, clearly reveal, not only the depth and strength of her
character, but also ... that she is walking in the path of light--
that she is one of those rare few who have truly attained their
highest destiny. It is not only thru my passionate love for this
great Bahá'í Faith, but thru my love for her, and yearning to be more
worthy of her, that I have considered going to South America to
teach.
[.///]
[./]
And so it was that May Maxwell decided to make her supreme
sacrifice. She went travel-teaching in order to be more worthy of her
beloved daughter whom she missed so much. She was 70 years old, with
a weak heart and in very poor health. She arrived in Buenos Aires at
the end of February, accompanied by her young niece, Jeanne Bolles,
and the next day, on March 1st, 1940, she died of a massive heart
attack.
The devastating news of May Maxwell's passing in Argentina was a
terrible shock to Rúhíyyih Khánum. She often repeated the story of
how she received this sad news from the Guardian. Four cables had
arrived that day and she took them to Shoghi Effendi in his study. He
opened each one and then looked up at Rúhíyyih Khánum with a mixture
of shock, love and compassion on his face. She said the look
frightened her, and she started backing away
<p38> until she reached the wall. She said she wanted to sink into
the wall so deep was the fear engendered in her by that look. Shoghi
Effendi went over to her, held her in his arms and broke the news to
her with great tenderness. He told her "Now I will be your mother".
Then he spoke of the high station of May Maxwell in the Abhá Kingdom,
of her joy in at long last having reached her heart's desire, of her
nearness to her beloved Lord and Master 'Abdu'l-Bahá. Then gently, in
order to dispel her shaking grief, he .began to talk to Amatu'l-Bahá
in a lighter mood, to describe her mother's activities in the next
world where she was going and what she was doing in that sublime
company. She would have been ushered immediately into the presence of
Bahá'u'lláh first, of course, he assured her. And no sooner had she
come there than she naturally asked permission to tell Him about her
precious daughter. But she talked so much that Bahá'u'lláh had
finally become tired and had passed her on to 'Abdu'l-Bahá. Here
again she did nothing but talk about her beautiful daughter, until at
length, exhausted, 'Abdu'l-Bahá passed her on to the Greatest Holy
Leaf. And there she is still said Shoghi Effendi laughing, there she
is still talking about her beloved daughter, stopping every passing
member of the Concourse with her opening lines, "Do let me tell you
about my daughter...!" By the time he reached this point in his
narrative, Rúhíyyih Khánum was laughing through her tears. And so
with infinite compassion and patience, he comforted her.
She went to the Shrine of Bahá'u'lláh afterwards and spent some
time alone in that hallowed spot reciting aloud the special prayer
for burial. She loved this prayer and described its effect in these
words:
[.]
[.//]
.......... As I repeated the verses, 19 times each, each time it felt
<p39> like the rushing of a wave which enveloped me and washed away
the burning in my heart and soul, until at the end I found peace and
comfort.
[.///]
[.]
The following three cables, the first from Shoghi Effendi to Mr.
Maxwell and the last two from the Guardian and Rúhíyyih Khánum
herself to the National Spiritual Assembly of the United States and
Canada, convey the significance of May Maxwell's station and the
loving, generous act of Shoghi Effendi in inviting her bereaved
husband to come and live close at last to his precious daughter.
[.]
[.//]
GRIEVED PROFOUNDLY YET COMFORTED ABIDING REALIZATION BEFITTING ONE SO
NOBLE SUCH VALIANT EXEMPLARY SERVICE CAUSE BAHA'U'LLAH STOP RUHIYYIH
THOUGH ACUTELY CONSCIOUS IRREPARABLE LOSS REJOICES REVERENTLY
GRATEFUL IMMORTAL CROWN DESERVEDLY WON HER ILLUSTRIOUS MOTHER STOP
ADVISE INTERMENT BUENOS AIRES STOP HER TOMB DESIGNED BY YOURSELF
ERECTED BY ME SPOT SHE FOUGHT FELL GLORIOUSLY WILL BECOME HISTORIC
CENTRE PIONEERS BAHA'I ACTIVITY STOP MOST WELCOME ARRANGE AFFAIRS
RESIDE HAIFA STOP BE ASSURED DEEPEST LOVING SYMPATHY.
[.///]
[.]
To the National Assembly he wrote:
[.]
[.//]
'ABDU'L-BAHA'S BELOVED HANDMAID GATHERED GLORY ABHA KINGDOM. HER
EARTHLY LIFE SO RICH EVENTFUL INCOMPARABLY BLESSED WORTHILY ENDED. TO
SACRED TIE HER SIGNAL SERVICES HAD FORGED PRICELESS HONOUR MARTYR'S
DEATH NOW ADDED, DOUBLE CROWN DESERVEDLY WON, SEVEN YEAR PLAN
PARTICULARLY SOUTH AMERICAN CAMPAIGN DERIVE FRESH IMPETUS EXAMPLE HER
GLORIOUS SACRIFICE. SOUTHERN OUTPOST FAITH GREATLY ENRICHED THROUGH
ASSOCIATION HER HISTORIC RESTING-PLACE DESTINED REMAIN POIGNANT
REMINDER RESISTLESS MARCH TRIUMPHANT ARMY BAHA'U'LLAH. ADVISE
BELIEVERS BOTH AMERICAS HOLD BEFITTING MEMORIAL GATHERING.
[.///]
[.]
<p40>
Ruhiyyih Khánum's cable, dated March 4th, states:
[.]
[.//]
HUMBLY GRATEFUL BELOVED MOTHER ANSWERED GUARDIAN'S CALL TURNED
SOUTHWARD SACRIFICED LIFE HOLY FAITH. BEG PRAYERS DAUGHTER MAY FOLLOW
HER FOOTSTEPS
[.///]
[.]
Some months after the passing of May Maxwell, when Reza Shah
Pahlavi of Iran was deposed and banished from his home and the news
came that the Allies were planning to send him to Argentina, Shoghi
Effendi told Rúhíyyih Khánum, "Let the living dead go and visit the
grave of the dead who are living."
One of the distinguishing characteristics of Rúhíyyih Khánum was
her selfless compassion for others in the midst of her own grief and
sorrow. This letter written to Lucienne Migette, reveals her empathy
towards this French Bahá'í, one of the many spiritual children of May
Maxwell, who was extremely attached to her:
[.]
[.//]
.......... I long to write to you in French as I know it is a closer
bond to be addressed in one's own language at such a time and I speak
French--but I cannot spell it, alas! But we do not even need words to
express to each other what we feel!
..........
Indeed, in spite of my own grief at hearing my beloved had left me in
this world, I was very distressed when I thought of how great a blow
this would be to you! I know only too well how much you miss her! But
now, dear sister, we must take comfort together. We must inherit, as
her true children, the children of her radiant and beautiful soul,
her character. We must be courageous as she was, going on to serve
our beloved Faith even as she did, till the last breath of her life!
I believe this is our heritage from her. To follow in her footsteps,
to go on with work she never deserted, day or night, for over forty
years! Only in this way can we be assured of being with her in the
world to
<p41> come. And I am sure Lucienne, that those who love her as we do,
are only thinking of how to be with her again! ...
.......... The beloved Guardian has been so kind to me, so loving and
gentle. He has carried me over the abyss! It was so sudden, such a
terrible shock! I was just living to see her again--but God takes
away from us in order to bestow something greater. If Mother had been
with me--she would not have died in Buenos Aires, sacrificing her
life itself for the Faith, setting us all an example we long to
follow, and winning the crown of Martyrdom!! We can only thank God we
had her for a spiritual mother--for that is the eternal bond that
cannot be severed!
[.///]
[.]
The passing of May Maxwell marked the beginning of turbulent
years in the Holy Land. The terrors of World War II were unleashed at
this very hour, and every mem-ber of Shoghi Effendi's family had left
the Cause. Mr. Maxwell had joined the Guardian and Rúhíyyih Khánum in
Rome in the summer of 1940, and when they could not return to
Palestine, they only just managed to reach France and cross over to
England on the last boat before the German army closed the borders.
Since Rúhíyyih Khánum recounts this story in full detail in {The
Priceless Pearl}, I will only outline it briefly.
Although it was at the height of the "Children's evacuation"
from Britain and all the boats were full, they were eventually able
to get passage on the SS {Cape Town Castle} and the three of them
sailed to South Africa in order to travel back up north to the Holy
Land, via Egypt. This was Rúhíyyih Khánum's introduction to sub-
Sahara Africa and served as the main stimulus for her return there so
many years later. They left Mr. Maxwell in Durban from where he flew
to Khartoum in the Sudan, and Shoghi Effendi and Rúhíyyih Khánum
drove overland from Cape Town to Cairo, seeing some of the well-known
sights along
<p42> the way. In Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe) they visited Cecil Rhodes'
grave and saw the magnificence of the Victoria Falls. When their car
broke down on an isolated jungle path in the Congo Rúhíyyih Khánum
asked Shoghi Effendi if she could go for a little walk while it was
being repaired. She was longing to stretch her legs after hours of
motoring and walked off down the narrow jungle path, oblivious of
time, drinking in the beauty of untouched nature. Suddenly she was
overtaken by an African cyclist who told her that the gentleman in
the car was very worried over her. Glancing at her watch, Rúhíyyih
Khánum was shocked to realize she had been walking for almost two
hours! She asked the man to lend her his bicycle and then cycled back
as fast as she could to relieve the Guardian of his anxiety! Rúhíyyih
Khánum's adventurous spirit was one of her most endearing
characteristics, especially in travelling. She loved the world of
nature, trees nourished her eyes and soul, and she was never happier
than when exploring. In later years she had the opportunity to
satisfy this deep yearning for nature in her extensive travels.
The war years were filled with activity and great achievements
at the World Centre. Before the arrival of Mr. Maxwell, Rúhíyyih
Khánum used to help Shoghi Effendi by making drawings to scale, and
constructing paper and cardboard models of stairs in the Shrine
Gardens, for example. She used to say that although Shoghi Effendi
had a perfect sense of taste and proportion, he said he could not
visualize an object; he had to see it in a drawing or a model. After
Mr. Maxwell came to live in Haifa, Shoghi Effendi asked Rúhíyyih
Khánum to draw something for him one day, and she said, "But Shoghi
Effendi, you have one of Canada's best architects across the street!
Let him do it for you." He had looked up at her surprised, and asked,
"Can your father do it?", to which she rejoined,
<p43> "Can he do it? He has built churches, hotels, parliament
buildings, and numerous houses. This is child's play for him."
This was the beginning of what Rúhíyyih Khánum liked to call a
"partnership between the Guardian and my father." She would say, "My
father was like a glove on the hand of Shoghi Effendi." It was during
this period that Shoghi Effendi commissioned Mr. Maxwell to make the
drawings for the superstructure of the Shrine of the Báb which was to
be the crowning achievement of the latter's long and successful
career. The love and collaboration between them was the greatest
source of joy to Rúhíyyih Khánum. She used to say, "I really learned
to know and appreciate my father through Shoghi Effendi." She liked
to tell the story of how, one night, when Shoghi Effendi was in bed
resting, she had brought him a beautiful drawing of the main gate to
the Shrine gardens. It was exquisitely drawn and delicately tinted
with water colours. Shoghi Effendi had taken the drawing from her,
looked at it, and said with a heavy sigh, "It is not fair." Alarmed,
Rúhíyyih Khánum had asked him what was wrong. "Nothing," he had said,
"nothing is wrong; it is just that when you are given such a
beautiful rendition, of course you want to have it!"
These were arduous but also very happy years for Rúhíyyih
Khánum. She used to say, "I was all alone: a wife, a companion, a
secretary and the housekeeper." She was always the happiest when she
worked the hardest. During this time she was also assisting the
beloved Guardian as a proof reader after he completed the writing of
his masterpiece, {God Passes By}. They would sit side by side, each
holding several copies of pages typed by Shoghi Effendi, and for
hours on end, they proof-read and transliterated those endless
Persian names together. She
<p44> said from the time she married until the Guardian's passing,
she was always in the room with him when he composed messages, both
in English and Persian. He composed out loud, and always chanted the
Persian in his heavenly voice. For years after she treasured the pile
of finished as well as unfinished embroidery which she used to sew
during those hours.
At the end of World War II, the factional fighting between the
Arabs and Jews began and the British Mandate came to an end with the
Israeli War of Independence. The shortage of food and lack of help
undermined Rúhíyyih Khánum's natural good health and left her ill
with a persistent fever and cough. She was alone in the house, with
her father and the beloved Guardian to tend for and no one to take
care of her. One day Shoghi Effendi asked if she had anyone she could
call upon to come and look after her and she thought of her dear
friend and spiritual daughter, Gladys Cotton, who was unmarried and
very fond of her. With Shoghi Effendi's encouragement she invited
Gladys to come, which she did, to their mutual advantage, for as it
turned out, she later married her old friend Ben Weeden in the Holy
Land. Gladys proved to be a great assistance to Rúhíyyih Khánum and
even more so to Shoghi Effendi.
From 1941, when Rúhíyyih Khánum became Shoghi Effendi's
principal secretary, until 1957, she wrote thousands of letters on
his behalf, a great many of which have already been published. She
always lamented the fact that her handwriting was not good and her
spelling imperfect. She used to refer to her handwritten letters and
say: "If you look at some of those letters, you will see that Shoghi
Effendi, on reading over them, has put a cross over the t's, a loop
over the i's, a dot over the i's, and made the a's look like a's and
the o's look like o's!" She also made
<p45> fun of her own spelling which was sometimes ingenious and
occasionally outrageous. Since she was never sure of it, she would
ask Shoghi Effendi for the correct spelling of words and one day, in
humorous exasperation, he turned to her and said, "Before you came
into my life I could spell; now you have confused me!"
She also frequently described how Shoghi Effendi trained her to
be a good secretary. From 1941 until 1951, when he appointed the
International Bahá'í Council, Rúhíyyih Khánum wrote all the
Guardian's letters long hand. She often suffered from writers' cramp
in her arm and shoulder because of this and it was only after Ethel
Revell, a member of the Council residing in Haifa, became her muchloved private secretary that she had any assistance in having these
letters typed. In those early days of training, Shoghi Effendi would
tell her exactly what to write but when she showed him the finished
letter he would take one look at its length, tear it up, and say,
"Brief! Be brief!" She used to say with a chuckle that she quickly
learned her lesson. In the early years, he would write down the
points he wanted her to incorporate in pencil at the bottom of the
letter he had received, but later on, when he saw how well she wrote,
he would just tell her what to answer verbally. However, she always
stressed the fact that he read every single letter she wrote for him
before appending his own postscript. In later years, she wrote not
only his personal letters but also his official correspondence with
National Spiritual Assemblies. He also asked her to read the National
Spiritual Assembly minutes received in German as he did not know that
language. Needless to say, she was able to lift a tremendous load
from his shoulders by performing this secretarial work.
In April of 1948, when Canada formed its first independent
National Spiritual Assembly, Rúhíyyih Khánum
<p46> rejoiced with and for the Canadian Bahá'í Community. She truly
participated with the Canadian friends in the celebrations, and
through her loving messages encouraged and uplifted them. To Rosemary
Sala, a very dear and old family friend, she cabled, on behalf of her
father and herself:
[.]
[.//]
WE WOULD DEEPLY APPRECIATE YOUR MAKING ARRANGEMENT SERVE DELEGATES
FRIENDS EITHER A BANQUET OR BUFFET IN OUR HOME TOKEN MAXWELL JOY
OCCASION CONVENTION... DEEPEST LOVE. [SIGNED] RUHIYYIH
[.///]
[.]
To which, three days later, Rosemary replied:
[.]
[.//]
HUNDRED FRIENDS OVERJOYED ACCEPT RIDVAN SUPPER SUNDAY YOUR GUESTS
WONDERFUL SPIRIT MOUNTING HEALING TROUBLED HEARTS. DEEPEST LOVE.
[SIGNED]
ROSEMARY
[.///]
[.]
To the Canadian National Convention she wrote:
[.]
[.//]
OUR HEARTS WITH YOU ALL JOYOUS TRIUMPHANT OCCASION LAUNCHING CANADIAN
INDEPENDENT SERVICE BELOVED FAITH ASSUMPTION PRECIOUS RESPONSIBILITY.
MAY YOUR LABOURS BREAK ALL RECORDS CARRY OFF ALL PALMS LOVING
GREETINGS BEST WISHES ALL IN WHICH MAY SURELY JOINS US. [SIGNED]
RUHIYYIH SUTHERLAND
[.///]
[.]
The jubilant answer of the Convention reads as follows:
[.]
[.//]
YOUR MAGNIFICENT LETTER READ FIRST MORNING MEMORABLE CONVENTION
FRIENDS DEEPLY GRATEFUL STIRRED REJOICE IN LINK WITH YOU AND YOUR
UNIQUE DEVOTED SERVICES GLORIOUS FAITH. SEND LOVE AND PRAYERS.
[SIGNED] FIRST CANADIAN CONVENTION.
[.///]
[.]
The magnificent letter in their cable refers to a six-page typed
letter signed "Rúhíyyih Khánum", addressed "To the Delegates and
friends attending the First Canadian National Bahá'í Convention".
<p47>
Two weeks later, on May 10th, 1948, she received this loving
cable from Dorothy Baker, who represented the United States National
Spiritual Assembly at the inaugural Canadian Convention:
[.]
[.//]
TWO CONVENTIONS GLORIOUS YOUR MESSAGE CANADA READ MAXWELL HOME
UPLIFTED ALL HEARTS STOP SUPPLICATING SPEEDY REOPENING COMMUNICATION
OUR BELOVED PRAYING ACCEPTED RANSOM HIS SAFETY DEAREST LOVE. [SIGNED)
DOROTHY BAKER
[.///]
[.]
While the establishment of independent National Spiritual
Assemblies was the cause of celebration in the Bahá'í world, the
cause of political independence was the source of much bloodshed
among nations at this time. In {The Priceless Pearl} Rúhíyyih Khánum
refers in full to the subject of war in the Holy Land prior to the
formation of the State of Israel. This cable from the Bolles family,
in April 1948, shows how concerned their family and friends must have
been: "Guardian you all constantly mind heart praying safety peaceful
surroundings..." Rúhíyyih Khánum's cable to Milly Collins, again in
April 1948, also gives us an idea of how the situation must have
been, how uncertain the future was: "Written you letter but unlikely
can mail it sorry. Very close to you always dearest. All well love.
[signed] Ruhiyyih". Despite the fact that it seemed, at times, as if
the tents of Armageddon were pitched in the valley of 'Akká while
gunfire echoed between sea and mountain, Rúhíyyih Khánum remained
calm in the heart of the storm with Shoghi Effendi as her example.
Rúhíyyih Khánum told us that Shoghi Effendi encouraged her to
write, and once, as she was copying her own favourite poems in a
book, he asked to see them for himself. The next day he gave her book
back, saying, "I read
<p48> them all. They are beautiful, they made me cry." She also said
that after the transfer of the remains of the Purest Branch and his
mother, Navváb, from the old 'Akká cemetery to Haifa and their
interment on the slopes of Mt. Carmel next to the resting-place of
the Greatest Holy Leaf in a very deeply moving ceremony, that night
Shoghi Ef-fendi looked at her and asked her, "Are you going to write
an article about this?" She was surprised and said, "Oh, Shoghi
Effendi, do you want me to?" He said, "Yes, it would be very good."
The result was that moving and heart-rending article in volume VIII
of {The Bahá'í World} entitled "The Burial of the Purest Branch and
the Mother of 'Abdu'l-Bahá". His encouragement was the main reason
she wrote the book {Prescription For Living}. She often said she felt
so sad for the young men who returned, confused and disillusioned,
from that devastating World War II to a changed and unfamiliar world.
She wanted to give them some light, some direction, and a way to see
hope for the future. She also used to say that David Hofman, who had
just started his publishing company, George Ronald, encouraged her to
write a book and let him publish it. After it came out, in 1950, she
dedicated the first copy to the beloved Guardian. He read it, praised
it and found one mistake in it that was later corrected; it is now
translated into six languages. Through Shoghi Effendi's training, she
also became an avid newspaper reader and kept interesting clippings
to the end of her life.
The general suffering at this time was augmented in Rúhíyyih
Khánum's private life by her father's severe illness during the
1940s. In 1950, when they were in Europe for the summer, Gladys
Weeden wrote to Rúhíyyih Khánum from Haifa saying that the rationing
of food was very bad and that given her father's serious condition
and his complications of the gall bladder, she should
<p49> know that fresh food was not available. So after consultation
with the Guardian, it was decided that Mr. Maxwell should be sent to
Canada with his Swiss nurse, until the situation improved in Israel.
When they parted at the end of that summer, it was the last time
Rúhíyyih Khánum saw her dear father. He died two years later in
Montreal.
After the formation of the State of Israel, Rúhíyyih Khánum
enjoyed a degree of freedom in Haifa that had not been possible for
her before. Her social life became more varied and lively. She was a
close friend of the Mayor of Haifa, Mr. Abba Khoushy, and his wife
Hanna, and began to give wonderful dinner parties and soirees for the
dignitaries of Haifa. She used to say Shoghi Effendi allowed her to
entertain as long as it did not interfere with her work and she did
not expect him to attend! She would hold her parties in the Western
Pilgrim House in the company of the members of the International
Bahá'í Council. This way, she said, the absence of the host was less
obvious.
The Bahá'í world was stirred to great excitement in 1951 with
the announcement of the formation of the first International Bahá'í
Council, of which Rúhíiyyih Khánum was herself a member. She was also
its chosen liaison with the Guardian. This news was announced to the
Bahá'í world by Shoghi Effendi in a stirring message, dated January
9th, 1951, whose vital significance can be gauged by the fact that it
is quoted in full in {The Priceless Pearl}.
A year later, in 1952, after the passing of Sutherland Maxwell,
Shoghi Effendi sent a cable dated March 26th to the National
Spiritual Assembly of the United States announcing that "mantle Hand
Cause now falls shoulders his distinguished daughter Amatu'l-Bahá
Rúhíyyih who already rendered still rendering manifold no less
<p50> meritorious self sacrificing services World Centre Faith
Bahá'u'lláh".
And the following year both the Canadian and Ameri-can "Bahá'í
News" confirmed that "The Maxwell home, blessed by the Master's visit
in 1912, has been declared a Shrine, to become to Bahá'ís, the most
holy spot in Canada, surpassing even the future temple" This was not
only one of the greatest gifts bestowed by 'Abdu'l-Bahá on the
Canadian Bahá'í community, but it was also a recognition of the
unique services of three of Bahá'u'lláh's outstanding servants--
William Sutherland, May and Mary Maxwell.
On the 15th of December 1952, the beloved Guardian announced
that five Intercontinental Conferences would be held during the
course of the Holy Year 1953, and designated Rúhíyyih Khánum to be
his representative at the Conference in Wilmette. It was a soulstirring cable which not only offered the Bahá'ís a sweeping vista of
their history and the challenges they faced ahead but also
specifically enumerated Amatu'l-Bahá's functions. She was, in his
words, to
[.]
[.//]
DELIVER MY OFFICIAL MESSAGE ASSEMBLED BELIEVERS ELUCIDATE CHARACTER
PURPOSES IMPENDING DECADE-LONG SPIRITUAL WORLD CRUSADE RALLY
PARTICIPANTS ENERGETIC SUSTAINED ENTHUSIASTIC PROSECUTION COLOSSAL
TASKS AHEAD.
[.///]
[.]
She was furthermore delegated by him to dedicate the Mother
Temple in North America on his behalf and
[.]
[.//]
UNVEIL OCCASION COMPLETION CONSTRUCTION MOTHER TEMPLE WEST PRIVILEGED
ATTENDANTS WILMETTE CON-FERENCE MOST PRIZED REMEMBRANCE AUTHOR FAITH
NEVER BEFORE LEFT SHORES HOLY LAND TO BE PLACED BENEATH DOME
CONSECRATED EDIFICE STOP MORE-OVER ASSIGNING HER TASK ACT MY DEPUTY
HISTORIC
<p51> CEREMONY MARKING OFFICIAL DEDICATION HOLIEST MASHRIQUL-ADHKAR
BAHAI WORLD REARED EVERLAST-ING GLORY HONOUR MOST GREAT NAME HEART
NORTH AMERICAN CONTINENT [SIGNED] SHOGHI
[.///]
[.]
When the National Spiritual Assembly of the United States asked
her if she would accept to be one of the keynote speakers at the
Conference, she naturally accepted. When Shoghi Effendi heard of it,
he asked her, "Can you do it?" Rúhíyyih Khánum's response was utterly
characteristic. "If I haven't got something to tell the Bahá'ís after
16 years at your side", she told him, "then I have not been worthy of
this honour." She was by nature courageous, although her humility was
also instinctive. And her love of Shoghi Effendi tempered her every
response. She had a capacity, even at times of great stress, to keep
her heart centred on the Covenant, her eyes fixed bravely ahead and
her feet firm on the ground.
I came to the Holy Land as a pilgrim in Ridván of 1953, and
remember that Amatu'l-Bahá left for Wilmette a day before my
pilgrimage ended. I will never forget how nervous and anxious she was
then. She had left North America 18 years before, when she was a
young Bahá'í and was known as the daughter of May Maxwell. Now she
was returning as Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum, the consort of the
beloved Guardian and a Hand of the Cause of God. But she was equal to
the challenge. Though very young myself, I was, like all who met her,
struck at once by her innate grace, her regal presence and disarmed
by her spontaneous vitality, her direct, unflinching gaze. She had
eyes that shifted colour with her clothes, sometimes appearing to be
green and sometimes blue. She herself always called them "yellow
eyes" and when she turned her unwavering look at you, it was not easy
to remain unaffected. In Wilmette, she rose to speak like the
<p52> queen she was, her delicate, gauzy mantilla framing her lovely
young face, and even from the photographs it is easy to see how she
would have made an unforgettable impression on the Bahá'ís, as well
as on the non-Bahá'í seekers and distinguished speakers. When the
chairman introduced her, scattering much flattery and many flowers of
rhetoric in the process, she quipped, "After such an introduction I
should be lowered from heaven!" It brought the house down!
There were 2,000 believers gathered for the dedication of the
Temple in Wilmette and Rúhíyyih Khánum shook hands with all of them,
developing a blister on her hand in doing so. She told us how she
kept this sore fresh on her finger by turning her ring daily and
pressing it hard against the flesh for almost three weeks, until she
arrived back in Haifa. Then she showed it to the Guardian and said,
"Look at this, Shoghi Effendi. There were so many Bahá'ís present
that I got a blister."
After attending the 1953 Forty-fifth Annual Convention, the
Bahá'í Dedication of the Temple, and the public Dedication the next
day, she attended the All-America Intercontinental Conference from
May 3rd to May 6th. In a cable answering one of Milly Collins',
Shoghi Effendi states:
[.]
[.//]
REJOICE AMATU'L-BAHAS SUCCESS SERVITUDE HOLY THRESHOLD SHARE YOUR
PRIDE CONTINUED PRAYERS SURROUNDING YOU BOTH.
[.///]
[.]
Rúhíyyih Khánum was accompanied all through this trip by Amelia
Collins, a Hand of the Cause and Vice-President of the International
Bahá'í Council. From the United States they went to Montreal to visit
her father's resting-place, which led Shoghi Effendi to send the
following
<p53> instructions to the Local Spiritual Assembly of Montreal:
[.]
[.//]
OCCASION VISIT AMATU'L·BAHA MONTREAL ADVISE ALL FRIENDS GATHER GRAVE
HA D CAUSE SUTHERLAND MAXWELL PAY TRIBUTE HIS IMMORTAL SERVICES WORLD
CENTRE FAITH STOP INSTRUCTING AMATU'L·BAHA MILLY PLACE BLOSSOMS
SHRINE AND FRESH FLOWERS MY BEHALF STOP APPRECIATE PHOTOGRAPH
ASSEMBLED FRIENDS LOVE.
[.///]
[.]
He asked Rúhíyyih Khánum to buy $120.00 worth of flowers on his
behalf for this event, and specifically requested that most of them
be blue. He knew Sutherland Maxwell's favourite colour was blue. The
memorial gathering was held at the graveside on May 10th and that
evening Rúhíyyih Khánum spoke at a public meeting at the Ritz-Carlton
Hotel.
After all these duties, she had the painful task of sorting out
her parents' belongings, and with Shoghi Effendi's consent, shipped
her personal furniture to Haifa. She then did a beautiful thing that
pleased the Guardian immensely. She gave her home, "The Bahá'í
Shrine", at 1548 Pine Avenue West, to the Faith. It is now registered
in the name of the National Spiritual Assembly of Canada.
When she finally returned to the Holy Land, she found Shoghi
Effendi waiting for her at the top of the staircase, in their own
private apartment in the Master's House. He was so thrilled with her
achievements on this trip that he had prepared a special gift for her
homecoming and handed her his gift right there on the stairs. Years
later, she showed me the exquisite tooled-leather folder which framed
two beautiful sheets of illuminated paper inscribed by Shoghi
Effendi's own hand. He had written in English on one side and in
Persian on the other, and the gist of the words were something like:
"Welcome Amatu'l-Bahá,
<p54> welcome. You return victorious in discharging your manifold
duties. Your martyred mother and your saintly father are proud of
you, and your Guardian is well pleased with you." These are naturally
not the Guardian's own words, but just what I remember of them.
The last years of our beloved Guardian's life were unusually
busy for Amatu'l-Bahá. The International Archives Building was being
constructed and Shoghi Effendi had begun to buy the appropriate
furnishings for it during his summers in England. With Rúhíyyih
Khánum's help he searched for and found all the ornaments and
cabinets needed to house the precious relics of the Faith. Rúhíyyih
Khánum would often say, "Shoghi Effendi was the hunter and I was his
hunting dog." She would go out and look for what he needed, and
whenever she found the appropriate object, she would come and tell
him about it. Then they would go together and if he liked the object,
he would purchase it.
She once asked Shoghi Effendi for a piece of land on the grounds
of their home to make a garden of her own and he offered her a little
comer at the back of the house to do with as she pleased. This she
worked on with great enthusiasm, making a plan for a fish pond and
flower beds which when completed transformed the patch into a
beautiful little garden. When Shoghi Effendi was buying eagles to
ornament the Shrine gardens, she found a small stone eagle herself,
and since he agreed that she might have it, she placed her own eagle
on the roof of a little building by her pool and garden. During this
time too, and usually till quite late at night, which was her only
free time, she designed and decorated the three rooms in the Master's
House which Shoghi Effendi had given to her to furnish with her
Montreal furniture. 'Abdu'l-Bahá's House was extremely austere. They
had been prisoners and exiles and
<p55> had accumulated no furniture of any value. Only the Master's
drawing room, where He received non-Bahá'í officials at the end of
His life, was furnished by the Greatest Holy Leaf with a set of
matching chairs and divans which she had bought in Beirut. Now that
Rúhíyyih Khánum had her own furniture, she began to make this home
her own. She created an exquisite library which she later used for
special dinner parties, particularly for dignitaries, and she called
her beautiful drawing room "Montreal in Haifa".
From 1952 onwards, when some degree of safety and order was
restored to Israel, Shoghi Effendi re-opened the opportunity for
pilgrimage, and the friends, deprived for a period of over ten years,
started coming to the Holy Land in groups of nine, from both the East
and the West. To welcome them, to cater to their needs, and respond
to their concerns was a considerable task in itself which consumed
not only many hours of the Guardian's time but those of Rúhíyyih
Khánum as well. All three meals for both Pilgrim Houses, East and
West, as well as for the domestic help, were prepared in the kitchen
of 'Abdu'l-Bahá's House and it was Rúhíyyih Khánum who had to plan
for and prepare these unending meals in the face of great shortages
of all kinds of essential foods in the post-war years.
In 1957, the beloved Guardian and Rúhíyyih Khánum left together
for their summer vacation for the last time. The Guardian was very
tired. As usual, he maintained all his correspondence in his absence
and carried with him all his notes for his map of the Ten Year
Crusade, which was approaching its midway point. In August that year
he thrilled the Bahá'ís of the world with a two-fold message. The
first part was the announcement of five Intercontinental Conferences
to celebrate this midway point of the Crusade, and the second was his
appointment of
<p56> eight more Hands of the Cause in different continents. Everyone
was filled with anticipation. Everyone looked forward to jubilation
and celebration ahead. We in Uganda were thrilled beyond belief, for
we had learned with awe and excitement that our precious Amatu'l-Bahá
Rúhíiyyih Khánum had been designated by the beloved Guardian to
represent him at the African Conference in Kampala. She was going to
come to us!
And then, on November 4th, the cataclysmic news of Shoghi
Effendi's passing rocked the Bahá'í world. He had died in London, we
heard in disbelief, and was gone from amongst us. The community of
the Greatest Name, which had for thirty-six years looked to him for
guidance, for encouragement, for leadership and, above all, for his
encompassing love, was lost, and bereft. And there was no one to turn
to but Amatu'l-Bahá, though she was the most forlorn of all at that
time. Her mother, whom she adored, had died far from her side, and
her father, whom she so cherished, was gone too, and now she had lost
her Guardian who had replaced them both. Her own heart-wrenching
story, entitled "The Passing of Shoghi Effendi", written soon after
his death, tells us everything that could be told. And yet, we will
never know what she must have felt in her soul on that cold November
morning in a hotel bedroom when she found her beloved gone. She was
alone, and as far as she knew the Guardian had left no will. It was
up to her to take the next step to ascertain what should be done.
<p57>
III
FINAL YEARS OF
SERVICE AND TRAVEL
<p58>
<p59>
III
The devastating shock of the sudden passing of beloved Shoghi
Effendi remained with Amatu'l-Bahá throughout her life. She told me
more than once, usually at times of sad despondency, which were rare,
that on that terrible morning when she went towards his bed and
greeted him as usual, when she received no answer and touched him,
when she found him cold and realized with a stab of pain that he was
gone, her instant reflex was to kill herself. She said that such a
state of mind and heart did not last long, however, for she knew only
too well that he would not be pleased with her if she had done this.
He had trained her for twenty years and entrusted his affairs to her
hands. How could she fail him now, at that moment of distress? In the
early years when we came to Haifa, Ali and I heard her say several
times that during their last summer in London, Shoghi Effendi had on
one occasion told her, "I don't want to go back to Haifa, you go
alone, you know what to do." She said that at the time she had
attributed this statement to his extreme tiredness and despondency,
as he was ill with severe influenza. But later when she remembered
his words, it gave her courage and self-assurance. The fulfilment of
all his hopes and the completion of all his aspirations for the Ten
Year Crusade became of uppermost importance to her. His good pleasure
became the goal and object of her existence. From that moment to the
end of her life her priorities never wavered.
In the face of her own immeasurable personal loss, however, it
is remarkable to consider with what self-abnegation her heart turned
to her fellow believers at that
<p60> critical time of trial, with what heroism, courage and
compassion she became the lighthouse to guide and show us the way to
safety. She appealed with all her soul to the unseen Source of life
and light, and then set about doing what needed to be done. All
around her, friends were prostrate with grief, helpless with sorrow,
leaving her to rise alone to the painful task in front of her, for
the sake of her beloved Shoghi Effendi. She had to inform the Hands
of the Cause and the Bahá'í world of this tragic event in such a
manner as might lessen as much as possible the shock waves it was
bound to cause. She had to tell the heart-broken believers to come to
his funeral and bid their Guardian a last farewell. She went around
London looking for a befitting burial ground and found it. She
searched for a shroud and chose the casket and bought it. She saw to
every detail in the sad days that followed. And the day after the
funeral, when she was driving away from the graveside, she saw in her
mind's eye a vision of a column, an eagle and a globe, and she
conceived the monument above his grave. She remembered how fond
Shoghi Effendi had been of beautiful columns, and how he had said it
was a pity that in his gardens there was no place for a single
column. With this thought in mind, she designed the graceful column
rising over his grave and placed the globe on it, surmounted by the
symbol of his victories: the majestic eagle, with its wings open. Was
it ready to fly?--Or had it perhaps just alighted from its lofty
heights?
On the 15th of November Rúhíyyih Khánum arrived in Haifa,
accompanied by her dear friend and colleague, the Hand of the Cause
Milly Collins. Three days later the first Conclave of the Hands of
the Cause began in Bahjí. It was during the first days of this
Conclave that they searched for the will of Shoghi Effendi and did
not find
<p61> it. At the end of that historic meeting, the Hands of the Cause
informed the benumbed community of the Most Great Name that there was
no other recourse but to turn with heart and soul to the explicit
directives in {The Dispensation of Bahá'u'lláh}, which Shoghi Effendi
had referred to as his Will and Testament, to complete the goals of
the Ten Year Crusade which he had bequeathed to them before he died,
and to arrange for the election of the Universal House of Justice at
the end of that period, the only infallible source of guidance for
the future.
During that first year after Shoghi Effendi's passing, Rúhíyyih
Khánum spent most of her time in Bahjí and slept in the Mansion.
Apart from carrying out all her heavy administrative duties, she
threw herself into physical work, cleaning the Shrine and working in
the gardens. She could not bear the emptiness and the loneliness of
her apartment in Haifa. The next five or six years were perhaps the
saddest and hardest in her entire life. Her {Poems of the Passing}
are the best witness to her broken heart. The first poem of this
collection, "A Waste, a Waste the World to Me" was written on
December 2nd, barely a month after the beloved Guardian's passing.
The messages of the Hands of the Faith written during this
period give us a glimpse of the back-breaking responsibility which
these brave men and women so ably shouldered in protecting the Cause
of God and leading the Bahá'ís of the world to their final victory.
The Hands of the Cause who gathered together at their Conclaves were
strong individuals from both the East and the West. Their primary aim
and objective was to direct and hold together the affairs of the
Cause of God but there often seemed to be unfathomable gaps in their
conflicting points of view. Mr. Samandarí, the oldest and one of the
most respected and loved among the Hands, used to say that the role
<p62> Amatu'l-Bahá played in those early gatherings was vital. She
became the bridge between cultures and languages, a Westerner imbued
with Eastern understanding. Her horizons had been widened and
stretched by Shoghi Effendi. As a result of her deep sense of
fairness and her ability to see clearly both sides of any argument,
the gaps were gradually narrowed and negotiated.
Amatu'l-Bahá demonstrated her own, immediate commitment to
service after the passing of the Guardian when she accepted to attend
the first of the series of the Inter-continental Bahá'í Conferences
called by the beloved Guardian to mark and celebrate the midway point
of the Ten Year Crusade. Initially, her grief was so intense that she
did not want to go, but her fellow Hands convinced her that since it
had been the wish of Shoghi Effendi, she must do so. She travelled
with Dr. Lutfu'lláh Hakím, a member of the International Bahá'í
Council, who had been designated by Shoghi Effendi to escort
Amatu'l-Bahá on that trip. Her dear cousin Jeanne Chute with her
husband Challoner also accompanied her. Although Rúhíyyih Khánum was
in mourning, and wore black for one year after Shoghi Effendi's
passing in accordance with the custom of the East, she altered this
custom for the duration of her trip to Africa and arrived at Entebbe
Airport dressed beautifully in a simple white suit. She told me
afterwards that all her clothes for that Conference had been seen and
approved by the Guardian the previous summer, and this was one of the
reasons why she did not come to Kampala in mourning clothes. She also
wanted to create the sense of jubilation during this Conference the
way Shoghi Effendi had anticipated it should be, and she knew that a
mood of mourning would not allow for this. Her standard in life was
always his approval and his good pleasure.
<p63>
Over 900 people stood up in sorrowful awe as she entered that
Conference Hall in Kampala, on January 24th, 1958. She was tall,
erect and very beautiful. And then, 400 African Bahá'ís raised their
voices and began to sing "Alláh-u-Abhá", softly and spontaneously.
The air was so charged with love, so pent-up with emotion as
Amatu'l-Bahá walked up the central aisle, that we were all shaken. We
felt lifted to higher realms. When she stood before us to address the
Conference, her voice broke and tears came to her eyes several times.
But the waves of deep love and sympathy in that audience were
tangible; they enveloped and caressed her, and at the end assuaged
her sorrow. She often said the love of the friends, particularly the
Africans, was like a balm to her soul and a healing for her grief at
that time. She also said that Africa was the continent that brought
most joy to the heart of Shoghi Effendi at the end of his life. That
was why she chose to place the continent of Africa on the front of
the globe surmounting his grave. Her love for the Africans and their
continent became a permanent part of her life afterwards. She brought
to that Conference a wider perspective, a global outlook, an allembracing point of view that we had been lacking, and she went back
from it recharged with hope and courage to continue.
Although she travelled to different conferences and to the
Dedications of both Mother Temples of Africa and Australasia during
the Custodianship of the Hands, her historic journeys for which she
is best remembered by the friends did not begin until after the
election of the Universal House of Justice. One of the most important
trips during this interregnum period, however, was her visit to major
communities in the United States and Canada in 1960. When Mason Remey
made his idiotic self-appointed claim as Guardian, and sent word that
he was
<p64> going to attend the National Convention in Wilmette to proclaim
himself to the Bahá'ís, the Custodians of the Faith asked Rúhíyyih
Khánum, who knew Mason from her earliest childhood, to be present at
that occasion and protect the assembled friends from any negative
influence that he might try to exert on them. Through her wisdom, her
courage, her firmness in the Covenant, she was able to infuse and
reinforce in the hearts of the friends the spirit of confidence and
steadfastness.
In 1961, the election of the International Bahá'í Council took
place. This Council, which was the precursor of the Supreme Universal
House of Justice, was destined to be of great assistance to the Hands
in the preparation for that first International Bahá'í Convention. It
helped the Hands to compile the marvellous statistical booklet at the
end of the Ten Year Crusade, as well as to make all the other
logistical arrangements. One of the major decisions of the Hands
during this period was that Rúhíyyih Khánum should undertake the
completion of the interior of the International Archives Building.
Again, in order to complete this task she turned for assistance to
the younger members of the newly elected Council. Shoghi Effendi had
bought beautiful Chinese and Japanese furniture during the last year
of his life for the purpose of decorating and displaying the holy
relics, and these had to be carefully arranged and meticulously
prepared for their precious contents. Artistry, a sense of
proportion, a strict adherence to the placement of the objects
according to the priority of their importance--all these guided
Amatu'l-Bahá in her task. The following acknowledgement written by
the Hands of the Cause in the Holy Land on August 28th, 1961,
expresses the significance and the results of what she did:
<p65>
[.]
[.//]
.......... We were so impressed by the effect that has been achieved
in the Archives Building that we feel we should write to express to
you our appreciation... The interior is truly worthy of the purpose
for which the building was designed. Many generations of Bahá'ís will
be grateful for the cumulative backbreaking efforts which were put
into making the Archives Building a fitting place for the holy relics
it will contain, though they may not be aware of the difficulties and
strains under which the result was achieved.
[.///]
[.]
The triumphant conclusion of the Ten Year Crusade of the beloved
Guardian, in April of 1963, was crowned by the election of the longawaited Universal House of Justice in Haifa. After consultation and
with the approval of the Hands of the Cause, Amatu'l-Bahá arranged to
conduct the opening session of this first International Bahá'í
Convention in the House of 'Abdu'l-Bahá itself. It was highly
symbolic that the election should take place in that blessed House,
which had played such a significant role in the unfoldment of the
Administrative Order of Bahá'u'lláh. With the help of some of the
Council members, she painstakingly measured the central hall, as well
as the four rooms opening into it, and confirmed that the space was
just large enough for exactly the right number of chairs to seat all
the attendants.
"The Most Great Jubilee" was truly unforgettable. How thrilling
was that morning of the first election of the Universal House of
Justice, and how great the celebration which followed it in Bahjí at
the Shrine of the Blessed Beauty! To befittingly honour the occasion,
Rúhíyyih Khánum had ordered thousands of roses and carnations to
carpet the inner rooms of all three Shrines. With just a handful of
helpers she worked through the day and all through the night, till
the early hours of
<p66> dawn, nipping the buds and culling the blossoms to lay thick
upon the ground. This lovely gesture was to become a tradition that
would be followed in later years, and was an exquisite example of
Rúhíyyih Khánum's aesthetic and spiritual sensibilities combined. The
beauty and the fragrance of the Shrines on that day were imprinted in
the hearts and memories of all present. She opened that International
Bahá'í Convention and every successive one, till that of April 1998.
After the successful election of the Supreme Body, Rúhíyyih
Khánum and the Hands of the Cause of God rejoiced with 7,000 Bahá'ís
in London in the majestic Royal Albert Hall for the celebration of
the first Bahá'í World Congress. It was on this occasion that the
Universal House of Justice presented its very first statement to the
Bahá'í world, in which tribute was paid to those who
[.]
[.//]
.......... share(d) the victory with their beloved commander, he who
raised them up and appointed them. They kept the ship on its course
and brought it safe to port. The Universal House of Justice, with
pride and love, recalls on this supreme occasion its profound
admiration for the heroic work which they have accomplished ... the
reality of the sacrifice, the labour, the self-discipline, the superb
stewardship of the Hands of the Cause of God.
[.///]
[.]
Amatu'l-Bahá personally invited a number of indigenous Bahá'ís
to attend this historic event as her personal guests, from Africa,
South America and Australia. "Uncle" Fred, that dignified, old
Aborigine from Australia, was among them and his stalwart faith was a
source of joy and pride to her. Her deeply moving and thoughtprovoking talk on Shoghi Effendi's life on this occasion was a
masterpiece of eloquence and poignancy. And none who saw
<p67> her there could forget the emotions experienced as the dear
friends from Africa softly chanted the rise and fall of "Alláh-u-
Abhá" once more, just as they had done at the Kampala Conference
after the passing of the Guardian. And none who heard them there
could restrain the stab of loss and sorrow and the thrill of joy as
we brought his Ten Year Crusade to its final and triumphal close.
Rúhíyyih Khánum's systematic travels around the globe began in
the year 1964. Many times, both privately and publicly, Rúhíyyih
Khánum would talk about the genesis of these unique trips. She would
recount an incident in the lifetime of Shoghi Effendi, when one day,
as he was passing by her desk, he stopped and looked at her and said,
"What will become of you after I die?" She was shattered by this
unexpected remark and began to weep, say-ing, "Oh Shoghi Effendi,
don't say such terrible things. I don't want to live without you." He
paid no attention, however, and after a pause continued, "I suppose
you will travel and encourage the friends". She would say this was
the only remark he ever made about what she should do with her life
after his passing. And so it was that, when she was somewhat freed
from her arduous administrative duties and the affairs of the Cause
were placed under the infallible guidance of the Universal House of
Justice, she took these words as his last instructions to her and did
her utmost to fulfil his hopes.
In the course of her long life she travelled to 185 countries,
dependencies and major islands of the globe. But while she visited
just 31 countries in the first 54 years, she travelled in all the
rest during her last years, from 1964 until her final trip in 1997.
When I tried to count the number of territories she visited in these
34 years, I came up with the astounding figure of 154. Many of these
countries were visited more than once, and some, like
<p68> India, were honoured by her presence as many as nine times.
But travelling was not the only thing she did during this period
and her trips were of such a variety that the best way to look at
them is through the range of activities which they involved. Indeed,
the wide spectrum of her achievements, from 1964 until her last
official engagement in April of 1998, leaves the mind reeling with
disbelief. To stand back for a brief moment and look at all that she
accomplished in 34 years dazzles the sight. Her many activities
scintillate like multi-coloured rays of light reflected through a
crystal window. The single-minded purity of that light was one:
devotion to the Covenant; but its expression was infinitely varied,
richly diverse. One is reminded of May Maxwell's words written to and
about her beloved daughter many years ago:
[.]
[.//]
.......... I really feel, Mary, that the great spiritual blessings
which are coming to you in guiding so many souls to the Blessed
Cause, are not only due to the power of spiritual attraction which
'Abdu'l-Bahá gave you, but also to your strict obedience to the
instructions of Shoghi Effendi.
[.///]
[.]
Though I was privileged to travel with her on some of her
remarkable journeys during this time, I can only write of all that
she accomplished in their course with my head bowed in admiration,
acutely aware of my inadequacy to summarize her achievements.
Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum used to say, "I have lived five lives in
this one life", and this remark could just as well apply to her
trips, for she was certainly covering at least five times as many
activities in the course of a single journey as any other normal
traveller might have done.
In each country she performed multiple services for
<p69> the Cause. Her role as Ambassador of the Bahá'í Faith, for
example, was remarkable in itself. Everywhere she went she met with
Heads of State and high-ranking authorities at the national, local or
even village levels, and moved with complete ease from one class of
society to another. Although she herself was in every way queenly and
worthy of honour and respect, she always approached these emblems of
material power and political authority with deference and a natural
humility. From the first moment of her audience, she would explain
that her visit was in the nature of a courtesy call, and nothing
more. She would invariably state that she had come from the World
Centre of the Bahá'í Faith and was visiting the Bahá'ís in that
country, who were a strictly apolitical and non-partisan people,
well-wishers of the government and obedient to its laws. When asked
by the National Spiritual Assemblies of these countries to raise the
question of Bahá'í registration or make any other request during the
course of her official audiences, she would always refuse. She would
then explain to the Bahá'ís that her purpose in meeting any officials
or dignitaries was to introduce them more intimately to the
principles of the Faith and create an atmosphere of trust so that
later on, when she had gone away, the Bahá'í institutions could more
easily approach the government and make their own requests. This
policy invariably worked.
In Africa alone she met with 17 Heads of State and was
instrumental in helping the Bahá'ís achieve many of their legal
goals. The highest in rank and the leader she most valued meeting in
all her travels was Emperor Haile Selassie of Ethiopia. She greatly
admired his nobility, his courage and his uprightness. The Head of
State whose meeting brought her the greatest joy and pride was His
Highness Malietoa Tanumafili II of Western Samoa,
<p70> the first ruling monarch to embrace the Cause of Bahá'u'lláh.
In all her encounters, she strove to be positive and looked for every
opportunity to offer praise and appreciation in her dealings with
state officials, even if very little was called for. When she met the
Prime Minister of India, Indira Gandhi, for example, she praised her
courage and high ideals and assured her of her prayers. No wonder
that proud lady was touched and responded with warm respect and
reverence. She always maintained a high standard of propriety in
these matters, and when she shared the platform or sat at dinner with
such people as Prince Philip of Great Britain or the Archbishop of
Canterbury, with Governors-General and Ambassadors, she invariably
won their admiration and respect, not only for herself but most
importantly for the Cause of Bahá'u'lláh. This was her ultimate
concern. Rúhíyyih Khánum truly had no personal ambition; she was not
in the least interested in meeting or moving in such company for its
own sake or her pleasure. It was only for the Cause that she would
accept any appointments and invitations of this kind.
Another activity which she undertook in the course of her many
travels was contact with the representatives of the media. She must
have had hundreds of newspaper, radio and television interviews, in
the capital cities around the world as well as in the large and small
towns of every country she visited. No matter where the interview
took place, no matter how insignificant or important, she agonized
over what she would say and never took the opportunity for granted.
Before going to meet a journalist or be filmed in a studio she would
always pray and ask for God's guidance, His assistance and, above
all, His protection. She used to tell the friends that when they met
the representatives of the media, their principal aim
<p71> should be to create a good impression of the Faith. "If these
people only remember one thing, that the word 'Bahá'í means something
good, you have achieved your purpose", she used to say. She would
advise the friends to have enough printed information about the
teachings and concepts of the Faith always available in advance as
hand-outs, because the media representatives never remembered verbal
information correctly. All they remembered was the impression they
received. "Make every effort to make this worthy of Bahá'u'lláh", she
urged the friends. Many of the articles that appeared after
interviews with the press portrayed Rúhíyyih Khánum's personal charm
and candour. In a newspaper in Nigeria, for example, a cheeky young
reporter wrote a very good article on the Bahá'í Faith, ending with
this comment: "Madame Rabbani, you are always welcome in our country;
next time you come please bring your daughter, who must be very
beautiful"! So many times, either on radio or television, the
interviewer would become so interested in Amatu'l-Bahá that he would
increase the time allotted to her, on occasion by half an hour.
Another vital service rendered by Amatu'l-Bahá in the course of
her many travels was her role as the representative of the Universal
House of Justice at national and international Bahá'í Conferences
across the planet. Her talks were both instructive and memorable on
these occasions. Standing on platforms on behalf of the Sacred
Institution she served, in the course of Bahá'í Conventions at
Ridván, at youth conferences and Native gatherings, at inaugurations
of Bahá'í Temples and other great historical events to which the
Bahá'ís had streamed from all the quarters of the globe, she was
erect and regal and forever memorable, the essence of dignity and
beauty. Her mastery of just the right word on each of
<p72> these occasions. her ability to draw out her audience and touch
people's hearts, her clear and simple logic which made sense to
everyone alike, and, above all, her wit and her bewitching sense of
humour--these qualities endeared her to and charmed her audiences.
Who could ever forget her visible joy who saw her at New York City at
the second Bahá'í World Congress? Who could forget her eloquence who
heard her speak, in Paris, in Machu Picchu, or Auckland? Although
Rúhíiyyih Khánum did not consider herself a pious person who spent
much time in prayer, I believe she had a genuine reverence which was
very private and unpretentious. When asked, she attributed her power
of public speaking to the fact that at the beginning of her marriage
Shoghi Effendi had recommended that she memorize the beautiful prayer
of 'Abdu'l-Bahá which begins, "O Lord, my God and my Haven in my
distress! My shield and my Shelter in my woes!..." and which
concludes with the poignant sentence: "Loose my tongue to laud Thy
name amidst Thy people, that my voice may be raised in great
assemblies and from my lips may stream the flood of thy praise." She
also attributed it to the advice given by 'Abdu'l-Bahá to May
Maxwell, to turn her heart to Him, pray, and then speak, for Rúhíyyih
Khánum herself followed this advice faithfully. She gave talks with
the same degree of resourcefulness in French, in German and in
Persian. I remember when we were at a meeting with the Bahá'ís of
Mauritius, she asked her audience whether they wanted to hear her
French, which was grammatically rusty and a muddle of genders, or
have her speak in English, with a translator? The whole audience.
with one voice, begged her to speak in French and I, who understand
the language most imperfectly, can testify to the impact of her
words, despite the faults! Persian also was a language
<p73> she had learned orally and by herself. She didn't know much
grammar and her vocabulary was limited and rather quaint. Despite its
limitations, however, she always knew exactly what she wanted to say,
and said it forcefully, simply, choosing exactly the right words. The
Persians, I know, just loved her ingenuity in inventing new words all
of her own, a combination of the cross-fertilization of languages and
a lively visual imagination translated into words.
One of the most memorable services in the course of Amatu'l-
Bahá's many travels was the time she spent and the attention she gave
to perfectly ordinary people in the peripheries of society. Rúhíyyih
Khánum was at her happiest with villagers, wherever they might have
been. When asked what was her favourite spot, the place she had
enjoyed most in all her travels, she would often say that it was in
the villages and jungles of the world.
She rarely missed the opportunity to validate people in far
flung and remote places whom few had heard of and whose simple
actions none might ever know. I remember, when we were travelling in
Africa, we arrived in a small town on the border of Kenya and Uganda
and were invited to lunch in the home of an elderly man, a Bahá'í of
some years. They told us he used to work as a cook in the city for
the Europeans and had now retired. He had set an elegant table for
his precious guest in his small, clean and beautiful hut, with a
spotless, brilliant white linen tablecloth and matching napkins, and
he served us a most delicious rice and curry. Rúhíyyih Khánum, who
herself loved beautiful table settings, was thrilled and made him
feel that his home was a palace and his hospitality that of a king.
We never forgot that lunch and I don't think our host ever forgot it
either.
How often in the course of these 40 years by her side
<p74> did I witness shy, unsure, sometimes dejected human beings
uplifted by her genuine kindness, her praise and patience. The
lowered head would be raised a little, self-assurance would be
restored and dignity regained. Her instinct was to approach people
with an open, candid heart, simply and unselfconsciously. It was to
look for positive qualities in people and verbalize these. But though
she was the perfect diplomat in some respects, she was also very
direct and often said things frankly and outspokenly. At times she
may have hurt people's pride. However, I witnessed how many times she
regretted it, how much she felt remorse afterwards if she thought she
may have been too harsh with anyone. The driving impulse in all her
encounters with the Bahá'ís was to stir them to action and rouse them
up so that they would teach the Faith. And often, even when she was
critical of individuals, her intent was to protect the Cause. If her
manner may at times have appeared abrupt, and initially formidable to
those who approached her, it was often the result of her own innate
shyness, which few people guessed, for she was disconcerted, to the
end of her life, by effusiveness and adulation. While she was a
stickler for the respect due to the rank she occupied as Hand of the
Cause of God and the widow of Shoghi Effendi, she was the last person
to stand on ceremony with the friends.
Seldom did Rúhíyih Khánum travel, especially on her longer
trips, without a pet. Her love for animals was such that she would
gladly accept the extra hardship of tending and cleaning her pets for
the simple joy of their company. She used to say, "I get strength and
vitality from animals." Her most famous and widely-travelled pets are
worthy of mention. There was, for example, the agouti, named Usu
after his birth place, the island of Usupoto in
<p75> Panama. Usu travelled with her through all the 11 countries in
South America, arrived safely in Haifa, and lived a very happy and
pampered life for 20 full years. Or there was Tooti, her African Grey
parrot from Ghana, who journeyed with us through 30 countries in
Africa and gave us a great deal of joy. Tooti was a terrific talker,
and learned many languages from the numerous hotel employees along
the way; she also announced our arrival everywhere with a loud
"Rabbani African Safari"! Or there were the two mischievous
chipmunks, Tillie and Chips, and the lame parrot called Horatio who
were her companions on her trip to the islands in the Indian Ocean.
Or the beautiful baby ocelot she bought from a vendor in a small town
in Ecuador, who successfully travelled with us through 13 islands in
the West Indies. And of course there were many others. Her motto was,
"You only live once; why not get clean joy out of it?"
Rúhíyyih Khánum was one of the most hard-working human beings
that I have ever met. She often used to say, as she kneeled to scrub
the tiles or polish the floor or stood on the top of a ladder
painting walls and ceilings, "Rúhíyyih Khánum has done a great many
things in life which Mary Maxwell would never have dreamed of doing."
And she never asked anyone to do anything which she had not or could
not also have done herself. Much of her hard work was centred on her
home in Haifa, which was the hub of continuous activity until the
last two and a half years of her life. She kept a regular entourage
around her as busy as herself and trained them rigorously in the arts
of practical maintenance at the World Centre.
Her first and foremost concern was always the upkeep and care of
the Shrines. I remember the only nightmares she ever had, which were
very rare, were about some harm done to the Bahá'í Holy Places or
disrespect shown
<p76> towards the Shrines. From the time of the election of the first
Universal House of Justice, she assumed the task of educating those
of us who were new in Haifa in how to care for the Holy Places. She
taught us how to clean the Sacred Shrines, how to wash each crystal
in their chandeliers, how to arrange and freshen the flowers, to
restore the curtains and curtain linings, how to cover the Thresholds
with petals, simply and informally, without rigidity, Her constant
reminder was to keep these precious Holy Shrines exactly the way
Shoghi Effendi had arranged them. "This is not a place of innovation,
but preservation" was her advice to all, and she was acutely
sensitive if anyone tried to introduce his or her own likes or
dislikes into this area of service. She also undertook periodically
to inspect and keep all the Holy Places in order, framing pictures,
replacing the frayed and worn out fabrics, keeping an eagle eye on
any deviation from the Guardian's ways. When she travelled to
countries where she could find fine textiles, table cloths or
ornaments needed in the future for these Holy Places or the Shrines,
she would purchase these and keep them in the depot, in her home, for
future use. For she was a very practical person. She knew these
material things would break, grow old, be lost and need to be
replaced and she literally created a bank of appropriate furnishings
for these Holy Places for the future which were in keeping with the
style and taste of the past.
Economy was her constant cry and she deplored waste in any form.
How many houses she furnished with second-hand furniture found in her
forays in the flea markets of Haifa and Jaffa. How much she saved the
Fund with her shrewd bargains and strict economies. The renovation
and furnishing of the House of 'Abdu'lláh Páshá engrossed her
interest for several years. She collaborated with and helped the
Universal House of Justice not
<p77> only in its renovation, but also in its interior decoration.
She searched for and found period Turkish furniture in 'Akká, Nablus
and other areas, with the help of Salah Jarrah, the faithful servant
of Shoghi Effendi. This House in particular is a masterpiece of her
creativity and artistic ability.
One of her most endearing projects in between journeys, when she
returned to Haifa, was the never-to-be-forgotten bazaars she
organized in her own home. She was consummately skilled at bringing
people together and making them work in joy and harmony for a cause.
In the case of her wonderful bazaars, this particular cause combined
two absorbing interests: the Fund and flea markets. When there were
still relatively few of us in Haifa, she would involve almost
everyone in helping her, and raised large amounts of money for causes
close to her heart, such as the Bahá'í Temple in India, or special
teaching projects in different parts of the world. This was one of
the many ways in which she brought joy to the House of the Master,
which had in the past seen so much grief and sorrow. Without ever
violating its sacredness or intruding into its heart of sanctity, she
opened wide its doors and filled its rooms with delighted laughter,
for she was one of those rare human beings who know how to combine
deep reverence and respect with complete freedom of heart and
spontaneity of expression.
Another of Amatu'l-Bahá's important social activities in Haifa
was her role as the Hostess. Her beautiful library, which was her
official dining room for special guests and occasions, and her
charming drawing room, which she referred to as "Montreal in Haifa",
were the scenes of many elegant dinners and luncheon parties. She
loved setting a beautiful table, arranging flowers and overseeing
every detail of the event. Apart from formal dinners, she
<p78> would also give many informal parties, just for fun. After
returning from India, every now and then she would be so homesick for
that country that she would throw an "Indian Night" party. She would
dress the few ladies working at that time in Haifa in her beautiful
saris, trace the floors with exquisite patterns made of coloured
flour, play Indian music, and we would all enjoy delicious, spicy
Indian food under her hospitable roof. And also do the cleaning up
with her afterwards! Or there were her exciting "African Nights" when
all the friends who were either African or connected to the work in
Africa were invited to her home, usually outside in her beautiful
garden, and after a scrumptious dinner would drum and sing to their
hearts' content. How exhilarating were her dinner parties for the new
Counsellors, too, where the guests, numbering over 90 at times, were
squeezed into the main hall, as she would say, "with a shoe horn".
Even the dignified member of the Universal House of Justice, Charles
Wolcott, a distinguished musician himself, was so taken by the spirit
of happiness on one of these occasions that he spontaneously played
on her large African drum, to the intense joy of Rúhíyyih Khánum and
the African Counsellors. Many hundreds of the friends who met
Amatu'l-Bahá on her travels, enjoyed her delightful hospitality and
loving attention when visiting Haifa.
There were, of course, a stream of regular nine-day pilgrims
with whom she also met, twice a month for nine months of the year,
during the course of her last decades in residence in Haifa. This was
a custom and responsibility which went back to her earliest years at
the side of Shoghi Effendi, and which she dutifully maintained until
the last years of her life. She spoke with about 2000 pilgrims each
year in the main hall of the Master's House, giving talks which
provided guidance and inspiration for
<p79> many, and she also kept up a voluminous correspondence,
encouraging institutions as well as individuals and responding to
questions and requests throughout these years.
A particularly important event that took place in Haifa during
this period, and one which brought many hundreds of pilgrims flocking
through the doors of the Master's House, was the Centenary of the
arrival of Bahá'u'lláh in the Holy Land in 1968. That year, two
thousand Bahá'ís gathered in Haifa and 'Akká, many of whom had
crossed the Mediterranean Sea after attending the Palermo Conference
in Sicily. Another extraordinary event in which Rúhíyyih Khánum
participated was the commemoration of the Centenary of the passing of
Bahá'u'lláh, during the Holy Year, 1992. On this occasion, three
thousand Bahá'ís came to the Holy Land and gathered during the
afternoon of May 28th at Bahjí to witness the ceremony during which
Amatu'l-Bahá lowered the cylinder containing the Roll of Honour of
the Knights of Bahá'u'lláh and placed it in its permanent place at
the entrance of the Most Holy Shrine. On the night of His Ascension,
after a devotional program in the Haram-i-Aqdas, we all
circumambulated that blessed Shrine, the paths round which were lined
and lighted by thousands of candles. Rúhíyyih Khánum spent that night
and the night before in the Mansion of Bahjí. She hardly slept the
first night for, despite her advanced age by this time, she and her
small band of helpers worked until the early hours of the morning
carpeting the Shrine with thousands of rose buds and carnations, just
as she had done almost 30 years before. When she completed the
circumambulation, she went into the Mansion, stood on the balcony and
watched in ecstasy and awe the complete ring of Bahá'ís circling
round that Holy of Holies.
Amatu'l-Bahá's legacy to us, apart from the rich
<p80> memories of her personality and the varied activities
associated with her services, also lies in the treasure trove of
books she wrote and films she produced. When one contemplates the
fullness of her days and years, many of which were spent in travel,
one is filled with wonder at how she managed to do so much writing,
which involves staying still and without any distractions for long
periods of time. When did she ever have sufficient time to write such
invaluable books as {The Priceless Pearl}, for example? Often, when
asked how she could conduct such a full social life, fulfil so many
teaching and administrative obligations and complete such a weighty
textbook in the history of our Cause too, she would say, "I worked
according to the pattern of Shoghi Effendi when writing {God Passes
By}." She gathered and read all her material and facts in one year,
making copious notes. Then the following year she wrote the book.
Many of her books were written in the pauses between trips. Her
{Manual for Pioneers}, written with the practical desire to help many
young and inexperienced Bahá'ís across the world, was the result of
her observations while travelling in Africa. She began tak-ing notes
during her trip and then wrote the book in Haifa after she returned.
{The Desire of the World} is a compilation of prayers and personal
meditations which she had collected over the years during the dawn
hours of the Fast period. {The Ministry of the Custodians}, her
masterly compilation covering the interim period before the election
of the Supreme Body, includes a powerful introduction written by
Amatu'l-Bahá and fills a vital gap in Bahá'í history, covering almost
six years of invaluable service of the standard-bearers of the Cause
of Bahá'u'lláh. Her last literary work, {Poems of the Passing}, an
outpouring of her broken heart after the death of Shoghi Effendi, was
printed in 1996 and seems, after her own recent passing,
<p81> to give us words with which to grieve in turn. Although she had
excellent help for typing and other technical matters, Rúhíyyih
Khánum was especially involved with the appearance and layout of all
her books, particularly the covers and dust jackets, which she
herself always chose and sometimes designed. For some of her
publications she even selected the page formatting, and the style and
size of the fonts used. She was not content with delegating any tasks
which she could do herself and mastered many skills as the result, to
oversee their being properly done.
Two documentary films were also produced by Rúhíyyih Khánum in
the course of her life, which she not only featured in herself, but
also directed. Even the smallest detail of the editing and sound
track in these films were subject to her taste and judgement, for she
never engaged in any project if not whole-heartedly. "The Green Light
Expedition" was the fruit of her six months' journey in 1975 through
the Amazon Basin, the Peruvian and Bolivian altiplano, all the way to
the Bush Negroes of Suriname. This two-hour documentary is truly a
classic masterpiece, an expression of her concern for the moral as
well as the environmental plight of people and places so long ignored
and unjustly treated. Her second film, a deeply spiritual experience,
is called "The Pilgrimage", and offers a visual pilgrimage to the
Holy Shrines and sites of the Bahá'í Holy Places in Haifa and 'Akká,
with the privilege of Amatu'l-Bahá as one's guide.
Even if there were all the images of her memorable travels and
all the tapes of her talks at our disposal, how is it possible to
encompass a life as rich and broad as that of Amatu'l-Bahá Rúhíyyih
Khánum's in this inadequate frame of words? She touched and filled my
life and the lives of numerous people everywhere around the world,
not only by giving us a desire to serve but also by bringing
<p82> us joy and laughter, and her relationships have linked many
people over the years. But the primary source of comfort and
happiness to Amatu'l-Baha herself in the last decades of her life
was, above all else, her love for the Universal House of Justice and
her bond with this Institution and its individual members. Every
single year, from the time of its inception in 1963, on the
anniversary of the passing of the beloved Guardian, she received most
heart-warming, most loving tributes from the Supreme Body to the
victories she had won in the previous year. Each Naw-Rúz too, or on
the occasion of her return from her long travels, and also on her
birthday, she received loving and encouraging personal messages from
the Universal House of Justice which warmed her heart. In March of
1987, on the 50th anniversary of her marriage to the beloved
Guardian, the Universal House of Justice gave a banquet in her honour
in the majestic banquet hall of its Seat. This honour was repeated a
decade later on the anniversary of her 60th year in the Holy Land,
and it meant more to her than could be expressed in words. When all
nine members of the Universal House of Justice came to her home for
the last time three weeks before her passing and paid their respects,
when she was quite frail and in bed, such a deep sense of happiness
and contentment enveloped her that it was tangible, like sunlight, in
the room after they left. She lingered quietly in that light a
moment, and then said--"I felt their love; they are my closest
friends." This bond, which symbolized her total dedication to the
Covenant throughout her life, was strong and vibrant to the end and
always reciprocal.
About two weeks before her passing, she was in her bed with her
eyes closed. I thought she was asleep, when suddenly she opened her
eyes, turned towards me and said, "Remember, white over black". She
repeated this twice, and again closed her eyes. I did not know if she
had been dreaming or thinking about something specific. When she
passed away, I remembered this, and remembered too the square piece
of black silk velvet which she owned that was lined and embroidered
so beautifully with exquisite gold thread. She had used this a few
times for the funerals of very special people, such as the Hands of
the Cause Milly Collins and Tarázu'lláh Samandarí, as well as Ethel
Revell. We covered her casket with this, and placed along its full
length a most delicate floral arrangement of white rose buds,
fuchsias and tubular roses. Was this what she had seen?
How befitting her funeral was, held in the large central hall of
the Master's House where she had chaired the election of the first
Universal House of Justice. Accordingly, we followed the same pattern
that she had set on that significant occasion and removed the doors
to the four sides of the hall in order to arrange seats for the large
number of people attending her funeral service. The two Hands of the
Cause were present, together with members of the Universal House of
Justice, the International Teaching Centre Counsellors, and twentyfour Continental Counsellors from all over the world. Also attending
were her family members and representatives from 76 National
Spiritual Assemblies, senior officials from the Canadian and United
States embassies, representatives of the Israeli government, the
mayors of Haifa and 'Akká, other prominent Israeli citizens and a
number of special invited guests. The hall and both sides of the
front entrance were filled with beautiful floral arrangements which
over-flowed down the steps and into the garden of her home. Following
the readings and the chanting of the Prayer for the Dead, she left
for the last time that house which she had entered as a bride 63
years before, her coffin carried
<p84> by members of the Universal House of Justice, This beautifully
crafted coffin of clear American cedar was borne across the street
and lowered into its vault in the centre of the garden opposite by
believers representing a variety of ethnic origins. Her restingplace, too, was heaped on each side by a tribute of flowers from
those who loved her all over the planet, though despite their volume,
how few they seemed before her great achievements. Almost 1,000
people, including pilgrims and volunteers serving at the Bahá'í World
Centre, stood outside her home and in the closed-off street, as well
as in the garden where her grave had been prepared. The interior of
the grave was carpeted on all sides with hundreds of roses and
carnations, just as she had arranged for her beloved Shoghi Effendi
42 years before. And as the rain poured down, more prayers were
recited and chanted before her casket was lowered into the ground.
The rain-storm which had begun on the night she passed away finally
subsided to a drizzle as her precious remains were laid to rest, and
it seemed to me then as though the skies were mingling their tears
with those of all who loved admired and cherished her.
I think, to sum up such a life, there are no adequate words but
those expressed in the message of the Universal House of Justice to
the Bahá'í world after her passing:
[.]
[.//]
19 January 2000
To the Bahá'ís of the World
.......... In the early hours of this morning, the soul of Amatu'l-
Bahá Rúhíyyih Khánum, beloved consort of Shoghi Effendi and the
Bahá'í world's last remaining
<p85> link with the family of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, was released from the
limitations of this earthly existence. In the midst of our grief, we
are sustained by our confidence that she has been gathered to the
glory of the Concourse on High in the presence of the Abhá Beauty.
.......... For all whose hearts she touched so deeply, the sorrow
that this irreparable loss brings will, in God's good time, be
assuaged in awareness of the joy that is hers through her reunion
with the Guardian and with the Master, Who had Himself prayed in the
Most Holy Shrine that her parents be blessed with a child. Down the
centuries to come, the followers of Bahá'u'lláh will contemplate with
wonder and gratitude the quality of the services--ardent,
indomitable, resourceful--that she brought to the protection and
promotion of the Cause.
.......... In her youth, Amatu'l-Bahá had already distinguished
herself through her activities in North America, and later, both with
her dear mother and on her own, she had rendered valuable service to
the Cause in Europe. Her twenty years of intimate association with
Shoghi Effendi evoked from his pen such accolades as "my helpmate",
"my shield", "my tireless collaborator in the arduous tasks I
shoulder." To these tributes he added in 1952 his decision to elevate
her to the rank of Hand of the Cause of God, after the death of her
illustrious father. The devastating shock of the beloved Guardian's
passing steeled her resolve to lend her share, with the other Hands
of the Cause, to the triumph of the Ten Year Crusade, and
subsequently to undertake, with characteristic intrepidity, her
historic worldwide travels.
.......... A life so noble in its provenance, so crucial to the
<p86> preservation of the Faith's integrity, and so rich in its
dedicated, uninterrupted and selfless service, moves us to call for
befogging commemorations by Bahá'í communities on both national and
local levels, as well as for special gatherings in her memory in all
Houses of Worship.
.......... With yearning hearts, we supplicate at the Holy Threshold
for infinite heavenly bounties to surround her soul, as she assumes
her rightful and well-earned position among the exalted company in
the Abhá Kingdom.
The Universal House of Justice
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IV
HIGHLIGHTS OF
HER TRAVELS
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.......... {O that I could travel, even though on foot and in the
utmost poverty, to these regions, and, raising the call of "Yá
Bahá'u'l-Abhá" in cities, villages, mountains, deserts and oceans,
promote the divine teachings! This, alas, I cannot do. How intensely
I deplore it! Please God, ye may achieve it.}
'Abdu'l-Bahá
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