The Altar on the Hearth ======================= Exported from Holy-Writings.com on 2026-06-18 1 clipping 1. Source: Bahá'í Library Online (bahai-library.com), curated by Jonah Winters. Used by permission of the curator. Original citation: George Townshend, The Altar on the Hearth, bahai-library.com. ────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────── • Theá vf ltar on the Hearth By The 'R!v.(jeorge Townshend M.A. (Oxon.) Canon of Clon/ert 'The Talbot 'Press Limited Dublin & Cork Printei in Iláeland at THF. TALBOT PRl•:t-s, Dublin To ul!l Homes that seek Felicity ult its Source CON'T'€.1(TS PAGE Introduction 5 Prelude 7 Of Religion, of Happiness and of the Modern Home 9 For Bride and Groom 21 For Father and ,\!other 29 For Children 53 For the Family 63 For the Aged 95 S,Pecial PraJers and Interce.,s1011s JOI For Individual Use ! 13 L'E11voi 135 Page 4 Introduction. I AM very glad to accede to Canon Townshend's request to write a few words of introduction to this book. In my opinion '' The Altar on the Hearth '' supplies a gap in the bookshelves of our Christian homes, and the time of its publication is peculiarly opportune. These are days of stress and hurry, when all that concerns the materialistic side of life-money, business, amusement-threatens to monopolise the time and thought of parents and children alike. Homes for many are little more than lodgings, places convenient to sleep and eat in, but serving no higher purpose than to supply the physical needs of the human body. We are losing sight of the great truth that home is the training grou:1d for character; and that pure, noble, unselfish characters are the product of homes where first things come first. It is because this little book strives to uplift the everyday life of home and Page s family towards a defmitely spiritual plane that I welcome most heartily its advent. While the spirit of this book is essentially devotional, and there is much that is poetical and very beautiful in its language, there is no vague sentimentalism, for the writer gives meditation and prayer an intensely practical value, and helps us to realise that Christianity is a life before it is a doctrine. I hope this book will find its way into many of our homes, for I am convinced that it is fraught with fruitfulness, and, under God's blessing, will bring to those who read and study it fresh inspiration and help. B. J. PL UN KET (Bishop.) St. Anne's, Clontarf, Dublin. Page 6 Prelude. BE of good cheer I What but the glory of the Light of Light Could cast such shadows on a world forlorn? If our hearts whispered not the hope of morn Would we so hate the horror of this night? What is it else than desperate bitter fear That drives the troops of evil, who know well Their hour is come, to vent their dying rage Upon the people of this heaven-lit age And seek by every means they may to sell Their lost dominion dear? Be of good cheer ! The very depth of our perplexity Amid this whirling world of strife and care Where disillusion beckons to despair Is of itself a call for help, a cry That angels' hearts will not be slow to hear. For it is ever in such a time as ours, When man has ransacked sea and land for rest And never sought the heaven in his own breast, That God reveals once more His hidden powers And in His might draws near. Page 7 Be of good cheer I Though all things change, Truth's kingdom is secure. The forms of faith come, go, and are forgot, But that which they enshrine can perish not. Altars may crumble, worship will endure. Those holy things that God bids man revere Reign on unchecked by man's satanic will; \Visdom and love are of a higher birth Than these frail phantom forces of the earth And take their deathless power from Him Whose will Above all change stands clear. Be of good cheer ! What kings desired in vain God gives to you And in this wondrous day before our eyes Unseals His ancient book of mysteries Making all things in earth and heaven new. Truth hath come down from some far flaming sphere; Lo, in our midst her sa~red fires burn! And see-trace back these countless rays of light To the One Point wherein they all unite, And bow your forehead in the dust to know That God Himself is here ! Page 8 Of Religion, of Happiness, and of the Modern Home. THE purpose of this book is to bear witness to the truth that the power of God is now abroad among men in its fulness, and that happiness in the home (and elsewhere) is to be attained only through conscious communion with that power. Home-life in Christendom to-day is by common report not so harmonious nor so happy as it ought to be, nor a~ it used to be. The saQctity of its ties has been called in question; the old loyalties have been weakened; authority, discipline and order are held in less esteem than formerly. Since the family is the foundation on which the fabric of the nation rests, the instability of the home threatens the well-being of the whole structure of society. In the age of transition such as ours, a degree of uncertainty in the life of the home is doubtless inevitable. Old ideas, old sentiments, old methods have ceased to satisfy, and have been fage 9 (D 658) B suddenly challenged by new knowledge and by new conceptions in almost every phase of human activity. The home reacts to the general confusion. In many ways it suffers as much as the rest of society, but in one way it suffers more. It is more directly and more deeply affected than anyá other human institution by the demand for a change in the relationship between the two sexes. Here in the family (unless a hopeless attempt be made to preserve the sex-tradition of medirevalism) the whole of the old order and the old discipline has at once to be modified. A new balance of power has to be worked o.ut in detail, and established not only between husband and wife, but between father and mother, father and daughter, mother and son, brother and sister. The adjustment is a complex matter, and one of much delicacy. Even with the best intentions on all sides, judgment and tact are indispensable, and a little humour is not amiss. A just solution of the problem enriches, sweetens and uplifts the life and the ideals of the family. But none will wonder that in such a world as we have to-day the process of experiment and change produces in Pag,1. 10 the home many difficulties and some disasters. Behind, however, all other reasons for domestic unrest, there is in reality one which de>minates, and indeed includes, all others. This is the enfeeblement of our belief in religion and in God. Spiritual sloth, covert or open faithlessness have spread like a black death throughout Christendom, and far beyond its borders. The infection has passed from study and council chamber, from street and market into the home itself. It has reached the minds of young and middle-aged, of women and of men. It saturates the mental atmosphere which we all must breathe. Such a condition of heart invariably brings upon mankind definite penalties. Nor is the reason for this just and terrible retribution far to seek. Religion is not one of the aspects of life, but a spirit informing all aspects. It is an attitude of soul towards Truth and God, and only through its energy is man guided to make his intelligence serve his higher nature instead of serving those desires which come to him from below. So long as he remains without religion, and shuts himself Page u from communion with the spiritual realm, man is no better than a human animal. He lives on the animal plane, and is subject to all the limitations and defects of animal nature. His mind is engrossed m purely material things, and he regards the struggle to survive as the highest of all laws: he can see nothing beyond it. Selfinterest rules his life, and he esteems leadership and power as the greatest success. Hence come fear and pride, hatred and jealousy, filling the world with every form of injustice, with oppression, strife, war and misery. True religion is indeed man's sole protection against the evil forces of his own nature. When he abandons this protection, he quickly finds that the lesser constructive forces of life lose their vitality and power. Authority of every kind is weakened. The old bonds and loyalties that helped to hold society together are challenged and rejected. Indiscipline becomes a habit of thought. A general disintegration of home life, and of the body r:olitic sets in, and there ensues such a disruption of the entire social organism as occurred in the early centuries of our era, and as we see Page 12 recurring on a larger scale before our eyes to-day. Nowhere in the wide earth is help to be found. Ingenuity can devise no remedy. Violence cannot cut a path through to safety, nor hold at bay the inevitable doom. Progress in material civilisation, however great, is not of the least avail. The affectation of religion breeds exclusiveness and bigotry, and by introducing into the community another cause of dissension only aggravates the disease. As there exists but one preventive, so there exists but one cure: the reattainment of spirituality and the return to a pure and practical religion. Religion is in truth the most effective instrument for the promotion of order and harmony in the world. No other known force will unite human hearts (in the home or in the outer world) so closely or so firmly as will religion. A community of interest may join together a group of men for a time; but such a combination is weak, and will endure no longer than common advantage dictates. Genuine faith penetrates to the inmost being of men, and makes them truly one in heart and will. The power of a common faith is Page 13 like that of fire that will fuse a dozen bars of iron into one single piece. The power of material interest is like that of a rope which will tie together the iron bars, but will leave them always separate and ready to fall asunder when the bond is removed. So soon as ever a man turns his heart to God he finds himself among conditions which are the exact opposite of those to which he has been used in the lower world of self-centred nature. Here in the spiritual realm the influences that play upon his heart move him to goodwill, concord and amity. The voices of feará and pride are no longer heard. Sweetness and peace and love are breathed upon his •soul. He has indeed entered a new mental world, higher and immeasurably vaster and more powerful than that of matter. From the first he knows that he belongs to this more exalted realm, and under its influence he begins to recognise that his own real self and essence is not physical but spiritual, and that all men being the spiritual offspring of one Father are in truth one, members of one family, one soul in many bodies. The narrow confines of birth and death no longer Page 14 limit his understanding, and he begins to descry something of the eternity of God and of His creation. By degrees he is delivered from the tyranny of the Old Adam. He learns that the emotions and desires which once he served-ambition, anxiety, greed, jealousy, hatred-are born of illusion, based on a misunderstanding of his own real nature, and of the infmite universe in which his soul and spirit dwell. His character changes and is transmuted. Endowed with a wider knowledge of life he no longer seeks self-expression in acts of egoism and usurpation, but proves the reality of his faith by the exercise of justice, and by deeds of compassion, fellowship and charity towards all. Thus does religion annihilate the first causes of disunion and ill-will, and break up the foundations on which all private and public strife are based. A group of people bound together by a common spirituality are proof against the estranging influences of the material world. Whether it be a family, or a nation, or a scattered body of believers representing a crosssection of humanity, like the early Christians, those whom a common Page 15 love for God has joined, men cannot put asunder. When Jesus promised (in effect) that if men would seek first the kingdom of God material well-being would follow, the practical wisdom of His assurance is evident. Ultimately, it is religion that stabilises society. Without it prosperity is never secure, and order can never be complete nor be long maintained. In the great world, therefore, the most vital of all reforms to-day is the reattainment of a pure religion. And as in the nation, so in its microcosm, the household. They who seek to build a happy home can in no wise succeed unless a mutual human love is strengthened by a common love for Him who is the source and cause of all love. The task should not be hard. For in the home there are tendencies which draw man's heart towards higher things. Spirituality is less difficult to attain here than it is in the countinghouse or camp. And until religion calms and ennobles the inner life of the family and its members, there is little hope that it will penetrate the outer world of politics, letters and commerce. Marriage is based on love, and begins at the altar of the Most Page 16 High. It evokes in the hearts of lovers the fairest hopes and the most beautiful ideals. Instinct and custom unite to surround" it with both rejoicing and solemnity. Its earthly blessing of children calls through the years for self-sacrifice and forethought, and confers on even thoughtless parents a deep sense of responsibility. Few do not strive to protect, to guide and train their children to the best of their knowledge and power, and to prepare them against the moral difficulties and dangers which for themselves perhaps have proved too strong. Nor 1s there any school in life more important than the home. The heart and the soul of the child are impressionable almost beyond belief. The little one who seems to be learning no more than how to hold a spoon or pencil, and how to put on its clothes, is in fact absorbing knowledge more quickly than it ever after will from any book or teacher. The acts, the words, the very character of its elders and companions, with .all that makes up its environment, are imprinted on the infant mind. And what is thus acquired is never forgotten. As the s:ipling is bent, the tree will grow. "What you teach a Page 17 child," says the Arab proverb, "you cut in stone. It will never be erased.". Father and mother may-if it be their wish-learn only less than their children. Spirituality is gained from life as well as from books. The simple affections of the home call into action one's better nature; and as every deed has its originating thought, so the ceaseless material demands of every day have their ideal side, and may be used to transform moral weakness into strength, callousness to sensitiveness. If all the members of the family, young and old, unite in a common faith and a common effort there is created a new spiritual power-greater than the aggregate of their individual powers-and this may become the means of God's descent upon the home. While the thoughts and sentiments conveyed in these pages are one and all sincerely the author's own-a transscript from experience, they are not intended to be original in the sense of being singular or even unusual. On the contrary, the author's effort has been to catch and to reflect some of the nobler ideals and aspirations current in this extraordinary age, and to Page 18 express these in a form suited for the devotional purposes of the modern family and its several members. The prayers deal in some measure with the private experiences of the inner religious life, but more particularly and in more detail with the vanous relationships to be found in the family group. They treat of the central ard vital problems which confront husband and wife, father, mother and child. They deal more especially with those earlier years of married life which are the time of experience and adjustment, and are therefore most critical. They come out of actual life, and (except 'in a few instances) have been composed for the use of one particular family or of special friends. In one or two places there is a local reference-the description of a scene or the narration of an incident-but the meaning and the emotion which make the essence of the piece are, it is hoped, the natural property of every parent and child everywhere. The underlying purpose from beginning to end has been to bear witness in the sphere of home life to the truth that the spiritual is the real, and to offer to those who dwell in homes a Page 19 means of expressing the belief that the power of God in its fulness is with us now. Page 20 Prayers and Meditations. FOR 'BRID€ & G'l(OOM. For Bride and Groom. I 0 GOD, look upon us, Thy servants, who have set forth upon this enterprise of married life; and hear our common prayer. Courtship and wedding- are over, and now we kneel alone to Thee upon that hearth which is to be henceforth the centre of our lives. 0 Thou Whose presence we sought to pledge our marriage vows- Thou Whose blessing we invoked, and in Whose Name we made our two lives one: Grant that we may continue according to this beginning. Help us to found in truth an altar on this hearth, and sacrifice ourselves and our lives to Thee and to Thy cause. Amen. 0 GOD, look upon us who have undertaken to create a home, and wish to build it in Thy Name, and to shape it according to Thy Desire. Help us from this beginning to the very end to turn our hearts to Thee, and to seek wisdom and courage and strength from Thee, .Page 2.3 Grant that our love, our happiness, our delight in each other may increase and strengthen, and become more deep and sweet continually. Grant that our hearts may grow ever more warm, more tender, more rich in love, and in love's joy. Grant that our love may be the lig-ht of our life; that it may fill our dwelling with its rays, making our home a place of sweetness and delight, or rest and spiritual peace. Help us to be just to each other; and to know ourselves as equal before Thee in rights and in importance. Help us to find and to preserve that poise and mutual helpfulness which Thou hast appointed for wedded men and women. Help us to combine the diverse spiritual gifts of manhood and of womanhood, that with a twofold strength and a single will we may the better seek Thee in Thy heaven and serve Thee on Thy earth. Teach us who have promised to share our earthly things, to share with one another heavenly things. Let our comradeship be not outward only but inward likewise: the hidden union of two hearts who share in joy Page 24 a common faith and heavenly knowledge. Make Thou this home of ours as happy as a home may be, and all our sister homes throughout the world as happy as our own. Amen. 0 THOU Whose name is Love, and from Whom alone true love proceeds, let this love-bond which in Thy name we bind about our lives be a sign and proof of Thy Presence. Let it be born of Thee; let it be maintained by Thee; and let it lead us ever onward together into closer communion with Thee, through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen. GRANT unto us, who with a common aspiration strive to do only Thy will and to walk only in Thy way, that we may animate, encourage and sustain each other, and so through united effort may obtain what each unaided and alone might never reach nor know. For Jesus' sake. Amen. 0 GOD of pity, Who knowest that human love is of itself frail and mutable, lift up our hearts to Thy heaven, and make us one in Thee that Page 25 (D 65S) C -Our love for one another may partake of Thine own love's immutability and might; through the power of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen. GRANT, 0 God, that we preferring each the other's good may share in harmony all worldly things, and not content with this may seek and share together the hidden treasures of Thy inner worlds, finding continually new fields for search, new ranges of spiritual fellowship and love. Through Jesus Clirist, our Lord. Amen. BIND our souls together, 0 God, with cords of affection and bonds of comradeship, and make us one in heart and spirit, that Thou Who enterest none but lovers' hearts mayst lodge with us and bless our home and neighbourhood with the sweet radiance of Thy Presence. Amen. GRANT unto us, 0 God, the perfect spirit of comradeship that each may have at call in time of spiritual trial an understanding heart, a helping hand, a cheering voice, a sweetening smile. And let the assurance of this Page 26 dear support and sympathy be our married strength to win together the Goal of Thy good pleasure and Thy love; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen. • 0 SELF-REVEALING Lord, Who hast commanded marriage and ordained the Home, reveal Thy will for wedded lovers such as we, and guide us upward on this new path of happiness and love. For Jesus' sake. Amen. IO 0 Goo Who hast constituted all things for a spiritual purpose, reveal to us more and more clearly Thy spiritual purpose in a human marriage. Grant that by our lives together we may prove our marriage was indeed made in heaven, that we were wedded in Thy name and to Thy glory. Train our minds and hearts that we may attain more and more fully the blessings Thou hast prepared for lovers knit in true marriage. Let our marriage strike its roots deep within our hearts, and grow in spiritual strength and beauty till it fulfil Thy spiritual purpose and desire. Amen. Pace 27 A Husband's Prayer in Absence from Home. II CUT me not off, 0 God, from communion with her I love, but let me still guard and protect her though she be far away. Let my homing thoughts be as birds that fly to her and sing in her listening heart songs of my love. Let them be as strong sentinels keeping watch and ward that no evil may come near her. Let them be as suppliants to Thee calling to her aid the angels of Thy presence. Make my love more strong and stedfast, and remove the limits which beset it now that I may have power from Thee to help those I love though I be far away. In Jesus' name. Amen. Page 28 FOR Fe/!11JER & MO'l'HER. A Morning Prayer. 0 WATCHFUL and loving Lord! Keep our little ones this day under Thy protection. Permit no evil influence to reach or to come near them. Preserve them from illness, from accident, and from all mishap. And in the evening bring them home to their rest in safety and happiness. For Jesus' sake. Amen. An Evening Prayer. PRAISE be to Thee, 0 God, Who hast given to these children another day of happiness, and brought them free from harm through the dangers of their waking hours. Grant to them now sweet rest and healthful sleep. And through the night, 0 Thou that sleepest not, keep them in safety beneath the shelter of Thy power and Thy love; for Jesus' sake. Amen. PRAISE be to Thee, 0 God, Who hast given to these children the boon of earthly life, and brought them thus far upon the road that leads to life eternal! Page 31 0 Thou of many gifts, vouchsafe these little ones the mortal boon of health, prosperity and happiness; and since these blessings soon must pass away and be no more, admit them to Thy boundless worlds of love, endow them wi'th imperishable wealth, and baptise them with the spirit of Thine own immortal life; through Christ, our Lord. THIS home is a garden, 0 Lord, which Thy hand has planted in the world, and the hearts of these children are Thy flowers. Do Thou tend them and nourish them. Pour down the rays of Thy truth upon them. Breathe on them with Thy Holy Spirit. Let Thy mercy descend on them like refreshmg rain. So shall these flowers of Thine mature, and bloom in beauty, and shed afar the fragrance of Thy love; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen. PRAISE be to Thee, dear Lord, Who grantest to Thy servants bounty upon bounty. Thou bestowest on us the marriage-blessing of children bringing Page 32 with them a thousand delights; and in this very gift Thou openest to us of Thy grace a new world of setvice to Thee, a new road to Thy good pleasure and favour. Help us, in love and gratitude to Thee, so to direct and train these little ones that they may become men and women after Thine own heart, and may take their place in the world as teachers and exemplars of Thy truth: through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen. 0 THOU, the Lover, the Creator and the Lord of these children, help us their parents to guard and train them not through human love alone, but as an act of love for Thee, and of obedience to Thy command. Grant us selflessness and devotion, that we may be able in our hearts to hear Thy bidding, and understand Thy will for these little ones. Help us to do for .them our utmost in Thy name, and in calm trust to leave the rest to Thee, the All-wise Who lovest these Thy children better yetfar better-than any human parent may love his child. Page 33 LET Reverence towards Thee, dear Lord, and kindness towards all that lives be graven deep into these children's hearts. Give to us, their parents, wisdom and stedfastness, that we may unfold to them, little by little, at the right time and in the right way, the knowledge of Thy Truth, and by the example of our lives may amend whatever is amiss in our teaching. Let them increase day by day in spiritual strength that they may learn of Thee the mystery of prayer, and may attain the reward of conscious communion with Thy Spirit; through Christ, our Lord. Amen. 0 FATHER in heaven, Who givest to a parents' intercession a special privilege, hear Thou our prayer for these children whom Thou hast entrusted to our care. Protect them, we beseech Thee, against the evil that arises in their own hearts, against the contagion of their parents' frailties and imperfections, against the power of those whose hearts are turned from Thee. Page 34 Help us to pray for our children with concentration and humility of spirit, and by force of prayer to keep back, far from them, the evil influences that seek their destruction. In Jesus' name. Amen. 0 THOU Who hast blessed us with Thy gift of children, let not the wonder and the happiness of these days of their infancy ever pass wholly from our hearts! Grant us a strong undying memory of whatever is most precious in these fleeting days, that in the aftertime when our little ones are no longer little we may still keep in our hearts countless images and echoes of their babyhood, may see again their open innocent faces, may hear their voices striving to imitate their elders' speech and recall these tireless infant feats of growing knowledge and gathering strength. So shall the unworldly beauty of these childhood days abide with us forever, and not be wholly lost in the ripe happiness of the later time. Page 35 '' Of such is the Kingdom of Heaven.'' GRANT to these little ones, 0 Lord, that the gifts and qualities which now are theirs through weakness they may make their own by strength. Let them through all the years retain this childlike heart, continuing humble and receptive as now, full of wonder, eager to learn. Increase day by day and year by year their faith that as the children of a Higher Home than •this they may inherit the promise of their Heavenly Father, and even here on earth partake of His Life, His Joy, His •Universal Love. Amen. HERE, 0 Lord, within the precincts of Thy protection, Love is king and Faith and Hope are the lords of thought. But in the world without, Faith and Hope wander in a wilderness and a stranger sits upon Love's throne. Be Thou, 0 Lord, theástrength and shield of these little ones from their life's beginning to its very end. Grant that their love and faith and ['age á36 hope may prevail against every enemy and put to shame all doubt and disbelief. Give them fortitude and power that through childhood and _manhood, in prosperity and in adversity, they may' continue that journey toward Thee which here they have begun, and may to their lives' end bear witness to Thy truth; through Christ, our Lord. Amen. 0 GOD, look on us who with ceaseless care keep watch and ward over these children, and suffer not our anxiety for them to become a sign of lack of trust in Thee. We acknowledge that they are in Thy safe keeping. It is for Thee to appoint unto them their tasks in life, and Thou wilt bestow on them ample strength and means to perform all that Thou requir~st. Help us to pass on to them Thy message, to give to them the best we have to give, and doing this, to leave their souls to Thee in perfect trust. Amen. PRAISE be to Thee, 0 God, for Thy bounty to the weak, the youn_g, the Page 37 humble, and for Thy power whereby Thou doest whatsoever Thou wiliest, unhelped, unhindered, uncomprehended by the thoughts of men ! Thou puttest down the mighty, and dost exalt them of low estate. Thou hidest Thy mystery from the wise and learned, and revealest it to them who are as babes. The scholar and philosopher see and perceive not, read and understand not; the child beholding Thy beauty steps into Thy Kingdom. 0 Loving Lord, Who hast never turned away from a longing heart, nor an appealing cry, hear Thou a parent's prayer and deal with these little ones-these tender branches of the tree of life-according to Thy all perfect knowledge and desire. Amen. 0 LORD, look upon these little ones, children of Thy covenant born beneath the shadow of Thy mercy. Keep them from the first unto the last under Thy protection and suffer them not to follow any desire save what beseems a seeker after Thy truth, and a servant of Thy love. HEAR Thou, 0 God, our prayer for the children of this Age throughout the world! Look with pity on those whose parents have not turned their hearts to Thee nor humbled themselves before Thy deity. By Thy boundless mercy and Thy prevailing will, deliver them out of the darkness that surrounds them, and draw them toward Thy light. Create in their souls a hunger and thirst for righteousness, a longing for reality and truth; and prepare their minds to listen for and welcome Thy glad tidings. And now, 0 God, we beg Thee for these our children and for all others born beneath Thy covenant that Thou wilt endow them with power to recognise and to use to the utmost the blessing Thou hast given them. Grant them strength to stand fast by Thy truth, to uphold Thy cause, and in their time to spread far and near the knowledge of Thy glory and dominion. Amen. FATHER of mine, and of my little son who kneels at my side and lifts his Page 39 voice to Thee, hear Thou his prayer and mine. Protect those whom he loves and prays for. Lead him onward and ever onwar